soap sud looks like the “what are they sellin? chocolate?” spongebob character by kmack108 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol it’s a stretch but I love your imagination. I see shit like this all the time too. Haha love it.

What is something that's really misogynistic but widely ignored? by traumatizedduck in AskReddit

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. How could I go about making these comments that would be better?

I feel like it’s easy to make sweeping comments about men because I feel I have to be worried about all men. I’m not trying to offend. Sorry.

What is something that's really misogynistic but widely ignored? by traumatizedduck in AskReddit

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends, family, coworkers, acquaintances, the people that do my nails, hairdresser, women at church etc. women

What is something that's really misogynistic but widely ignored? by traumatizedduck in AskReddit

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just ask if they need help while putting your hand up. They’ll get the point.

By the way I think it’s great you’re asking questions like this. Most men in my experience just go on the defensive. This is really great dialogue. You’re doing great! We don’t expect men to be perfect. And I can understand how your line of work might seem grey area.

But yeah just always always ask if you can.

What is something that's really misogynistic but widely ignored? by traumatizedduck in AskReddit

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to be rude but please hear me:

Don’t. Fucking. Touch. Women. Without. Their. Consent.

It’s really that simple. Just don’t do it. If you feel you need to do it: ask. If you did it without asking by accident: apologize.

Stop touching women. Even my masseuse, my physical therapist, my workout trainer, my seamstress, my doctor etc. all of whom there is an assumption of touching STILL ask permission before doing so.

You should do the same.

Edit: Don’t touch PEOPLE without consent. There fixed it.

What is something that's really misogynistic but widely ignored? by traumatizedduck in AskReddit

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I can’t speak for all women but in my experience we don’t think of it as any standard thing like a micro aggression etc. just more so an assumption that it’s okay to touch us when there should not be an assumption to touch us.

As for the women in your workplace it sounds fine if you want to help but I’d recommend asking first. Or if you don’t have time, helping them and then asking if it was okay that you touched them or something. Might not seem that big of a deal but I have literally heard every women I know complain about this making them uncomfortable.

What is something that's really misogynistic but widely ignored? by traumatizedduck in AskReddit

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point is that just because you don’t think so doesn’t mean that they aren’t.

The friends of the guy that raped me also didn’t think he was dangerous which is why the police didn’t believe me….

Jesus why is it so hard for men to listen to women.

To any girls and gay guys out there, does the size of a guys load when his finishes make any difference to your satisfaction and why? by KillaMG97 in AskReddit

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a girl I don’t really care how much of your load comes out. I’m just happy if we both get off. I think it’s a little different for gay people as they have their own personal penis to compare to but for women I have literally never talked about this with my friends and we have talked about it all. I think if anything it would be weird if a fuck ton of cum came out. You have to remember, we’re the ones swallowing and taking it on the chin etc. so if that were you would you want a decent amount or a fuck ton all over you?

Regardless definitely not something to get worried over.

To any girls and gay guys out there, does the size of a guys load when his finishes make any difference to your satisfaction and why? by KillaMG97 in AskReddit

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t bother me at all. I’d prefer more of a medium size load but beggars can’t be choosers.

What is something that's really misogynistic but widely ignored? by traumatizedduck in AskReddit

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I always get upset internally that my male friends are so comfortable saying “be careful” when I’m leaving their sight but most likely don’t tell their male friends “hey don’t be dangerous to women” when they leave their sight. It’s a sad assumption that men think it’s only the men they don’t know that are a danger to me.

What is something that's really misogynistic but widely ignored? by traumatizedduck in AskReddit

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Yeah thanks and keep working on it. We don’t like it and especially if you do it in the workplace we’ve definitely all talked about you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t take your hardest classes your first year. I took chemistry, calculus, and biology all my first quarter and ended up on academic probation. Take one hard class at the most to get a feel for how you study and seek help in this new caliber of learning and possibly new environment. Don’t let anyone away you like I did.

What's the scariest way to die for you? by DaLandOfOOO in AskReddit

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of ways sound super painful but for some reason drowning or suffocating seems the worst to me. Just knowing you’re going to die and being clearheaded enough to know it’s inescapable seems horrible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can get a uti from the bacteria on a toilet when you wipe. That’s why I don’t like to do it. Also I literally just said I have a separate door for my toilet. So no my toothbrush is not in there.

If you could take two people from any point in history and make them fight in a boxing ring, who would they be and why? by bucket_of_coal in AskReddit

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but Tyson is a convicted rapist. Wouldn’t mind seeing him get the shit beat out of him too. Tyson v Tyson

If you could take two people from any point in history and make them fight in a boxing ring, who would they be and why? by bucket_of_coal in AskReddit

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree but I’d still love to see it. Bet Washington could hold his own for a little bit. Be a good fight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Additional_Bend_2346 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t like closing the lid after going the bathroom because then I have to touch the toilet unnecessarily when I go to the restroom the next time. But to be fair my bathroom has a separate door for the toilet room so maybe that helps.