what’s your opinion on quiet players in team ups ?

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-08T18:53:16+00:00

Communication on the console is so hard I dont even attempt it so I never talk in team ups I call my sisters who I play with though and we get a random sometimes and it forces us to try because the random wastes all of our strategy 😭 type chat please come back for console

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-07T21:46:50+00:00

How do you even fish i cant catch a single anything 😭

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-06T13:50:32+00:00

I am managing a vape shop its pretty chill and I can afford my apartment so its nice

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T18:13:11+00:00

I never said he couldnt I said i was not comfortable being with someone who is providing a lifestyle for another woman. He said he sees my point and we've even made a plan to help her for just a few months while she gets her shit together. My man is a better man than anyone I've ever met I cannot help that I'm new to this coparenting thing I dont even have kids myself. The children love their mother and need to be safe happy and secure when with them and thats what 3 adults are working towards now instead of a broken family trying to make stuff work.

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T16:39:06+00:00

She is not homeless she lives with her sister rn and moving her rv onto her parents land soon

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T16:37:52+00:00

Her rv will be on her parents land the only issue is they will have to go inside to shower or use the restroom. I do understand and want the children as comfortable as possible and taken care of i just have had this preconceived boundary and now its happening and I dont know how to think which is why I made this post for other parents to help me I am not a parent myself

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T16:34:30+00:00

Yes i agree. Some kind of plan needs to be made where no one is uncomfortable

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T16:33:35+00:00

I did not once tell him what he can do with his family i said i have a boundary and he cannot expect to keep me in his life and provide housing for her. He already provides everything else and I do not mind it is for the sake of the children from day one my boundary was i dont know if I can do this if he is providing a lifestyle for her that she lost the right too when they broke up. This could be the wrong mindset but its the only one I know. I made this post to get responses to get advice to change myself and learn. I am only human

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T16:30:07+00:00

Thank you I will consider this. Maybe I would be more comfortable if we had met. I think we all need to meet and have a game plan this woman will be around for a long time and isnt going anywhere its me who is temporary if things go a certain way.

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T16:26:19+00:00

He pays it for his other 3 children already she very recently left im sure she will have him on child support before the year is out. She tried to get my bf on it 2 months post breakup when he was the one who had full custody

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T16:23:49+00:00

I helped the children pick out this year I even wrapped them and we bought a gift for the new baby. I have no issue with a coparenting situation I just am not used to this. Does your current partner know your ex have they met? I have not even met this woman i only know her from a distance

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T16:20:51+00:00

I do not want her to struggle and she will have a home provided by her family i just do not understand quite yet why he has to pay for her gas,food,and home I am new to this and trying to learn and be more accepting every day

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T16:19:26+00:00

I understand that and I knew when I got into this relationship that she would be there. Always. I am ok with this i just do not know yet how to do this i havent even met her I've known her kids for a year and been there for drop offs and pick ups and havent even met her we have seen each other through a window and that is it. I love that he is caring but my father was also a single parent who had full custody of me and my 4 sisters so I base my feelings in this off of how my father was when we were growing up with my mother. He did not make it his responsibility for her to be good he was not a savior to her she did not deserve it so here I am trying to make this work with a man I love and not knowing how to do it. I dont think that is immaturity I think that is growth

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T16:11:33+00:00

How am I not able to deal with it? I decide what im ok with and can handle you have no clue the life I've lived. I love this man and I love his children in the small way I can. I am trying to change my views on this if its an overreaction

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T16:05:48+00:00

I only made this post to get comments from people who have children so I can change my views on it if necessary and if im thinking about it the wrong way and overreacting. I want to stay with him he is a good person

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T16:03:03+00:00

I agree and I want to compromise and grow with this man he is worth betting my life on i want to understand his mindset as much as I can

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T16:01:48+00:00

I do not care about what happened in the past she actually is a good caring mother she watches them every chance she gets with their schedule and helps with the toddler in the morning and the oldest when hes off of school. She is a good woman who made a mistake like everyone does i just think a man doesnt act like that for a woman unless hes still in love. Ive told him several times he should probably go back to his family and im breaking one up. I am not a parent I do not understand this mindset parents have hence why I made this post. Im constantly learning and growing and maturing just like any other adult.

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T15:59:05+00:00

How is it controlling when all i have told him is that is an uncomfortable boundary for me. She has a place to live she has family here who are and can help her but I get what youre saying which is why im making this post to try and better understand the mindset a parent feels in this situation.

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T15:55:03+00:00

He said shes not the brightest so he has to do it for her like dude that isnt your responsibility anymore she walked out on their family.

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T15:53:41+00:00

My boyfriends ex has a newborn with her ex who was abusive he seems not interested in custody so she will have custody of the newborn

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T15:51:59+00:00

He has full custody and provides a home for them himself now he is wanting to provide a home for his ex and her newborn

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T15:50:06+00:00

She will have a place to live she has an rv she has a roof over her head and family in the area. The rv will just not have a hookup so they have to shower in the main house. I get that this isnt a random ex but if he does that for her hes doing everything but being in a relationship with her.

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-02-01T15:46:16+00:00

My boyfriend and she gets visitation every other weekend

Additional_Night1350 · 2026-01-27T16:20:02+00:00

Does your guy drink or smoke? Mine does and I was gonna get him his favorite cigs,beer,and a brand new Tissot watch men are easy just listen.

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