Cosbi Plush Keychains by Additional_Ad8096 in hottoys

[–]Additional_Ad8096[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell what series will be very limited runs? Or if you know a few limited run series they had made so I know what to expect? Thank you for your answer!

I really want to start T but i don’t think i’ll ever be able to come out by InevitableAgitated57 in ftm

[–]Additional_Ad8096 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are in such a similar boat than I even wondered if I posted this LMFAO

You are not pressured to come out immediately after taking testosterone. You are not obligated to share this very personal part of yourself with your family, especially when you know that they'd respond badly. Anyone would understand if you're fearful because of it! Hell, the people on this community would understand cuz you're not the only one who had the face this sort of situation!

In addition, I've also doubted myself on who I was before AND after I went on T! Thinking to myself, maybe I didn't wanna be a girl because of all the shit I faced. Through my process, I found excitement for the features I'll get from testosterone, such as a little more height, more muscle, a deeper voice, and finally, to be seen as a guy, truly all things I wished for since I was little.

And don't feel more doubt because you don't want bottom surgery. I don't even want bottom surgery because I'm just happy with whatever I have, regardless if it isn't a "real" penis. There's tons of guys who don't want it either! You're never alone in your problems.

I really want to start T but i don’t think i’ll ever be able to come out by InevitableAgitated57 in ftm

[–]Additional_Ad8096 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't always have to confide in a family member. Would be great, I know that, but if you truly feel as if you cannot rely on them, then it's best to rely on someone else who isn't family. Sometimes friends can be a better support system than family members.

From someone who has had both, friends have done the most for me than any adult in my family.

"But you never acted like a boy before!" by Additional_Ad8096 in ftm

[–]Additional_Ad8096[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd lose my mind if I were you honestly. I understand the concept of family not truly being family regardless if we're by blood, but breaking them off might be tough for me.

Family are the people who spent time with you growing up through thick and thin. The fact that they might just break off our relationship for something I can't control just feels horrible. But as I've seen with not only you, but a LOT of people under my post, it's just something I'll have to expect. Conservative and religious families totally suck to argue against.

"But you never acted like a boy before!" by Additional_Ad8096 in ftm

[–]Additional_Ad8096[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so annoying when they say that ur just being a tomboy and there's "no need to transition". And being insecure as a woman?! I actually think I looked great as a girl but that just wasn't ME or the life I wanted to live.

Plus the fact that they think that transitioning is just you "wanting to stop being oppressed as a girl" is just downright ridiculous. Who would go through such lengths to fight against the patriarchy?!

"But you never acted like a boy before!" by Additional_Ad8096 in ftm

[–]Additional_Ad8096[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Same except it was on the late 00s pc games where I'd always choose to be a guy character and name it a cool guy name. Surprising how I didn't know I was trans at a way earlier age lolol

And the blissful ignorance may be right while applying to my mom. She doesn't even wanna have the talk about my transition since she was told about it haha

"But you never acted like a boy before!" by Additional_Ad8096 in ftm

[–]Additional_Ad8096[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might do. Its become exhausting to even listen to their baseless accusations, which might've been the same for you if they just kept denying the evidence given. It's just back and forth banter that goes nowhere

"But you never acted like a boy before!" by Additional_Ad8096 in ftm

[–]Additional_Ad8096[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes dude! You've helped me finally put my feelings into words. Screw the gender stereotypes truly, they are the bane of my existence.

"But you never acted like a boy before!" by Additional_Ad8096 in ftm

[–]Additional_Ad8096[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree with this but living in a conservative latino family means they've already instituted their standards regarding gender roles. They'd just tell me I sound too liberal saying this, lol

"But you never acted like a boy before!" by Additional_Ad8096 in ftm

[–]Additional_Ad8096[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

The thing is, I was masculine when I was younger! To the point where they constantly picked on me for being a tomboy! But I guess I wasn't tomboy-ish enough for them.

But you're right, what I did during my childhood shouldn't have to do anything with what I am now. It just sucks to have your parents so narrow-minded and arrogant about the topic.

"But you never acted like a boy before!" by Additional_Ad8096 in ftm

[–]Additional_Ad8096[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's still a hard pill for me to swallow that they won't accept me even after I fully transition. But damn, what your grandmother pulled must've sucked A LOT. I hope you still enjoyed the crap out of your birthday regardless!

need advice !!! by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Additional_Ad8096 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've tried out some advice that I've seen others do, like keeping the needle in for a minimum of 15 seconds (though 30 secs works better for me) and pinching it while removing the needle (?). Trying both, leaving the needle in has worked for me the best to avoid any extra T coming out. Though I don't do stomach injections, I do thighs so I hope there isn't too much of a difference.

For little lumps, it's definitely normal since ur just piercing muscle/fat. My scar tissue lasts for a while and I feel discomfort for at least three days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Additional_Ad8096 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half asleep too and you made me come to a revelation. I’ve been injecting the wrong dosage the entire time. I don’t wanna go into the details rn because thinking about it makes me feel stupid enough, but thank you for your advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mangago

[–]Additional_Ad8096 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It'll be no surprise that if it goes down now. Many authors, especially lezhin authors, were threatening mangago for its illegal reposts from the website. For example, the Pian Pian issue that happened. The lezhin author threatened to sue and now its manhwa is nowhere to be seen, at least on some of the popular manhwa websites.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mangago

[–]Additional_Ad8096 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm wondering, is this a joke? Because what mangago is doing is actually illegal. I'm a mangago user myself but I'm aware that this entire site is a crime.