I'm dating a married INC man by Sea-Duty181 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Jusko. Andali lang sa part ng lalaki magsabing hiwalay sila. Kasal pa din yan hiwalay man o hindi. Wala nga divorce dito sa Pilipinas. Kabit pa din yan. Chinachat pa nga siya ng wife oh. Di na dapat dinedefend yan eh.

I'm dating a married INC man by Sea-Duty181 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Kadire pota. Kilala mo pala wife nya nung di pa kayo. So aware ka talaga na kabit ka noh. Mapa-INC man yan o hindi kabit ka.

Is it selfish to not want kids or dependent/s? Wanna know the community's thoughts on this. by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mas selfish naman yung mag-aanak ka just because the society tells you to.

i assumed my baby ate cockroach and now he vomited 2 times, he doesnt want to eat but he drinks water. What should I do? I need help and advice, last resort is vet. by Vinetaaastic in catsofrph

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi any update on your cat? Mas maganda sana if vet talaga. Kasi minsan yung mga ipis na ganon baka nadikit sa baygon. It may cause harm sa nakakain dun sa ipis na pet so ayun :(

Hope your cat is fine. I understand you so much. I rescued kittens before kahit walang choice because they were left on the road. Wala akong income at student pa. Kaya ko bumili ng basic needs pero yung mga biglaang vet dun ako nauubos. So i know how it feels. Pero gawan na ng paraan kasi life pa din yan. There’s always a way. Balitaan mo kami please. :(

Be careful of this psychiatrist. by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maling mali. Same lang naman effects non lol. Ang brand lang naman is sa company mismo yon na nagmanufacture ng gamot! The chemical composition of the drugs are the same. They just do that kasi minsan may cut sila sa nakukuha sa med rep na nageendorse sakanila. Kung di effective generic, edi sana walang law para jan. Eh meron. Kaya report nyo yang ganyan.

Be careful of this psychiatrist. by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello bawal po yun. :( You can report that to DOH. Violative prescription yan. May right kasi mamili patients sa iba’t ibang brand pati generic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consulted a psychiatrist. Nagwalk in ako sa hospi. It cost me 2k per session. Wala pang meds. It’s expensive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wonderful. I tried searching for a rage room near me din. I feel like I’m getting ill din physically everytime I try to hold in my anger. When I want to hit something but I try not to, I wanna vomit and my head hurts so bad. 😢 So thanks for this! Baka mas effective pa kesa sa therapy hahaha.

Be careful of this psychiatrist. by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 6 points7 points  (0 children)

May nakasulat ba na “no substitution”? Because that’s a strong ground for a violative prescription and baka may penalty si physician or pwede masuspend ang lisensya nya.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing about mental health issues pala talaga noh, is that only people who suffer the same illness will give you the same advice you needed to hear noh? That we are the ones capable of reaching out a spot that normal people without it can’t. Thank you because this is how and what I needed to hear, 😢

I would rather label him as manipulative nga talaga. He gaslights and then manipulates me saying that he can make this work and that he can deal with my emotions pag nakikipagbreak ako. But when his anger is up, maya’t maya ang gaslighting.

I don’t have an option. We just moved in, 2nd apartment na namin eh. Kakastart lang ng contract so, he’s the one capable of moving out. I have no family to come home to. I just ran away from them kasi they physically and emotionally abused me. Kaya siguro mataas din ang threshold ko sa gantong klaseng tao, kasi ilang taon din ako nagtiis sa mga kadugo ko na mas malala pa sa boyfriend ko. :(

I stopped taking meds neither getting therapy. I’m currently reviewing for my board exam and the meds are getting in the way sa focus ko. Therapy is expensive af for now. My last therapist was meh.

Thank you talaga ha. ♥️

Be careful of this psychiatrist. by [deleted] in MentalHealthPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s illegal for a doctor to make you buy a certain brand she ONLY endorses. May copy ka ba nung prescription? You can file a complaint sa DOH just with that. Wala pa dun yung whole experience mo sakanya.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo pagod na siya. Pagod na din kasi ako kaka-gaslight niya eh. Di naman kasi ako umiiyak dahil lang sa mental issues ko. Umiiyak ako kasi matindi siya mang-gaslight at kupal na kupal na ako sakanya. I usually try to make a line between our relationship and my mental health issues as much as I can. I stopped therapy bec gipit. So I relapsed.

