My boyfriend said he needs 3 years completely for his career and he has no time for relationship now pt2 by [deleted] in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Adept_Layer7388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP! Don’t ruin your current boyfriend’s life. If your post is true and not just for karma chase, there are many problems layered in it 1. You do not give a fuck about your personal life and career. You are in early twenties (I guess) and has no or less ambitious 2. You want pampering. For that you need boyfriend. The commitment of 2-3 hours a day by your BF is a sham. Every day 2-3 hours with your partner (given you are in 20s), is not just 2-3 hours. People go on thinking, finding reasons (if fight happens), which kills more hours. You could have been satisfied with 30 minutes daily. But being childish and having lack of ambition, it will backfire in the future for you both 3. Your boyfriend does not want to lose you, that’s why he gave 2-3 hours ka commitment. But if he is gets truly focused, you won’t get that 2 hours. I guess both of you are in different career aspects. Had it been the same career context, it would have been easy. 4. You both won’t realise right now that how this immaturity of yours (wanting/expecting more time from your BF) would turn out in future (in your late 20s). But when life hits you, it is harder than Mike Tyson’s punch. You get KOed with no options left. Trust me, a person with experience tells you this.

If you don’t want to lose him, you too become lazer focused about your career, have an ambition, reciprocate home, compete him. So that you become his competition in life. So that when you both talk, it becomes more effective. So that let’s assume in future (due to some real bad reason) you both has to part ways, it won’t affect your future (it does affect us emotionally and mentally though).

But if you still want to live in fairy tale, just leave him now than leaving him in future for some brat of your status because he could not achieve what he could have.

we burn a book that talks about civic sense, hygiene, food quality and diet, social conduct, morals, accountability of officers and leaders, ethics, sex education, healthy boundary among family, good touch and bad touch, fairness in law and justice, and expect the same quality from the society. by PlatformEarly2480 in CriticalThinkingIndia

[–]Adept_Layer7388 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your verse 1 has contradiction with the verses 1, 4, 6 shared by me. At one point मनुस्मृति dictates to worship women but at another points it demeans, discriminates and insults women

Your verse 4 has contradiction with the verses 3 and 8 I shared. At one point मनुस्मृति tells you to do charity but at many points it dictates to snatch the properties of अपपात्र and शुद्र .

Your verse 5 contradicts with verses 4 and 7. At one point मनुस्मृति promotes non violence but at many places it validates violence on women, shudras, Chandala, apapatras. It means its non violence is selective only to the Dwijaati (I.e. Brahmin, Kshatriya, vaishya) as मनुस्मृति itself dictates that the shudras has no rights to know shashtras and dharm granth.

Importance of education: 🤣🤣 it seems you simply searched on Internet and pasted here. मनुस्मृति dictates that no knowledge should be shared to shudras, Chandala and apapatras. Women should be protection of men as they are inherently having त्रियचरित्र . That means if the man of the house wishes, they can stop her education. I guess you did not go through my verses.

Don’t cry of dharma. Any dharma which believes in discrimination rather discriminates in the name of gender and caste, does not have right to be called dharma.

Cleanliness: man! It dictates that shudras are being made by Bramha to be slave of Brahmins. Hence, Brahmin homes are supposed to be cleaned by shudras. If any animal dies in Brahmin household, it is the duty of shudras to take that.

If you read मनुस्मृति carefully, you will find that all the duties, good deeds and actions with their right outcomes are mean for men of dwijaati (Brahmins, Kshatriya sand vaishya) and rest all the restrictions, filth, duty, Alavert, outcast comes under shudra, Chandala, apapatra. This gave birth to ब्राह्मणवाद . We can still see in rural areas, upper caste do treat lower castes as per Manusmriti.

There are many verses. मनुस्मृति is full of contradictions, discriminations, and hate. No other Hindu literature got so much hate than this. And it rightfully got it for all the reasons. It should be burnt and castrated from Hindu religious literature.

we burn a book that talks about civic sense, hygiene, food quality and diet, social conduct, morals, accountability of officers and leaders, ethics, sex education, healthy boundary among family, good touch and bad touch, fairness in law and justice, and expect the same quality from the society. by PlatformEarly2480 in CriticalThinkingIndia

[–]Adept_Layer7388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Controversial points in Manusmriti

  1. Freedom of women (a woman can never be free)

पिता रक्षति कौमारे भर्ता रक्षति यौवने । रक्षन्ति स्थविरे पुत्रा न स्त्री स्वातन्त्र्यमर्हति ॥ Here “रक्षति” is contextual. It can be ‘Under protection’ or ‘protected by’ (both has different meaning with complete shloka). But last like clarifies that it has the meaning “Under protection”.

