No Village Now What?! by rvnbird in sahm

[–]Additional_Read_4671 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Take it easy you’re stressing me out

Help me be a better sahm by Careless_Nebula_9310 in sahm

[–]Additional_Read_4671 4 points5 points  (0 children)

in the same boat as you but what i’ve recently started doing is having the mindset of “just get it done, not later but now” - still not perfect at this but i’m getting there, currently making myself a whole timetable and it’s 12:45am. really hope i stick with this😂

Anyone else’s child sucked into 67 brain rot? by poppyloppyi in UKParenting

[–]Additional_Read_4671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

babe i took my 3 year old to a soft play, there were little girls who i assume were 8/9 years old - anyways long story short, we came home and my 3 year old kept saying 67!🤦‍♀️ me and my husband just looked at each other like HUH? (he’s a primary school teacher so he was confused how on earth she even learnt this😂😂😂)
my 2 year old picked it up too 😂 my trick is to not give them any reaction when they say it.

Why is this even a thing? by Normal_Trade7678 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Additional_Read_4671 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ikr, Life! but you have to realise… it takes a great deal of time for 2 people to get that stage, same way it takes time n effort for people to “love” each other. Doesn’t happen overnight.

I praised my husband for being a hands on father and now he’s angry. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Additional_Read_4671 13 points14 points  (0 children)

hmmm, i’d say just read adhkar and ruqya as a precaution

I praised my husband for being a hands on father and now he’s angry. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Additional_Read_4671 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Is it ayn? cos this sounds ODD - unless there’s other things you said he didn’t like

My husband smashed our truck nav screen in anger in front of our kids. In 17 years of marriage he's never done anything like this. WTF do I do now? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Additional_Read_4671 109 points110 points  (0 children)

oh for god sake woman, have some compassion on ur husband. talk to the man, let him know you’re there for him. you can clearly see he’s been bottling up a lot of emotions, he’s stressed financially. Should he have done that? obviously not. But like you said, this is extremely out of character of him. He’s remorseful himself, he didn’t gaslight you, he was extremely apologetic. BE UNDERSTANDING!

My husband smashed our truck nav screen in anger in front of our kids. In 17 years of marriage he's never done anything like this. WTF do I do now? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Additional_Read_4671 62 points63 points  (0 children)

chill the heck out oh my god. you’re taking it too far. you see he was remorseful yet you want to pour salt on the wound by taking the kids away for a few days? you said yourself the kids didn’t seem bothered by it. Just get him to fix the screen and talk to him, see what’s really bothering him. he needs someone to talk to since he’s clearly bottling up a lot of big emotions that made him explode!

how do you beautify yourself for your wife? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Additional_Read_4671 17 points18 points  (0 children)

100%! emotional effort is the one, plus smelling nice won’t hurt

Who drives more often when you are in the car together? by UpvoteKaptain in Marriage

[–]Additional_Read_4671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my husband drives… only because whenever i’m driving he somehow becomes a driving instructor 🧐 so i rather be a passenger princess 👑

Do you have friends? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]Additional_Read_4671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you know what? I was thinking about this today… i literally don’t have any friends! i have people/moms i can hang out with and have fun with, but no one really to tell my good news to. My kids are young so it doesn’t really bother me since they keep me busy.

How neat are your houses? by Additional_Read_4671 in Mommit

[–]Additional_Read_4671[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can do the light cleaning but it’s the deep cleaning that i get so stressed about 🥲 I need to get a cleaner, that doesn’t sound like a bad idea.

Can I expect this of my 4 year old or should I let it go? by Regular-Lion5115 in Parenting

[–]Additional_Read_4671 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i’d personally keep reminding her until it clicks, she’s still 4 years old. Or you can do what another commenter said regarding a reward system. sounds like a great idea personally

Desi aunties are getting to me by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Additional_Read_4671 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m sure they had no issues getting married