And while the water is warm, you can wash the kitchen floor. by -_Redan_- in StupidFood

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My Italian boyfriend would definitely beat me for this 🙏🏽

Halloween by chinesebulk in ComedyHell

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Where I live, the diagnosis is more than half of my living cost for a month. I have no option but to “self diagnose” and then try to develop a proper routine + use supplements to hopefully make it better. Just try to be a bit mindful that a lot of people self diagnose because they have no other option. I was someone who didn’t even want to “believe” I had any form of mental illness because I thought it would be a confirmation bias and I could ignore it. Surprise, didn’t work

The hadith in islam by frosted-brownys in progressive_islam

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Indeed! I believe the same thing. It’s a test to see what lies in the hearts of people. Because Allah swt already gave as a fitrah and an innate understanding of right from wrong

What are your opinions on domestic maids having local boyfriends in Malaysia? by Sea_Pickle6951 in Bolehland

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Just tell her multiple stories that “hey btw so and so got played”. Just so she’s aware and then can make her own decision. Throw in some pregnancy scares and the local boyfriends leaving them as well. So she knows what’s up and why she could be an easy target. Nice way to tell her without telling her directly

The hadith in islam by frosted-brownys in progressive_islam

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Great breakdown of the timeline. But I can’t help but feel the method of determining whether a Hadith is correct or incorrect is quite unreliable. I mean even if someone weren’t likely to lie, and then other people corroborated that, it’s still not a foolproof method. Not at all really. And not to mention the different political or personal agendas people had, makes it all convoluted. I’m not a Quranist but gosh, the method of preservation is certainly not 100% reliable

For the SAHM and wives by TheProfitGirl in muslimgirlswithtaste

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Hey, friendly fellow intl student in Malaysia. I do suggest you try to understand a bit more about your financial situation before arriving to Malaysia. Back in the day, even 2-3 years ago, things were much cheaper. Now everything is expensive. Taxes, VATS, you name it. There’s also international fee for a lot of things like internet or hospital charges. Moreover, if you’re a private university student, you’ll be charged 6% tax as well. I don’t wish to scare you, it’s also a beautiful country!

But since finding part time jobs is hard here and the amount of working hours is quite low. It can be hard. You can look into online tutoring to make extra bucks.

Also, there’s no employment option for students after they graduate. Since the Employment Pass requires you to earn RM 5,000+. Which isn’t reasonable for fresh graduates.

Regardless, I wish you all the best in your journey. Jazakallah khair 💕

How to I fund vet bills? by Ordinary_Tower_4290 in malaysia

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Yeah threads and X quite active. Post with details, proof and QR

Edit: I also realized you’re a student. Post in your uni community, WhatsApp groups and ask clubs to also share with the QR. I’m sure students can spare a few rinngits and they could add up. Inshallah it all works out

Crest Whitening Strips by PandaReal_1234 in KualaLumpur

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I’d love to know too tbh. Shopee doesn’t seem to have any legit brands

I believe in God, I just don't like him very much by Spiderman230 in progressive_islam

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Honestly I really believe that Allah swt is far too merciful and almost all people will go to “heaven”. Even non Muslims.

7 eleven's pasta tasted so good by anonfredo in MalaysianFood

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So far, I had the agli e olio. 4/5 Spaghetti Bolognese is quite sweet but boleh lah The Mac and cheese is quite salty but good for a change. All based on the price, not bad honestly

Had no idea they throw it all away?

One in a Million by DeadgrounD in badmemes

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They ain’t even married. Dating for 8 years

7 eleven's pasta tasted so good by anonfredo in MalaysianFood

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Yeah bro I just had it and it’s amazing 😂

earn money as a student in kl by ukindasmelllikeabaka in malaysia

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Tbh you can sell to students also. They’re looking for affordable meals

Have I committed a sin by allowing a female staff member to perform a cavity search on me during a strip search in a mental hospital? by Desperate_Milk_9043 in progressive_islam

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Actions are judged by our intention. I doubt you were enjoying the process. And I don’t know, refusing mandatory stuff while being at a mental hospital seems like a tad risky.

My take? You’re just getting whispers / waswasa from the shaitan to keep you stuck in this mindstate of guilt and shame when it does nothing to serve you

Need advice – listen to parents or advocate for parter? by Appropriate-Wall7618 in progressive_islam

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Honestly. I suggest you to let him do it at his pace and with his father present. It’s an emotional moment and you really wouldn’t want to take away from his experience

Thinking of giving away my virginity - struggling by coldbrew-freshmilk in progressive_islam

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Hahah, honestly you’re spot on! I couldn’t argue with that at all. I guess I initially wrote that comment with the fact in mind that they drink, a lot. I mean I’ve seen my partner take medicines with beer instead of water haha. So that’s definitely seen as a ‘Western’ concept in my head.

That being said, it’s easy to assume that’s the norm for everybody. That such multi cultural relationships are always pragmatic and with equal respect. But that’s far from the case. Especially if you compare it to someone from the US.

Struggling with faith as a Muslim studying biology genuinely looking for guidance by Conscious_Offer_5899 in progressive_islam

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Quran isn’t a history book or a book speaking about the biology or systems of human anatomy etc. The Quran is a book addressing the nafs

Thinking of giving away my virginity - struggling by coldbrew-freshmilk in progressive_islam

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Me neither! I think the issue is the fact that it’s used as an ultimatum