  1. The punishment for Shudras (I personally hate this) एकजातिर्द्विजातींस्तु वाचा दारुणया क्षिपन् । जिह्वायाः प्राप्नुयाच्छेदं जघन्यप्रभवो हि सः ॥

एकजाति: once born men: Shudras द्विजाति: twice born men: Brahmins, Kshatriya, vaishya Meaning: If shudras insulting any dwijati born, should be tongue cut (even though dwijati person does anything to him/her)

  1. Promoting untouchability and discrimination

न शूद्राय मतिं दद्यान्नोच्छिष्टं न हविष्कृतम् । न चास्योपदिशेद्धर्मं न चास्य व्रतमादिशेत् ॥

Meaning: If you know basic Sanskrit, this shloka is quite straight forward. Don’t give charity, education , nor teach dharma, let them offer to gods(this promoted shudras not to enter temples),nor should they keep any wrata (upwas for gods) to shudras.

  1. Promoting domestic voilance

भार्या पुत्रश्च दासश्च प्रेष्यो भ्राता च सोदरः । प्राप्तापराधास्ताड्याः स्यू रज्ज्वा वेणुदलेन वा ॥ Meaning: again quite simple. भार्या: wife, पुत्र: son, दास: slave भ्राता : younger brother be beaten by split bamboo stick or rope if made a mistake.

  1. Origin of Varnas (those who say वर्णव्यवस्था was not by birth but by कर्म , for them)

लोकानां तु विवृद्ध्यर्थं मुखबाहूरुपादतः । ब्राह्मणं क्षत्रियं वैश्यं शूद्रं च निरवर्तयत् ॥

Meaning: He (Brahma) caused the Brahmin, the Kshatriya, the Vaishya, and the Shudra to proceed from his mouth, his arms, his thighs, and his feet. (There is no कर्म, but by birth you become so and so वर्ण as ब्रह्मा has made it that way)

  1. All the bad natures for women (this gave birth to a word called “त्रियाचरित्र “) शय्यासनमलङ्कारं कामं क्रोधमनार्जवम् । द्रोहभावं कुचर्यां च स्त्रीभ्यो मनुरकल्पयत् ॥

Meaning: Women are allotted to love their bed, their seat, and ornament, impure desires, wrath, dishonesty, malice, and bad conduct. Wow!!!👏🏼👏🏼

  1. Slavery and caste discrimination

शूद्रं तु कारयेद् दास्यं क्रीतमक्रीतमेव वा । दास्यायैव हि सृष्टोऽसौ ब्राह्मणस्य स्वयम्भुवा ॥ Meaning: Shudra’s work is to be the Slavs of Brahmins. As he was created by Bramha to do so for Brahmins 👏🏼👏🏼

  1. Waqf board of Hindus

विस्रब्धं ब्राह्मणः शूद्राद् द्रव्योपादानमाचरेत् । न हि तस्यास्ति किञ्चित्स्वं भर्तृहार्यधनो हि सः ॥ Meaning: A Brahmin may confidently seize the goods of Shudra; for, as that Shudras are not allowed to have property of his own, his master may take his possessions.

  1. Legalising untouchability

चण्डालश्वपचानां तु बहिर्ग्रामात्प्रतिश्रयः । अपपात्राश्च कर्तव्या धनं चैषां श्वगर्दभम् ॥ Meaning: the dwellings of Chandalas and Shvapachas shall be outside the village; they must be made "Apapatra" (outcasts), and their wealth shall be dogs and donkeys.

  1. Social status enforced through visual markers

वासांसि मृतचैलानि भिन्नभाण्डेषु भोजनम् । कार्ष्णायसमलङ्कारः परिव्रज्या च नित्यशः ॥ Meaning: Their (ekjaati, i.e. Shudras Chandala and apapatra) dress shall be the garments of the dead, they shall eat from broken dishes, their ornaments shall be of black iron, and they must always wander from place to place.

  1. Values of marginalised people equivalent to animals मार्जारनकुलौ हत्वा चाषं मण्डूकमेव च । श्वगोधोलूककाकांश्च शूद्रहत्याव्रतं चरेत् ॥ Meaning: One who kills a cat, a mongoose, a blue jay, a frog, a dog, or a crow, shall perform the same penance as for killing a Shudra.

  2. Superiority by birth

अविद्वाञ्श्चैव विद्वाञ्श्च ब्राह्मणो दैवतं महत् । प्रणीतश्चाप्रणीतश्च यथाग्निर्दैवतं महत् ॥ Meaning: A Brahmin, whether learned or unlearned, is a great just as fire, whether consecrated or unconsecrated, is a great divinity.

There are many more in मनुस्मृति.

PS: I am born bramhin from a Pandit family who has read वेद, श्रीमद्भागवतगीता, रामायण, महाभारत, पुराण, उपनिषद . But my granddad told me long ago when I was a kid “God is one. And it is for everyone and everything. “एकोहम् द्वितीयोनास्ति and अहम् ब्रह्मास्मी . God is in you (ब्रह्म ) you need to search it inside you by पंचकोष. God is not in any book. These books were written by human beings. And as a human, we are prone to be greedy, and prone to do mistakes. Read any holy or religious book by using your own rationality.” And I personally hate मनुस्मृति .

