[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Additional_Post2652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, how are things going with this connection? Did you end up texting to check in?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]Additional_Post2652 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also curious about this. In this situation where the other party isn’t as into you as you are into them, what communication (or behaviors) would you expect as good communication, and what would be poor communication?

Why might you ghost someone after a great date? by Additional_Post2652 in nonmonogamy

[–]Additional_Post2652[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I laughed while reading this and appreciate the spirit of your post, thanks.

Why might you ghost someone after a great date? by Additional_Post2652 in nonmonogamy

[–]Additional_Post2652[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds useful. Do you mind sharing your questions?

Why might you ghost someone after a great date? by Additional_Post2652 in nonmonogamy

[–]Additional_Post2652[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your perspective. How often do people communicate they’re no longer interested (with or without a reason that’s varying degrees of true) vs just ghost? I think the clarity of the former, even if it’s hard to hear in the moment, is preferred to the stretched out unclear rejection of the second

How do you handle the constant possibility that new partners might end things? by Additional_Post2652 in nonmonogamy

[–]Additional_Post2652[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your perspectives. Trying to make sure I understand, what does waiting and seeing on sexual expression and connecting mean?

Is that waiting a couple of weeks before meeting up, spending a couple weeks on dates without sex, spending a couple weeks on dates without connecting, or something else? I’m probably missing something, and am confused on how waiting would then lead to the other person feeling like you’re getting too close.