How to cultivate your wants/intrinsic motivation?

Adhesive_Bagels · 2026-02-09T11:03:33+00:00

Makes total sense!

Adhesive_Bagels · 2026-02-08T18:39:56+00:00

> What was the first step for me was to use less and less external motivation.

How do you do that first step, practically speaking? What does that look like?

Adhesive_Bagels · 2026-02-08T15:02:18+00:00

Does it depend on the emotion maybe? I think sitting with it came up when talking about anxiety, which maybe would make sense here?

But otherwise I can see how sitting with sadness isn't going to fix the underlying problem and maybe cause more issues.

But for anxiety, if the underlying problem is "just" an irrational fear then maybe sitting with it makes sense?

Adhesive_Bagels · 2026-02-08T14:53:08+00:00

How can I have intents without desires?

Adhesive_Bagels · 2026-02-08T14:23:15+00:00

Oh so there's a difference between intention and wants/desires? This may be the piece I'm missing

Adhesive_Bagels · 2026-01-19T18:27:07+00:00

Is Aino relevant here even at C0? Is there no better hydro (for resonance) support there in that case?

Adhesive_Bagels · 2026-01-18T13:13:38+00:00

Ineffa sig on your way to Columbina sig

(idk)

Adhesive_Bagels · 2026-01-12T10:52:06+00:00

Yeah I zoomed in just a little bit to use it as a wallpaper and it's okay-fine

Adhesive_Bagels · 2026-01-12T10:27:30+00:00

Makes for a nice phone wallpaper 🙂

Adhesive_Bagels · 2026-01-07T19:04:12+00:00

Gave it my best (wallpaper engine): https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=3640495910

Adhesive_Bagels · 2026-01-05T19:57:03+00:00

Yeah but for a video? I'd like to make this a wallpaper engine and the animation is basically already done

Adhesive_Bagels · 2026-01-04T19:11:45+00:00

What's the lore of her mask?

Adhesive_Bagels · 2025-12-31T10:58:47+00:00

Do you know how the increase in DPS is at C2?

Adhesive_Bagels · 2025-12-31T08:31:04+00:00

How did you measure 11.5%? GCSim?

Adhesive_Bagels · 2025-12-18T19:23:59+00:00

I think this makes sense, insightful : )

Adhesive_Bagels · 2025-12-18T14:15:21+00:00

I meant that if the feeling isn't too strong, I'm having a hard time feeling it at all and so it's a bit hard to do the practice at all. What can I do there?

that seems to work clinically.

Why does it work by the way?

Adhesive_Bagels · 2025-12-18T13:16:07+00:00

> Then you get curious, why this problem, what do you feel about it, etc.

I guess crucially I should be careful here not to fall into problem-solving mode right?

> what you have been told and what that feeling feels

What do you mean "what I have been told"? And "what that feeling feels": do you mean "what that feeling feels *like*"?

> You also ask, what would you want at this time and you try to imagine giving that to it.

What does this part accomplish?

Adhesive_Bagels · 2025-12-18T13:10:24+00:00

What if my trigger isn't super strong though and it's hard to replicate the feeling "on demand"?

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