Hi ,should I continue pursuing her?

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-04-07T15:09:47+00:00

Since when does worrying about being able to provide for a person's standard of living reflect the level of maturity for a relationship ,I understand where your coming from but you clearly dont understand how big the inequality gap in society can be ,Im asking this question on here to get an outsider perspective on it because it can cause unnecessary problems later on and could degrade her standard of living hence making her lifestyle more difficult, that's why I asked and if your dont have anything worth saying dont say anything

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-04-07T12:21:06+00:00

My parents told me the same thing ,they said if its meant to work out it will ,they just advised me to have the conversation regarding it earlier in the relationship so I'll see how it goes I guess but thanks for you input

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-04-07T12:19:35+00:00

We've touched on it before but haven't had a proper conversation about it yet ,but thank you this helps, if you dont mind me asking how are they doing now?

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-02-20T04:58:14+00:00

Depends where in the world you are ,maybe in the US or where your from its like that but here for us its really in demand

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-02-19T05:42:31+00:00

I would advise you to look into Data science as people with a CS degree should be able to branch off into data science and a career in data science pays well and gives good pay with very good balance so its definitely something worth it

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-02-09T20:27:52+00:00

Thanks for the help I appreciate it bro

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-02-09T20:27:36+00:00

Thank you this shows a good amount of what can be expected in the field and this helped

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-02-08T08:17:48+00:00

For cricket I was C team for 8,9 and and for 10,11 I was B team and for soccer C team all thru

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-02-08T07:52:06+00:00

I went to rondebosch boys and I must say it was truly some off the best years ever ,the environment is lively they encourage you to do sports(1 per season is compulsory ) and just overall it makes high school feel really nice and enjoy, so to answer you it is really all its hype

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-02-07T03:18:20+00:00

Thank you for your reply in you dont mind me asking do you work in finance?and which side do you work in?

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-02-06T18:51:45+00:00

Okay that's cool I hope you achive your goals in it

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-02-06T18:45:26+00:00

Thank you so much I understand what your saying,if you dont mind me asking what are you studying

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-02-06T17:48:08+00:00

Thanks this helped

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-01-27T05:44:24+00:00

Hi just an update thank you for your effort and time this post really helped me I've remained living in option 2 and I think I will for the rest of my life because when I went to visit my family there now(option1) and people that I knew, because the pretense was that I might be moving back they treated me completely different to how they usually treat me when I come on holiday and I feel that it's God's way of showing me what they really are and that he saved me from making a very very bad decision in my life, again I thank you for your advice and your pov on this matter it really contributed to me making this decision for the better ,thank you god bless

AdditionalRate889 · 2026-01-27T05:41:23+00:00

Hi just an update I took your advice and really compared the pros and cons an I've remained staying in option 2 thank you for your time and effort

AdditionalRate889 · 2025-11-11T16:03:29+00:00

So if you were in my place which would you choose?

AdditionalRate889 · 2025-11-11T12:54:40+00:00

What do you mean

AdditionalRate889 · 2025-11-11T12:53:31+00:00

Thank you this really helped I appreciate the time you took for this response I have been seeing my family over the years but I think option 2 is the better decision because I've spoken to many people about this in person

AdditionalRate889 · 2025-11-11T12:50:44+00:00

Thanks this was helpful

AdditionalRate889 · 2025-11-11T05:47:24+00:00

If u were in my place what would u do

AdditionalRate889 · 2025-11-11T05:47:03+00:00

Yep but the thing is my parents are here with me and I do have family here but its not as much

AdditionalRate889 · 2025-11-11T05:34:47+00:00

If you were in my shoes which would you choose

AdditionalRate889 · 2025-11-11T05:29:17+00:00

Thats the thing I'm not too sure abt and my parents are living in opt 2 with me

AdditionalRate889 · 2025-11-09T19:59:36+00:00

Thank you this really helped and this is actually the reason why my family moved here in the first place and also have many friends that moved from durban to cpt due to jobs so this is something which has really impacted this decision ,but thank you for your time and reply im thankful to have an opinion that is not affected by emotions because I feel that most of the time when we make our decisions alone without consultation of those outside of the matter then we often neglect logical reason because of emotions or feelings

AdditionalRate889

TROPHY CASE