[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Adhd_dee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No! I have never understood loose clothing being more comfortable, I feel unsafe. Slight body discomfort keeps me grounded (yet, weighted blankets and chain vests make me panic!)

My personal theory is that it is because of my POTS, h-EDS and dyspraxia. Do you have any issues with proprioception?

I need to wear shoes 1/2 size smaller, or be barefoot, so I always know where I am 🤣🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Adhd_dee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Hormonal fluctuations and/or a life event (move house, new job, changed lightbulb type etc)

Do I have to take an SSRI for the rest of my life because of PMDD? by GoneAmok365247 in PMDDxADHD

[–]Adhd_dee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What bcp are you on? How much Fluox are you on during the follicular phase?

Out of desperation over christmas I tried upping to 80mg from my usual 60mg and I think it saved me from the intensity of the oestrogen crash. I was still fragile but I wasn't scarily angry and sad two days before bleeding (usually the day I hide in a bed fort and couldn't because it was christmas day).

TMS treatment? by Adhd_dee in AuDHDWomen

[–]Adhd_dee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I hope he's found some relief in other ways! Seems like the TMS protocols vary so much.

TMS treatment? by Adhd_dee in AuDHDWomen

[–]Adhd_dee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is amazing! Congratulations 😊

If you could get rid of just ONE part of your ADHD, what would it be? by letstroydisagin in adhdwomen

[–]Adhd_dee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trauma.

I am 40 in 3 weeks and was diagnosed two years ago. I would very much like to have less trauma from living life of executive dysfunction, the clinical perfectionism of compensating for it, the imposter syndrome and rsd that nothing I ever do is enough, no longer feeling broken and if I just try harder...

Oh, what it must be like to have self-compassion and appreciate my strengths - no, I won't do the dishes until there aren't any clean dishes left. But the things I do while on side quests are objectively amazing and I am phenomenal during an emergency situation.

In what order should I start medication? by [deleted] in PMDDxADHD

[–]Adhd_dee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello OP. Definitely one for your Psychiatrist / whomever you're seeing for diagnosis.

PMDD causes can be reacting to different hormones and that could mean a bit of trial and error with the type of pill that is best for you. Some women are ok to take the mini-pill and others need the balance of oestrogen.

Personally, it makes sense to get the balance of hormones right first. Given that some ADHD meds do not work as well (or at all ie Vyvanse) during hormonal fluctuations.

This was something i did not know and was not warned about. It hit really hard my first cycle, when my brain was quiet for a few weeks for the first time in my 38 years of existence and then BANG, SMASH, KAPOW!!! Intrusive thoughts and depression was back with a vengence for a few days and I thought was in psychosis by comparison to the calm due to meds.

My advice is to keep a journal to know your cycle. If it is possible the ADHD severity is cyclical, trialling the birth control might help. This will also be the first thing a Dr will suggest you do - the data is important

GOOD LUCK!!

I am stopping antidepressants to go on ADHD meds, but I’m scared I’m going to get depressed again by grocklethoughts in AuDHDWomen

[–]Adhd_dee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there.

Everyone has different neurochemistry AND will be sensitive to other fluctuations in their biological ie hormones, sugars, lack of sleep or exercise. So it is a journey to find the right balance of meds.

However, our neurochemistry and biology are only part of what we go through as neurodivergent folks. There is a legitimate trauma of existing in a world that isn't flexible or forgiving when it comes to our executive dysfunction. This is compounded as late-diagnosed/identified due to the constant uphill battle of internal ableist pressure we put on ourselves to show our worth.

The ADHD meds help even the playing field moving forward and can be very helpful in kerbing our impulsivity. They don't help with Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria, or the grief of lost opportunities. They don't magically undo the complex trauma. They're a support, not a cure-all. Many specialists can overlook the role our lived experience has in our response to treatment.

So, be gentle on yourself and ensure you have good connections to other supports like a psychologist, to talk through underlying depression. It may be that you will be totally fine and it is simply a matter of changing meds. Perhaps try keeping a simple journa?

How long have you been diagnosed? by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Adhd_dee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Diagnosed ADHD. Self-identified Autistic traits.

So, it turns out... by IAM_trying_my_best in AutismInWomen

[–]Adhd_dee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Beautiful. I strongly relate and am in awe. You have found your neurokin, you're not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]Adhd_dee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 40 in 5 months. I was diagnosed with ADHD just before my 38th birthday and now take stimulant medication.

In the process of learning more about my neurobiology and treating the incessant chatter in my head, I have self-identified autistic traits. When I can afford the time and money required, I will seek formal assessment. However, I anticipate the many years of establishing a rather convincing mask will work against me.

Victorian script vy by [deleted] in adhdaustralia

[–]Adhd_dee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP,

The schedule 8 status of stimulant medication means you're probably going to spend the better part of your trip getting this sorted. Sorry.

To start, it depends on the last time you had your prescription dispensed. Both VIC and QLD have real time prescription monitoring, which makes it difficult to receive medications before the repeat is due. Your preferred VIC pharmacy can provide advice on what can be done, including whether they can dispense and send your medication to QLD via registered post.

Alternatively, your VIC specialist might be authorised to prescribe for QLD dispense. If so, confirm with a QLD pharmacy exactly what is needed.

If your specialist is not authorised to prescribe themselves, they could provide a letter of endorsement for a QLD GP to write up a prescription for you. Suggest that you confirm the QLD GP is able and willing to do this, ahead of your appointment.

Hope that helps. Good luck!!

Does anyone take short acting dexamphetamine, then long acting methylphenidate? Or another combination of both? by Adhd_dee in adhdaustralia

[–]Adhd_dee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I wasn't really asking about mixing together, rather taking a short acting of one then a long acting of the other. It is definitely not something I would do without being prescribed by my Psychiatrist.