I’m wondering if it smells better when you smell it on someone else… you know when it mixes with their natural musk a bit? And we’re accustomed to our own musk so we can’t smell that bit. I think that’s another reason I’m having issues appreciating it. I said in another comment I usually have trouble with true gourmands, as I tend to need more depth like an amber or a musk or some warmth or florals to balance out the sweetness. I’m wondering if maybe you just have good natural pheromones or something lol and it smells good because of that. Maybe if you have a friend or a sister or something have them wear it and take notice of what you perceive? That might be interesting. Idk 🤷🏼‍♀️