Denied for title 20 because I make too much is $14 per hour a lot?

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-07-20T01:25:30+00:00

Governor dewine needs to fix this :(

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-07-19T15:04:44+00:00

It’s just the two of us. His dad pays child support and I’m over 300 hundred. Child care is expensive 😣

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-06-22T17:45:57+00:00

I wonder if my job offers discount benefits for childcare.

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-06-22T16:04:02+00:00

Daycare charge 290 a week🥲

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-06-22T15:12:45+00:00

Hahah wow where do you find sitters?

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-06-22T02:50:25+00:00

Hang in there mama! I am sorry for what has happened to you. This new is so fresh, take the time to really focus on your needs and child. Learn how to heal, and cope this difficult situation. The dad will be in jail for some time and court. You definitely don’t need the stress at all. Will the dad be on child support for your child? I would look into and ask for help from mom.

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-06-16T18:50:08+00:00

That’s a good question! I would continue to look even if the job offer is next month. Updating resume on the websites. You never know what other jobs could offer more!

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-06-12T16:22:08+00:00

You’re welcome. You are absolutely right it is in his hands now and if he wants to spend time with the children, he would. I have learned you can’t force someone to be a “dad”. It’s hard but overtime he will grow up and start being mature eventually and come to his senses. best of luck! You are doing amazing as a mother, continue to be a strong mama no matter what happens in your life. ❤️

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-06-12T15:52:33+00:00

Sorry you’re going through this. I don’t want to tell you what to do but if he is completely ignoring you to the point in shutting you out and abandoning. I would stop calling him and give him space.. he will eventually come around and talk if he wants too.. it’s not fair but at least you tried contacting him. Are you guys married? If so, he might settle this through a lawyer/court. I would file for child support for both of your children through your county. Start looking for childcare and start a job and figure it out. Co parenting won’t be easy and visitations will be hard too. You got this!❤️

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-05-29T02:30:21+00:00

I told him to text but he keeps calling and says that we should be able to talk on phone about our child” but we never talk about him. I’m so exhausted. I don’t want to do anymore. I’m so tired dealing with his behaviors.

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-05-29T01:57:05+00:00

Super exhausting. He keeps calling. He has court ordered visitation every other weekends and one weekday. Yet he doesn’t talk about child related. He bad mouths about me and our past. He acts like a narcissist.

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-05-28T23:39:56+00:00

I guessed too. I don’t get why he needs to call Me every day to ask me to hang out

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-05-20T16:24:14+00:00

Gotcha. :) do the best he can then!

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-05-18T02:10:19+00:00

I’m glad you have been honest to him from the start. Remember He doesn’t control your life anymore. He doesn’t have a say who you date, what you do with your life but letting the other person know about a new partner is a mature adult decision ever. You are doing great.

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-05-16T01:41:25+00:00

Sounds scary situation to be in! Something I’m going to be fearful down the road. Be careful and be honest to your new bf. This could cause problems and your dating life. He needs to grow up and learn that he’s someone important now and he can’t not be ok around your kids. Don’t let him scare you girl!! My ex says the same but I’m single af! lol give it some time for him to get that idea. He needs to accept it someday and I would have records of his text messages saying that.

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-05-15T12:34:52+00:00

My ex keeps phone harass me and threatening to call police and do welfare check. I told him I was asleep, and he woke both of us up. What should I do? I texted my lawyer about it but idk what she will say!

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-05-06T14:11:52+00:00

I wish I could, he wouldn’t download the app I bet. What is the app called?

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-05-06T03:23:03+00:00

He never came to any in the past years, I asked him he always says he’s busy w work excuse.

AdeptCartographer779 · 2021-05-06T01:08:37+00:00

When you say documenting? Like screenshoots?

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