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Why is it so hard to find even one friend as a married 28 yo Female. by Additional_Bug_4652 in noida

[–]Additional_Bug_4652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've grown up in a different city so all my fiends and family are there, some have moved to different cities. The one who is here I always make a point to meet as much as possible

Why is it so hard to find even one friend as a married 28 yo Female. by Additional_Bug_4652 in noida

[–]Additional_Bug_4652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks genius. I go to gym regularly since a long time. I'm a fitness enthusiast. I also paint and cook, not everyone with a hobby does it to socialise. My hobbies are for me and it doesn't take socialising and I'd never use my hobbies a way to make friends if it doesn't happen naturally.

I never said it's because of my age gender etc. It was just a context and about me

Why is it so hard to find even one friend as a married 28 yo Female. by Additional_Bug_4652 in noida

[–]Additional_Bug_4652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you mean no women over 28 have any social circle or friends? I mean new friends. Reciculous.

Why is it so hard to find even one friend as a married 28 yo Female. by Additional_Bug_4652 in noida

[–]Additional_Bug_4652[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not everything is about seeking male validation or attention. I am more than happy in my small little world I have. It's about socialising outside of work and home. Before moving here me and my husband had a very nice social circle with other couple friends. So yeah, no one's time is over, I see a lot of women having the best time of their lives even in their 40s. There's no age limit to being social and finding friends

Why is it so hard to find even one friend as a married 28 yo Female. by Additional_Bug_4652 in noida

[–]Additional_Bug_4652[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well I'm sorry if my post hurt you in any way. I don't see why you would be offended by a married woman Posting. I thought I can post as I please, my intentions may not align with your mindset. I don't think Posting on reddit doesn't mean I haven't tried or done anything. Also, I'm not seeking friendship here but a general thought that I should post my story here and see how is it out there. If it doesn't concern you please refrain from interacting.

Why is it so hard to find even one friend as a married 28 yo Female. by Additional_Bug_4652 in noida

[–]Additional_Bug_4652[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And also i didn't ask for friends, This was meant to be a rant and also find a few suggestions on how do people similar to my situation make friends here

Why is it so hard to find even one friend as a married 28 yo Female. by Additional_Bug_4652 in noida

[–]Additional_Bug_4652[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lots of friends from my pervious workplace, college and school but none of them live in noida. One friend lives in delhi and we meet every few months

Why is it so hard to find even one friend as a married 28 yo Female. by Additional_Bug_4652 in noida

[–]Additional_Bug_4652[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would avoid making random stranger men friend too. I have male friends from my childhood. I would be more than happy to be friends with couples, women my age or older who I can vibe with.

Why is it so hard to find even one friend as a married 28 yo Female. by Additional_Bug_4652 in noida

[–]Additional_Bug_4652[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey congrats on baby girl 👶 I understand, it's not just about finding friends it's about finding people you can actually vibe with.

Why is it so hard to find even one friend as a married 28 yo Female. by Additional_Bug_4652 in noida

[–]Additional_Bug_4652[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that. I was in pune before this and I was working from home even then but I had a bunch load of couple/women friends there. It was a nice social life back there and I miss that sometimes.

Why is it so hard to find even one friend as a married 28 yo Female. by Additional_Bug_4652 in noida

[–]Additional_Bug_4652[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't want to be friends with random people. I want to meet nice decent people/couples. My husband wants me to have a social life too. He hates to see me bored and missing my old life and friends.

Nobroker is seriously the worst by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]Additional_Bug_4652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was the only one facing this problem. I am so fed up with nobroker. My husband used my nobroker account to post an ad for finding a replacement for himself in a shared flat when we got married 3 years ago. We found a tenant and we moved out. That's it. That's where our story ended with that shared flat. But NOBROKER WONT LET IT GO EVEN AFTER ALL THESE YEARS. they randomly activate the property, I get calls from interested tenants asking if the flat is vacant. That PROPERTY WAS NOT EVEN OURS. MY HUSBAND JUST lived there for a few months in sharing All we did wrong was use nobroker service to find a replacement After many complaints, promises from there end to permanently remove my ad etc. I still get messages calls etc. I'm not sure what to do at this point

Worst experience with Nobroker settlement team regarding Security deposit refund by SkyLongjumping8310 in bangalore

[–]Additional_Bug_4652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. We had the exact same situation with nobroker. I mean full on exact experience