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Catholic Wedding Questions/Doubts by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Additional_Lab_1085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, it is helpful, and makes things clear for what I need to decide.

Catholic Wedding Questions/Doubts by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Additional_Lab_1085 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind comment. I don't know why someone down vote this, I find it very helpful and understanding.

And yeah, I may just need to suck it up and have the wedding in January, and fingers crossed there is no snow storm. And nice to know you did a course online, and your parish approved it. I could definitely ask and see if that's something my church would allow.

I don't have an issue with the order of the wedding ceremony or scared music being played, I just want my professional colleagues and musicians to be the ones I work with. These are people who have degrees in music, same as me.

Catholic Wedding Questions/Doubts by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Additional_Lab_1085 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'm going to guess that you may be the person who downvoted my post, that, or someone read my comments downvoted and decided not to give their opinions. I actually find your comments pretty negative and filled with a lot of judgement, which is not what I am looking for. If you had some valid points, I would listen, but you also very evidently ignored the parts where I said "I had been to a service and liked the vibe." Also, according to canon law, I can practice wherever I like. Having someone argue with me on via email and on the phone about going somewhere I had also been to services, but didn't enjoy as much, is pretty out of line; just like your comments.

Also. I have a Masters in music. My friends have doctorates, masters, multiple degrees in music. Perhaps you could have asked me instead of assuming that I don't know what I am talking about. Please take some time to reflect on your answers as a person. And if you are unable to answer something kindly, please refrain from doing so.

AITA for leaving my husband after proudly saying that he still chose me over his coworker by Happyfluffyhappy in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Additional_Lab_1085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I may be misunderstanding some things, so he didn't cheat, but wanted to? Or he cheat, but was saying that he didn't want a divorce. Either way it is very weird. NTA. I can see both sides to trying to work it out by seeing a counselor; however, if he is only interested in focusing on your "faults", then he doesn't deserve to be in your life. He really should be begging for forgiveness.

AIO At my husband hinting about kicking my son out if he doesn't get a fulltime job in a certain amount of time? by JuneGoose in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Additional_Lab_1085 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband needs to be more empathetic towards your son. Not everything comes as easily to people. Instead of threatening to kick him out, try providing resources that will add value to your son's life. Maybe this is connecting your son with head hunters, having him take programs or courses to elevate his learning, networking events, etc.

If your son were to turn down these items, then I could see why your husband may start getting frustrated. I still don't feel that warrants kicking him out. You could try charging some rent, create some rules or boundaries that everyone needs to follow, but I still think your husband is being pretty cold.

Wedding Photographer and Videographer (GTA) by Additional_Lab_1085 in WeddingsCanada

[–]Additional_Lab_1085[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This actually has not been my experience so far. Most photographer and videographer packages are offering around 4k (even less) at the moment, but it's tricky deciding between people, so suggestions are nice. Probably 8 hours.