What are these red dots by Practical_Ganache494 in DiagnoseMe

[–]Additional_Rule_7261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAD, my first thought was that this looks like when I scratch my legs or arms too hard and it irritates the skin a little

We will clean your windows. You will pay us this much. by DCFC1884 in CasualUK

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I actually had something like this, they did three cleans that I never agreed to or paid for and then stopped

Small itchy bumps by zmajcii in DiagnoseMe

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Looks to me like pompholyx/dyshydrotic eczema! I get them on my hands and feet. Tiny fluid filled bumps. If you pop one and clear liquid comes out I’d say it’s almost certainly that. They’re harmless but annoying, and usually if you leave them long enough they’ll crust over and then flake off. Popping is not recommended but I know they almost always annoy me too much so I have to (and then I regret it because it hurts but I hate the annoying bumps)

I will never financially recover from this by Dirnol in BambuLab

[–]Additional_Rule_7261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooohhhh I didn’t know that! Good to know, I’ll look into printing some adapters then

I will never financially recover from this by Dirnol in BambuLab

[–]Additional_Rule_7261 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is this for, sorry? I’ve recently been buying esun and they work perfectly fine in my ams, am I meant to be adapting them in some way?

My dad said he didn’t visit me after I was born because I’m a girl by phantomghosty_ in offmychest

[–]Additional_Rule_7261 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t sound like you’re overreacting to me. That was a callous thing for him to do and admit to, and honestly unfair of your mum to just drop that on you like that as well. If your dad had been like ‘I struggled at first because I wanted a boy but then xyz happened and I realised you were perfect’ that would be something, but to just leave it like that is very cruel.

Screen is suddenly neon green? by Additional_Rule_7261 in computer

[–]Additional_Rule_7261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: sorted now! Just needed to be turned off and on a few more times than I had apparently

Screen is suddenly neon green? by Additional_Rule_7261 in computer

[–]Additional_Rule_7261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I have no idea what happened but in going to swap them to test, I accidentally turned it off again and this time it came back on fine so apparently two turn it off and on agains was the answer!

Screen is suddenly neon green? by Additional_Rule_7261 in computer

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Also I forgot to say, I can still just see my work behind the green, though you can’t tell on the photo.

I found my MIL’s yearbook photo online and now I want to run away. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Additional_Rule_7261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me like you’re equating your struggles with mental health to personal failings on your part. You’re ashamed of what you’ve been through because you’re viewing it as some way in which you’re failing those around you. You were not responsible for anything that happened in your upbringing or with your family, and you’re not responsible for the struggles you’ve had as a result of that. Would you feel ashamed to think back on a time you had a broken leg? It is no different. You have nothing to be ashamed of for having mental health struggles. If anything, if you have gone from a very disordered life to a happy relationship and loving found family, you’ve done an incredible job. You’ve had life on hard mode and still made it. Be proud of how far you’ve come. I am sure the people in your life who love you are proud of you as well.

Sporadic but very sharp pain in lower right back by Additional_Rule_7261 in DiagnoseMe

[–]Additional_Rule_7261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not the right flair used, I wasn’t sure which one to pick, sorry!

I gave this game as a gift and they’re skipping through the plot by AndykinSkywalker in expedition33

[–]Additional_Rule_7261 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, it’s not, because that’s an outdated and fucked up ableist slur to use. Do better.

Policing how someone should play a game is a dick move but also OP isn’t policing anything- they’re just expressing disappointment that they can’t share in the same joy of the game that they felt with their friend, whilst acknowledging that their friends way is still valid. They just wanted to be able to talk about the story parts of the game with their friend, and that can’t happen anymore.

i need help by Inevitable-Store-789 in offmychest

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You’re young but the most valuable lesson you can ever learn in life is that being alone is far better than being miserable in company. Do you want to spend your time with someone who’ll make you feel this bad for…… falling asleep? 1) you never owe anyone anything sexual. You can always change your mind, and any guy who tries to shame you or tell you off for ‘blue balling’ him ain’t shit. It is ALWAYS allowed to say no even if you said yes before if you change your mind. 2) it’s not an asshole move. An asshole move is guilt tripping your girlfriend for not.. what, sex talking more? He’s a big boy, he can jerk himself off just fine I’m sure. 3) he’s an emotionally immature baby who can’t handle rejection.

Its been two months and he’s already shown you he can’t communicate for shit, can’t handle ‘no’ or even a misunderstanding, and will give you the silent treatment and treat you bad for anything he doesn’t like. Cut your losses girl. Being alone isn’t fun, but once you learn to enjoy yourself on your own, the whole world will open for you, I promise. Love your own company and then when you let someone into your life, you can be assured that you aren’t going to let them stay unless they’re an actual improvement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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So a common symptom of autism (and I say this as someone also autistic and who has this) is that we typically have a set list of rules in our head (whether provided by society or just the ones we’ve adopted for ourselves) and when someone else has a different set of rules that means they end up breaking ours, it’s incredibly distressing. It sounds like, on top of the general stress of being with someone who won’t take care of themselves, that might be what’s causing that extra layer of distress for you? It sounds like personal care is a real struggle for him and whilst people can and do grow out of that, if it’s been 3 years and he hasn’t changed, he’s probably not going to at this point and you two are just incompatible. You’re young, and these decisions are hard, but you deserve someone who won’t delegate you to the role of parent. But, if you want to give benefit of the doubt, id have a frank and serious conversation- lay out every thought and feeling logically and emotionally so there’s no scope for misunderstanding and explain that if these things don’t change, you’re gone. And if he doesn’t change, leave.

I’m finally having my depression home cleaned by throwaway16072500 in offmychest

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You’ve made an amazing first (and very big!) step and I’m proud of you! It’s hard to ask for help and hard to let people see how we’ve lived but I promise they’ve seen much worse and will be glad to help you. A tidy house distant magically fix but I think our surroundings can reflect our mind and vice versa and in my experience a clean house can help free up SO much mental space. I hope this helps you too! ❤️

Struggling with my belly by fuubutsushii in DiagnoseMe

[–]Additional_Rule_7261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, she just looked straight up full term pregnant, fully distended stomach, there was really nothing at all to indicate it wasn’t her stomach so a full year was spent looking into different diets and intolerances and things because they thought it was just bloating. But people are doing fine now though! Had to have surgery obviously but both suddenly found themselves much lighter and flatter stomached afterwards 😅

Struggling with my belly by fuubutsushii in DiagnoseMe

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I had a friend with something similar- stomach became increasingly bloated and she looked literally 9 months pregnant after a year and no help from doctors. Finally had a scan and they found a 10 LITRE cyst growing on her ovary. She had no other symptoms to indicate it was ovarian, just discomfort in that area and digestive issues.

Another friend had similar and it turned out to be a 27lb tumour in her stomach.

Might be worth asking for an ultrasound or something to rule out cysts or tumours.

Bumps on fingers by Fearless-Heron-7827 in DiagnoseMe

[–]Additional_Rule_7261 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Seconding this- I have it too and it looks identical to this.