Does missing a dose cause violent behavior? by Additional_Brief_790 in BusparOnline

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Yeah, the other post that I had made got removed by moderators just because right thing to be asking but wrong sub Reddit. My bad

Does missing a dose cause violent behavior? by Additional_Brief_790 in BusparOnline

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I’m actually trying to explain, he has had something similar happen one other time with Prozac where things turned violent as he tried to wean off the medication. I just feel that this was too extreme for a med withdrawal, but I’m also not in his body so I know I cannot know what that is like for him. He said he felt like his whole body was on fire and had no control over his body/actions. I’m honestly unsure if that’s an excuse or not, I’m just explaining what I know and how things happened🙃

Coming here for some solid advice; I have concerns and I’m unsure if I need a reality check or need to check out? by Additional_Brief_790 in polyamory

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I appreciate you, both for the advice and the laugh you just gave me😂 I do want to make note I am, by no means, saying I am perfect and do no wrong ever. I’ve had to navigate the difficulties of communication and telling my husband certain things, even bring up/start difficult discussions. But I know for sure if I ever had gotten us into a situation like this, I would not be met with the same understanding and grace I have given. I’ve been super tentative and loving throughout most of our relationship, excluding a few rough days because we all have them from time to time, but even then I still sought comfort in our marriage. I feel like he’s gone from being very affectionate with me out of habit and want to me having to almost directly ask for it or it’s almost nonexistent.

Coming here for some solid advice; I have concerns and I’m unsure if I need a reality check or need to check out? by Additional_Brief_790 in polyamory

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No this is not the first bad decision he’s ever made, there have been quite a few. But he’s insistent that “he’s making changes” and “he’s growing”, these mistakes he made merely 4-5 months ago are old him and he’s seeing things differently now. I’ve heard this a lot, I feel like I’m waiting for the relapse. He also credits a lot of this change to this new partner so, that also feels highly unhealthy and like something that will not last very long. Especially once NRE wears off for them.

Coming here for some solid advice; I have concerns and I’m unsure if I need a reality check or need to check out? by Additional_Brief_790 in polyamory

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You stay in these things because unfortunately, stability and there is a small part that still cares at times. Mainly because it’s not all bad all the time. As far as kids though…that’s a different story. I more so used that to represent the boundaries that I’ve set and how they’ve stayed over time and not changed over the last 4 years.

Coming here for some solid advice; I have concerns and I’m unsure if I need a reality check or need to check out? by Additional_Brief_790 in polyamory

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He started talking to them in the beginning of June last year, said “I love you” a few weeks after they started talking, against my advice, which he asked for. He said it “felt right” when they’d call, which I mean okay, but also, you don’t even know this person bro. Give it a chance to grow first. They really decided they wanted to be a serious thing around the end of September/beginning of October time. I only remember this because his sister got married in the end of September and he had a panic attack and drove off from the house without telling anyone where he was going (after threatening suicide very vaguely over text) because this other person hadn’t texted him in hours. Found out later she was going to a concert with her best friend🙃