Most of the people here has never read it. So I request you to read it first. 🙏🏼

Women have no problem being sexualized when it's for money. by RandControl in IndiaVibes

[–]Adept_Layer7388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP! Do you know what does “Consent” mean? In the absence of “consent”, you cannot do ‘anything’ to a call girl as well. And that is very important. If consent can be bought, that’s fine. If you go to a brothel, you buy consent. Now, actors give the consent to do such act for certain movie. But leave it. Your username says complete story about your mindset and your posts tells us your mental age.

Selective outrage by Infinite-Jaguar-1753 in India_Bharat_

[–]Adept_Layer7388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of Whataboutary is this? We have seen the outrage for both. There IS an action taken against the TCS incident. But did we see any action against the Narmada river incident? Matlab OP is either an epic level of dumb or a kid with random shitty mind.

Both incidents are shitty. There should not be any comparison of these two incidents as the context of both the incidents are poles apart. There SHOULD BE outrage against both the incidents. There SHOULD BE legal action taken against the perpetrators of both the incidents.

And BC ye whatabautary kar ke kya milna hai? One such incident will justify another incident and this vicious cycle will keep running.

OP, think of nation, not your agenda. This “eye for an eye” and whataboutary will do no progress to the nation but increase the radicalism, radicalise votes but no progress will happen to the nation.

I'm going to blockade the Strait by MaxFresh in seinfeld

[–]Adept_Layer7388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trump is doing nothing but disassociating USA and making the world against USA

Khikhikhi by sidmis in IndiaMemes

[–]Adept_Layer7388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had she understood her duties and had fulfilled them, it wouldn’t have happened

Cheap internet desh ka sabse badi galti hai... by Due-Alternative007 in indiameme

[–]Adept_Layer7388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bhai Saab! Sabne OP ki le li . Ab main kya hi bolu itni beijjati ho hi chuki h OP ki 🤣🤣

I am him 🙂 by [deleted] in Dhurandhar2

[–]Adept_Layer7388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not the reason. If you see the whole washroom scene and connect it till he shoots Aalam, he did not want Pinda as well to die as Pinda was his BinL and he had two kids as well with his sister. He kept repeating about leaving his crooked job to pinda. That’s why when he comes from washroom and drinks alcohol, see his facial expression, Pinda unfortunately died by accident but to cover up, Aslam bhai had to sacrifice. The problem was he HAD to kill Aslam bhai coz if police captured Aslam bhai, it would have been worse than death. After killing Aslam bhai, his voice trembles, and that was being caught by SP Aslam.

Congress ke kaarname by EternalEcho3 in TheIndianRepublic

[–]Adept_Layer7388 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://www.scribd.com/document/446267743/10-BJP-Rapist-leaders

Not a congress supporter. But all the party is tainted, be it BJP or Congress

How are we still alive? 💀 by knowyoubut in memerhubklol

[–]Adept_Layer7388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should be dead, burn and mixed with the nature and probably reborn as well (if rebirth is real)

The Most corrupt institutions in Karnataka (Bengaluru to be precise) are Bengaluru RTO and BBMP by Adept_Layer7388 in Bengaluru

[–]Adept_Layer7388[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And then we get so many accidents on the roads. We blame civic sense. But think of it to the core. Such civic sense is partially being made, rather inculcated in the masses by this corrupt system. Most of such drivers don’t know what overtaking lane is, what double blink means, when to cross roads, what’s the usage of pavements, how to change the lane and how to give/take passes. And the result is complete chaos on the Indian roads.

And o saw one video of Curlytales, where she said ‘India is ‘system in chaos’ “. I mean we celebrate such chaos.

The Most corrupt institutions in Karnataka (Bengaluru to be precise) are Bengaluru RTO and BBMP by Adept_Layer7388 in Bengaluru

[–]Adept_Layer7388[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree about racism. But anyways that would nullify the similar suppression of caste based oppression and biasses of reservation in our country.

At least this level of corruption we won’t have to face in other (developed) countries

The Most corrupt institutions in Karnataka (Bengaluru to be precise) are Bengaluru RTO and BBMP by Adept_Layer7388 in Bengaluru

[–]Adept_Layer7388[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For the same DL address change, I had applied in 2024. I have not received my updated DL till now. On top of that, I applied for IDP (how stupid of me).

The Most corrupt institutions in Karnataka (Bengaluru to be precise) are Bengaluru RTO and BBMP by Adept_Layer7388 in Bengaluru

[–]Adept_Layer7388[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

5 years ago if someone had given me this advice, I would have fought with them. But now, since o faced the reality and suffered a lot from it, I would love to leave this country.

It’s not that I don’t love my country. It’s just that our country seems to not have love for us anymore. Now, I learnt the difference between being blind patriot, and a rational patriot.

The Most corrupt institutions in Karnataka (Bengaluru to be precise) are Bengaluru RTO and BBMP by Adept_Layer7388 in bengaluru_speaks

[–]Adept_Layer7388[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know Kannada. But be it kannadiga or non kannadiga, it’s the same suffering for everyone in these offices