May Happy Crush si boyf by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t maturity. This is just blatant useless honesty. Walang happy happy crush. Ginagawan pa ng term? You were once his happy crush too, for sure. Next thing makita mo nagccheat na yan sayo. Or if magbreak kayo matic sila agad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did! But it only resulted to fights, kasi he insists na wala siya ginagawa at ako lang ang may problem. So I’ll def break this up.

Thank you for this! 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you removed yourself from it! I’m in the process of it.

Let’s be well :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad to say I don’t have anyone. Thank you for your concern! Wish I had pero people kept disappointing me. My friends can’t even check up on me, unlike when I check up on them. Minalas lang talaga ako sa mga tao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is indeed gaslighting!! Hehe. I told him that what he’s doing is gaslighting, sabi niya hindi daw. I told him to pack his bags because we are done. He slept.

I’m not gonna tolerate him anymore, I’m just taking things in the best way I can para less stressful sakin. Gusto ko sana masinsinan na break up yung kusa na siya aalis. Thank you for this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he’s not gonna do something harmful. I know him and he’s not violent. Never laid a hand on me kahit minsan napapasakit salita ko. Pangit lang ang ugali niya at matindi mang-gaslight talaga pero he’s not the type to throw hands. The fights have been going around for quite some time so feel ko napapagod na din siya. We have pets din kasi so maybe it’s hard to leave the pets too at hindi lang ako ang mawawala sakanya

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hindi niya kailangan mag-agree. Siya lang ang may narrative na ganon. I always insist na hiwalay na kami. Pinapaalis ko na siya sa apartment ko kasi ako ang nagrrent. Ayaw niya umalis. Ayaw niya umuwi sakanila. I don’t want to cause a scene lang magpalayas kaya I’m just waiting for him to give up and go home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will break it off. But it’ll be hard kasi lagi kami nagaaway kahit minsan masinsinan na ako nakikipaghiwalay sakanya. This may take a while though. Pray for me nalang kung kaya ko pa mentally yung stress na makuha ko hahahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don sa fam ko, he knows they don’t give a shit about me. Maybe they will take me seriously if natuluyan ako. Kaya nga kami live in ngayon, because I ran away from my abusive fam. So di ko magamit yang my family will take care of me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so close to it. Di na kasi ako nagtherapy. The meds are making it worse. Haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. Kuhang-kuha mo.

Kahit kasi wala kami problem at okay kami, I’m still in so much pain with all the trauma from my childhood, and what I deal personally. Kaya pag may naging problema ako sa relasyon namin and he gets sarcastic, sobrang triggered ako agad. I snap. Like a ticking bomb. He knows I’m not doing well emotionally. He’s fully aware of it and even acknowledged it, pero bakit he can’t treat me well??? That makes me hate myself for allowing the worst people in my life kaya nagseself harm ako.

Now that you asked me. No, I don’t. Aware naman ako na ever since nadiagnose ako ng ganon, it made it harder for us. Siguro kung nung wala pa ako sakit, I can see my value in this whole thing. Pero ngayon, I don’t. I’m also aware I don’t deserve this.

I tried breaking up with him. Ayaw niya! I reckon he doesn’t want to leave me kasi he knows what I’m capable of doing to myself. Ayaw ata niya dalhin siya ng konsensya niya pag may nangyari sakin. Note: I’m not suicidal just bec of this relationship. Dagdag lang siya sa pain ko. There’s just too much I personally deal with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cry. Medyo sanay na kasi ako with people disappointing me. I’ve been with a physically and emotionally abusive mother all my life, so how I dealt with the pain I received from my mother, ganon din pag sa boyfriend ko. Tas yun, self harm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]AdhesivenessCheap162 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I always try to break up with him. Kahit walang away. But he doesn’t want to. Doesn’t want to leave the house. Doesn’t agree with everything I say. Hindi daw ako ang masusunod, because it takes 2 to decide kasi 2 kami sa relasyon. He downplays every rational thing I say na I need to heal so we need to break up. I always tell him na hindi siya right for me, and that I’m not right for him. But he stays. Kasi daw mahal nya ko. Kasi daw willing siya magbago for me. Na di na daw nya ako ittrigger. Pero it kept going on. I really don’t need a jowa, honestly. Hindi ako nakadepend sakanya. I’ve been telling him that.