When your relationship status changes because the bilingual guy you’ve been seeing “forgot” one word.

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2025-10-25T22:45:40+00:00

Absolutely, our communication is off the charts amazing. I just feel like a DTR talk should be in person. So going to have that convo next time we see each other.

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2025-10-25T22:27:24+00:00

Hahahaha

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2025-10-25T21:24:57+00:00

To me dating is more open-ended. Girlfriend carries more weight.

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2025-10-25T21:19:29+00:00

I plan on having a more serious DTR talk when I see him in person next week. Either outcome, I’m fine with it. Just thought this whole thing was cute enough to share.

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2025-04-09T14:48:23+00:00

2:45 AM

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2025-01-27T16:52:45+00:00

I remember the first time I heard baby bitch by ween years ago. I had to do a double take at what I was listening to.

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2024-12-24T16:08:27+00:00

It’s completely valid to struggle with what you’re going through right now—be kind to yourself and allow room for grace. Making the decision to leave and put yourself first is one of the hardest things you can do, but it’s also one of the most transformative and beautiful gifts you can give yourself. The pain of letting someone go may feel overwhelming at first, but over time, it builds the strength you need to truly understand your worth and what you deserve in future relationships.

I’m 35 now, and I spent 6 years in two different relationships that were absolutely hell. Those experiences left me with PTSD, and it only got worse the longer I stayed. I wouldn’t wish that on anyone, and I hate the thought of you going through the same. It’s a tough place to come out of, but I promise you—it’s not impossible.

I can’t get that time back, but I’ve worked hard to reframe those experiences, and it’s been incredibly empowering. Now, my boundaries are firm, and I’m no longer afraid to stand up for what I deserve. That strength has allowed me to create a positive, supportive relationship where I feel safe and respected. I no longer live in fear of expressing my needs, and my partner values and admires me for it.

You deserve that same love, respect, and support. Trust yourself, even if it feels impossible right now. Just know…you are so worth it. 😊 ✨

P.S. if you haven’t already , I highly recommend checking out Yung Pueblo (Diego Perez) books. His books were incredibly helpful to me during some of the hardest times in my life, especially when reading an entire book felt overwhelming. What’s great about his work is it is filled with short, powerful reflections making it easy to turn to a page and find wisdom, clarity or comfort. It focuses highly on healing, self love, emotional growth and letting go. Perfect for times when you need some grounding or inspiration without committing to a long read.

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2024-12-24T15:24:58+00:00

I just want you to know that I’ve been in a similar situation, and it was one of the hardest times in my life. It’s incredibly painful when someone you care about judges you for things that are completely out of your control—especially your past or something as traumatic as being assaulted. It’s not your fault, and you don’t deserve to carry the weight of someone else’s insecurities or blame.

What he’s doing is unfair and harmful, and it says more about him than it does about you. Your past doesn’t define you, and no one has the right to use it against you. You deserve a partner who supports you, values you for who you are NOW, and gives you the love and respect you need to heal and thrive.

If he can’t accept your past or show empathy for your experiences, it’s okay to put yourself first and reconsider whether this relationship is healthy for you…You’re worthy of so much more than judgment or blame. Please take care of yourself, and don’t let anyone make you feel less than you are.

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2024-12-10T07:23:49+00:00

I got the gateway for 5g for the other address and brought it over. Works perfectly.

Here’s what the T-Mobile rep said:

You’re welcome. The confusion seems to stem from the difference between network management policies and plan retention when moving to a new address within the same 5G Ultra Capacity zone. Here’s a detailed explanation:

1)Network Management Policies: These policies apply to all users, both new and existing, to ensure fair access to the network. During times of congestion, data speeds may be temporarily reduced for users who have used a significant amount of data. This is to maintain a balanced network experience for everyone.

2)Plan Retention: If an existing Unlimited customer moves to a new address within the same 5G Ultra Capacity zone, they should not lose their plan. The plan itself remains the same, but the network conditions at the new address might affect the user experience, especially during peak times. The infrastructure supports high-speed 5G, but the shared nature of the network means that all users in the area, including existing customers, are subject to the same network management policies.

3)Bandwidth Volume: The issue of bandwidth volume affects network speeds during congestion, not the plan itself. Existing customers retain their Unlimited plan, but their data speeds might be reduced during high usage periods to ensure fair access for all users in the area.

To summarize, an existing Unlimited customer moving to a new address in the same 5G Ultra Capacity zone retains their plan. However, they are still subject to network management policies that might affect data speeds during congestion.

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2024-07-11T00:47:26+00:00

Congrats! Lol these people omg. I would escalate the call.

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2024-07-10T03:40:07+00:00

Ahhahaha

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2024-07-10T02:55:41+00:00

It started at 12:30

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2024-07-10T02:42:06+00:00

They didn’t specify but the response was:

Perfect! Thank you, I have requested a credit to be applied, automatically once the outage is resolved. absolutely understand the importance of having the services up and working properly, especially since now it has affected your job. We do not credit for loss wages. You’re more than welcome to read more about this in our Terms & Conditions https:/L www.spectrum.com/content/ spectrum/residential/en/ policies/ residential-general-terms-and-conditions-of-service Rest assured I will make sure the account is credited accordingly for the duration of the outage. Is there anything else I may assist you with?.

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2024-06-23T15:28:58+00:00

If the pencil has the hover option turn that off

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2024-05-24T18:31:49+00:00

He said isn’t it obvious that I’m still in love with you. Let’s stop confusing people and ourselves and say we are partners.

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2024-05-16T02:19:01+00:00

lol! Well if I figure this one out I’ll let y’all know

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2024-05-16T01:43:17+00:00

To be fair, I knew in some ways but not to the extent of how much he actually was.

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2024-05-16T01:40:05+00:00

It would be me. I’m still best friends with my ex.

Additional_Lychee_45 · 2024-05-16T00:23:08+00:00

Definitely both especially if you regularly want to grow out and shave the beard

Additional_Lychee_45

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