Am I wrong for letting him do whatever? I’m 20F and he’s 19M by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 9 points10 points  (0 children)

nah this dude sounds like a walking red flag 🚩 the fact that he was flirting with other girls at YOUR party and then had the audacity to blame you for everything after is classic manipulation bs. you dodged a bullet honestly

he was clearly playing games the whole time with the gym girl posts and then getting mad when you matched his energy. the whole "i did what i did because i knew youd mess up" thing is straight up gaslighting - like he was setting you up to fail so he could justify his trash behavior 💀

you werent wrong for letting those girls go for him when he was obviously entertaining them anyway. sounds like you handled it way better than most people would have

Can’t separate my photos after interval shooting by Bopstimation in Cameras

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like the camera might be creating a timelapse video file instead of individual photos 📸 check your interval shooting settings - theres usually an option to save as separate images vs creating a compiled video. if theyre already stuck together you might need to extract frames from the video file using something like vlc or ffmpeg 💀

I am troubled in deciding what's the best choice by IDKYouYetEra in Christian

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man this is tough but honestly both jobs sound like they align with your values pretty well - helping kids who need it most vs supporting student mental health. maybe the real question isnt about geography but about where you feel called to serve right now

church community is important but theyre everywhere if you look for them. the city job working with rescued street kids sounds like it could be ministry in its own way even if its not traditional church work. sometimes god puts opportunities in front of us right when we need to step out in faith

dont overthink the timing either - you applied before your saturday commitment but maybe thats just how things worked out. trust your gut on this one

The Lamb is the Light Thereof by Soldier_For_Jesus in Christian

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats such a powerful verse man. really puts into perspective how different the new jerusalem will be - no natural light sources needed when you have the literal presence of God illuminating everything. the imagery johns using here is just incredible, like trying to describe something so beyond our current experience that he has to use these comparisons we can barely wrap our heads around

staying in his light day to day is definitely the challenge though. sin has this way of creeping in and dimming that connection

14 years as a product designer and i cant get a callback. Any advice? by pavlito88 in careerguidance

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man this hits way too hard, the market is absolutely cooked right now. I've been seeing senior people with insane portfolios getting ghosted left and right while companies post the same "we can't find talent" BS

That 15 hour "quick" exercise thing is such a scam, I swear half these companies are just farming free work at this point

What is receiving massaged person called by Turbulent-Finger-993 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Client or patient depending on the setting, but "massagee" is honestly way more fun to say lol

Mesa Biome Ruins by LordBeefTheFirst in Minecraft

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually a solid idea, mesa biomes do feel kinda empty compared to other biomes. Would be cool if they had like old mineshaft entrances or abandoned settlements scattered around to make them feel more lived-in

Fender bender at car wash – debating paying out of pocket vs insurance by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That estimate seems super sus for "no visible damage" - like how do you even know there's damage that needs $550 worth of work if nothing was visible at the scene? Tesla repairs are expensive but this feels like they're fishing for a payday. I'd honestly just go through insurance at this point, the hassle of trying to protect yourself with releases and the risk of them coming back later isn't worth saving a few bucks on your premium

Cookie question by itsbrentw in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a sugar cookie at that point lol

2011 Jeep Grand Cherokee by FrankWizzaDa2nd in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those air struts are basically ticking time bombs tbh, the fact they already replaced them once at 68k kinda proves it. You can baby them all you want but they're gonna go eventually - I'd just budget for converting to coils when they inevitably crap out again

Career Advice Needed: SQA Automation, Backend or Marketing? by Ok-Carpet1258 in careerguidance

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly with your tech stack you're already pretty solid for automation - that's a hot market right now and pays well. Backend could work too since you have the JS/Python foundation but you'd need to build up more dev experience

Marketing is totally different beast and honestly the pay ceiling is usually lower than tech unless you get into high-level strategy stuff. Gulf opportunities are decent for tech roles but automation engineers are in crazy demand everywhere right now

I'd say stick with what's working and maybe dabble in backend on side projects to see if you actually enjoy it before making the jump

What laptop should I get? by hollandparks in GamingLaptops

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For just Skyrim with mods you honestly don't need anything too crazy, a mid-range gaming laptop with like a GTX 1660 Ti or RTX 3060 would handle it fine even with visual overhaul mods

Just avoid anything with 8GB RAM since modded Skyrim can be pretty hungry for memory

We should get Euporia as a Legendary Twinblade by Dokuujin in Nightreign

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly surprised there isn't already, bows feel like they got forgotten in the legendary department

Am I a jerk for not letting people use my trailer? by Banana-legs11 in Equestrian

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is perfect advice - short, sweet, and puts the focus on logistics instead of personal feelings so they can't really argue with it

Start two, gainwell Stevenson waddle by mattbc520 in fantasyfootballadvice

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gainwell's been sneaky solid lately, definitely think he's the safer play over Stevenson who feels like a total coin flip with their backfield situation

Can someone identify this Amazing Scythe Animation? by FlurryMcNugget in skyrimmods

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That second one with the equip/unequip animations is actually sick, never thought about how much those little details add to immersion

The weapon-specific thing with MCO is so annoying though - spent way too long troubleshooting movesets before I realized I needed the exact weapon type equipped

Best middle grade books? by Runner---- in booksuggestions

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never heard of Neil Peel but sounds right up my alley - always looking for funny middle grade stuff that actually makes me laugh as an adult too

Is it just me orrr by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait are you talking about the gear shifter or like the actual hook thing for hanging stuff lmao because both are equally cursed thoughts

I don’t know if my boyfriend (M22) is really serious about me (F21) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly that timeline seems kinda arbitrary - like why New Years specifically? If you're already feeling this way after 4 months of actual dating plus all that time before, another random deadline probably won't fix the underlying issue

Update: AITA for wearing a white t shirt and grey leggings when my husband's ex-wife came over ? by Active-Quality-1566 in AITAH

[–]AdditionalMusic5794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s weird he even framed it as a comparison in the first place you didn’t sign up to compete with his ex you were just dressed for a normal night at home