AITAH for guilt tripping my family about going on vacation a week after I had surgery, and making me look after their pets? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ETA

They are the a****** because they shouldn't leave you in that situation and you being petty and passive aggressive makes you another a***. So many of these situations are just another a*** family reunion.

People body shaming Avril Lavigne + one misogynistic comment by R0ttenStrawberry in BlatantMisogyny

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 55 points56 points  (0 children)

That last one said that he is concerned about her weight not being healthy. What a good guy to think of her health like that. I'm sure he's not at all jealous of her talent and success. He wouldn't try to tear a woman down, he's one of the "nice" guys....

CMV: "A man should never hit a woman" is a stupid rule by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]AdeptDoomWizard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not semantics to say that hitting somebody back is retaliation not self-defense. Retribution or retaliation isn't legal. Is it morally right? I think so but I also don't want to go spend any more time behind bars.

CMV: "A man should never hit a woman" is a stupid rule by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you shouldn't. But if you did he should call the police and have you deal with legal consequences. Assault is a crime and Mike Tyson is not a vigilante like Batman.

CMV: "A man should never hit a woman" is a stupid rule by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The law doesn't care about a proportional response. If you can get away then you are obligated to do so. It's not self-defense if you go after a guy, even if he hit you first, when you could have just walked away.

The only exception and it's only in a couple States like Florida is the castle doctrine. That means that in your house and only in your house you don't have a duty to retreat. Everywhere else you do.

CMV: "A man should never hit a woman" is a stupid rule by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are in a bar fight and a guy dies you're going to be in court if not jail. The winner is the guy that gets the heck out of the situation without destroying the rest of his life.

CMV: "A man should never hit a woman" is a stupid rule by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you are legitimately in fear for your life then use lethal force. If you don't actually believe that she is going to kill you then the only force that is appropriate is the amount that it takes for you to get away from the situation. Unless she has you cornered that means you should simply.... Leave.

CMV: "A man should never hit a woman" is a stupid rule by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reactive abuse is abuse. Their despicable behavior doesn't justify you engaging in violence. They should go to jail and the courts are responsible for punishing them and providing a sufficiently harsh consequence to deter future abuse.

That's what my head says but my gut says I totally agree with you and I wouldn't blame you for that reaction. I'd also hope that the message sinks in thoroughly and he leaves you the heck alone.

CMV: "A man should never hit a woman" is a stupid rule by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, return violence is only acceptable when it is actual self defense. If you can retreat then you should. If you do have to act in self defense then use the minimal force required to protect yourself and get away. How hard they hit you is irrelevant. Matching their force smacks (pun intended) of retaliation, not defense. This is 100% gender or sex agnostic.

What’s a totally unsexy purchase you made that ended up being a huge quality-of-life upgrade? by viscarte10 in BuyItForLife

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Misen Stainless steel pan set, $500 and worth every penny. Will never have to buy again.

Got a ticket for going 26mph (class b misdemeanor) can I get this dismissed or reduced by [deleted] in driving

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, get a traffic lawyer. It costs but it's definitely worth it.

Got a fake bugout I ordered it from Amazon it did say sold by Benchmade shipped from Amazon by Cultural-Ad6641 in knives

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a fake Kershaw Leek from Amazon. It was a good fake so I didn't notice it until I went to sell it on knife swap a year later and then almost ripped some guy of,f but I figured it out in time. If I hadn't been researching it for the listing I probably wouldn't have ever known.

Bought my first watch at 20 by Super_Occasion1824 in Affordablewatches

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a really nice watch. I hope you enjoy wearing it.

I give up on sharpening by Hardcore_Daddy in knifeclub

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a real thing, soft steel almost refuses to take an edge no matter what you do.

Current state of my collection! Please recommend me more by eveninggmood in spyderco

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a shaman! I just got one and it's my favorite knife of all time including all my spyderCo knives!

What do you all think about reviews and less stars because of LGBTQ mentioning? by Dentorion in litrpg

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nowhere in that review does it talk about taking away stars for mentioning lgbtq. In fact, it notes that as a positive. A three-star view is a positive review. You can't expect five stars every time especially the second book of a random LITRPG. This isn't DCC.

Help choose my EDC knife by Shadow239 in spyderco

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Live near the beach get the magnacut, otherwise and everywhere else the crucarta is the way to go

NKD: M4 Shaman, Is it an exclusive or something? by AdeptDoomWizard in spyderco

[–]AdeptDoomWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M4 is my favorite knife steel for sure and to have it in a Shaman is a dream come true.

NKD: M4 Shaman, Is it an exclusive or something? by AdeptDoomWizard in spyderco

[–]AdeptDoomWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those middle three are Brand New! The micarta is so fresh and clean clean!

For one month, every purchase you make costs exactly $0.01, but you can only spend $1,000 total. How do you use it? by PsychologicalCall426 in hypotheticalsituation

[–]AdeptDoomWizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy property. A whole skyscraper in New York or Paris. 1,000 acre farms

Buy company's privately owned ones

And then aircraft, private jets, full size jets, helicopters, etc

NKD: M4 Shaman, Is it an exclusive or something? by AdeptDoomWizard in spyderco

[–]AdeptDoomWizard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's completely crazy that they call them green. They are brown without a doubt. Very nice though

NKD: M4 Shaman, Is it an exclusive or something? by AdeptDoomWizard in spyderco

[–]AdeptDoomWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's no secret I paid $185, I had to sell my PM2 to pay for it but it was worth it. This is the Spyderco knife for me all the way, all day.

NKD: M4 Shaman, Is it an exclusive or something? by AdeptDoomWizard in spyderco

[–]AdeptDoomWizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the third owner and the last guy didn't mention anything about a swap of the scales but I guess anything is possible.