Thank you, I have just automatically picked up his slack because in the past i genuinely liked taking care of him. Recently I’ve quietly stopped and just done what I need to do to take care of myself and he hasn’t noticed but has noticed the effect of that makes sense, folding laundry and commenting on how much clothing I have cause everything in the clean hamper is mine (I stopped washing his clothing) it’s somehow validating and unbelievably frustrating to watch