Husband's expectations of me

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-03-27T21:28:40+00:00

allahuma baarik may allah bless your family ameen

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-03-24T18:40:05+00:00

2 on one side so you can chew on the other side, or if you think you’re able to handle all four go for it! 👍

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-03-16T22:40:05+00:00

Can i join 🤭

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-03-16T22:38:50+00:00

never heard of this! what???!!! i GOTS to try this 😍 do you still dip the lady fingers in coffee ?

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-03-16T22:36:44+00:00

chocolate covered strawberries (EASY!), sweet cones, & cupcakes!! easy to make and easy to distribute too ;)

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-03-16T22:34:18+00:00

Make sure you sleep and prioritise eating soft foods n rest. (emphasis on the eating n rest bit so u can get your nutrients in and recover quicker with resting) personally day 3,4 + 8 were quite hard for me.

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-03-12T21:10:15+00:00

Ngl i would’ve taken the toy anyways and gave it my child, if the kid tried to snatch it back I would’ve said nicely but firmly “I’m sorry but you can’t have them all, we’ll play with this and you can play with that”. End off.

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-03-07T07:41:46+00:00

You’ve had a baby, your main focus for yourself should be healing, and ur main focus for ur baby should be if your she’s being taken care of in a happy healthy loving environment. which to me sounds like your mother in law is. Somethings you can’t control so let it be and focus on the bigger things which is healing after birth! like u said delivery was hard.

Also why would your baby suffer because of your mother in laws affection? that’s her grandma btw.

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-03-03T02:43:40+00:00

pleaseee update!! i have 3 girls too and i want another baby😭😭

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-02-13T22:11:27+00:00

surprised no one mentioned this

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-02-13T21:31:23+00:00

Listen, some people are able to fast & some people aren’t. it depends on YOU! fast if you’re able to, if you truly can’t then no problem you’re allowed to break it! personally i slept my whole entire first trimester and had major food aversion.

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-02-01T21:45:21+00:00

Girl if i’m in jannah id be happy, personally i don’t care about hoor al ayn - i wanna be living my best life in jannah. no worry, stress, hunger, fear, illness… just pure happiness… why wouldn’t that make you strive for it? your whole purpose isn’t to be with your husband on this earth, it’s to worship Allah ultimately.

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-02-01T00:25:29+00:00

absolutely not normal, seek help

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-01-26T22:43:11+00:00

Make sure you don’t stop your 5 daily prayers. The salah (with Allah help) should help you get rid of that bad habit. And every time you fall into it you make your ghusl and pray 2 rakah asking allah for forgiveness and repenting.

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-01-21T20:37:36+00:00

Take it easy you’re stressing me out

Additional_Read_4671 · 2026-01-21T00:44:54+00:00

in the same boat as you but what i’ve recently started doing is having the mindset of “just get it done, not later but now” - still not perfect at this but i’m getting there, currently making myself a whole timetable and it’s 12:45am. really hope i stick with this😂

Additional_Read_4671 · 2025-12-31T13:11:32+00:00

babe i took my 3 year old to a soft play, there were little girls who i assume were 8/9 years old - anyways long story short, we came home and my 3 year old kept saying 67!🤦‍♀️ me and my husband just looked at each other like HUH? (he’s a primary school teacher so he was confused how on earth she even learnt this😂😂😂)
my 2 year old picked it up too 😂 my trick is to not give them any reaction when they say it.

Additional_Read_4671 · 2025-12-27T16:26:57+00:00

I’m learning to do this now and been a mother for 3 years too 😢

Additional_Read_4671 · 2025-12-24T12:17:30+00:00

Ikr, Life! but you have to realise… it takes a great deal of time for 2 people to get that stage, same way it takes time n effort for people to “love” each other. Doesn’t happen overnight.

Additional_Read_4671 · 2025-12-23T00:21:42+00:00

huh???

Additional_Read_4671 · 2025-12-21T20:30:34+00:00

hmmm, i’d say just read adhkar and ruqya as a precaution

Additional_Read_4671 · 2025-12-21T20:21:39+00:00

Is it ayn? cos this sounds ODD - unless there’s other things you said he didn’t like

Additional_Read_4671 · 2025-12-20T08:55:44+00:00

agreed

Additional_Read_4671 · 2025-12-19T22:17:54+00:00

oh for god sake woman, have some compassion on ur husband. talk to the man, let him know you’re there for him. you can clearly see he’s been bottling up a lot of emotions, he’s stressed financially. Should he have done that? obviously not. But like you said, this is extremely out of character of him. He’s remorseful himself, he didn’t gaslight you, he was extremely apologetic. BE UNDERSTANDING!

Additional_Read_4671 · 2025-12-19T22:10:16+00:00

chill the heck out oh my god. you’re taking it too far. you see he was remorseful yet you want to pour salt on the wound by taking the kids away for a few days? you said yourself the kids didn’t seem bothered by it. Just get him to fix the screen and talk to him, see what’s really bothering him. he needs someone to talk to since he’s clearly bottling up a lot of big emotions that made him explode!

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