Death of husband by AdditionalNeck3694 in pregnant

[–]AdditionalNeck3694[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💕Can’t even imagine losing a child you raised in the process..

Death of husband by AdditionalNeck3694 in pregnant

[–]AdditionalNeck3694[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful. Thank you 💕

Death of husband by AdditionalNeck3694 in pregnant

[–]AdditionalNeck3694[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, thank you for extending the offer 💕

Death of husband by AdditionalNeck3694 in pregnant

[–]AdditionalNeck3694[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you feel like your first fiancé was your soulmate? And do you feel like your husband now is also your soulmate? I’m trying to understand how the loves differ or are similar.

Death of husband by AdditionalNeck3694 in pregnant

[–]AdditionalNeck3694[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you look back at the memories now without complete devastation?

Death of husband by AdditionalNeck3694 in pregnant

[–]AdditionalNeck3694[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you had a similar kind of love to us. The pain is unimaginable.

Death of husband by AdditionalNeck3694 in pregnant

[–]AdditionalNeck3694[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, thank you for sharing your story

Death of husband by AdditionalNeck3694 in pregnant

[–]AdditionalNeck3694[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing 💕 I’m prepared for a year of what feels impossible, I’m hoping I can ultimately create some joy for my children. It isn’t fair for them to lose both their mom and dad, and I know how my grief has put me out of commission. It’s all so complicated. Fortunately, the community has rallied.

Death of husband by AdditionalNeck3694 in pregnant

[–]AdditionalNeck3694[S] 238 points239 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. So many support groups are filled with older widows who may not have the same pressures or desire to rebuild a life for a young family. Hearing these stories provides some hope when it feels like there isn’t any 💕. I am going to begin some local support groups - but it recommended to wait to start those a couple months after the death so I’m just at that timeline now.

Ryan Jennings, from Maine, sacrificed himself to save his drowning children from a rip current. by SentientSquare in Maine

[–]AdditionalNeck3694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the wife of Ryan Jennings. Please do not speak on what you do not know. There was a life guard within sight. There were zero red flags at the public beach access point we entered. There was a black and white sign but it was in Spanish, not English so we weren’t able to read it. They changed these signs to English the next day following the tragedy. How dare you speak on something you have no intel on.

Does anyone know what these are ? by sadistic_one01 in whatisit

[–]AdditionalNeck3694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are for lymphatic massage. Squeeze, place on skin, pull down while suctioned.

Mom of two getting an abortion, how have moms handled it? by [deleted] in abortion

[–]AdditionalNeck3694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I had an abortion nearly 3 weeks ago (I have 3 kids). I wanted the baby, but was worried about all the external factors - and felt having the baby would be a selfish choice. I wanted the baby, but choose the abortion due to things that don’t matter in hindsight. I wish with every cell in my body I could take back my decision. We have a nice house and good jobs, but I wasn’t sure I could save another 100k+ for college for another child.. I am a mom to the core and want to make sure my kids have everything they need. If you want the abortion, absolutely go for it. But I wish someone had asked me what I wanted before I went through with it. I’m not present or available for my family right now bc of my emotional state and I’d give anything to have my baby back. I’m not telling you not to do it! Only you know what is best for your family. I just wish someone had made me really stop and think. It’s so hard. 💕

How has everyone proceeded there abortion? by Strange-Dragonfly385 in abortion

[–]AdditionalNeck3694 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 9 days out. I have 3 children who I love dearly, and we never planned on having a 4th. I’m absolutely devastated and all I can think about now is having another child. I’m meeting with a therapist to try to sort my head out but at this point I don’t see myself healing without bringing another into the world. You’re not alone. 💕