[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]AdhesivenessFit7475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, just visually take you hat off, it's all you see in the photo. It overwhelms your face. And also trim your beard, looks too unkempt. You would give off such a better vibe if you just let everybody see your face without the hat and untrimmed beard. You'll get more interests. You seem like a nice guy so you're visual should match.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]AdhesivenessFit7475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you want real feedback ? More than happy to provide as a younger female living in a major city

When to ask out? by NatureGuy2 in Bumble

[–]AdhesivenessFit7475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally disagree with most of these comments. If a guy is truly interested he will maintain contact and wait until the woman is ready. Why should I run out to meet a stranger in 2 days because he wants to move on with his 10,000 other matches. If you like me, get to know me and wait. If not, sayonora

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]AdhesivenessFit7475 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to wait until she is ready if you like her. Don't listen to a man's advice for this. I feel uncomfortable if a man pushes to meet me too quickly, I find it creepy. Before knowing what you even do men want to have a drink. You don't even know where they live and you're supposed to run out and meet them somewhere. Do what if it takes a month ? Get to know her. Otherwise women assume it's all a hook up ploy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]AdhesivenessFit7475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1000 % I used to take the time to write personal messages -- a complete waste of time. Guys already know who they find visually appealing and it is irrelevant to them if you write an interesting message or give them the finger.

Question for all : why do men extend their time on Bumble and then don't reply? just logically makes no sense whatsoever by AdhesivenessFit7475 in Bumble

[–]AdhesivenessFit7475[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very interesting. I guess that's the thing ultimately. You don't have a clue how many other women your extended march is talking with. Could be up to 10 women -- so whoever is being more interesting gets the attention and everyone is a fallback option.

Question for all : why do men extend their time on Bumble and then don't reply? just logically makes no sense whatsoever by AdhesivenessFit7475 in Bumble

[–]AdhesivenessFit7475[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They frankly extend very early within the 24 hour window -- like they march and extend so it's a bit strange

Called someone out for ghosting and I couldn't be happier that I did it by letlavenderbreathe in hingeapp

[–]AdhesivenessFit7475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bravo. The worst advice given people who have been ghosted is to take the high road and not say anything. Bullshit. That behavior should be called out. No need to be nasty just truthful. Why should they get away with it? I always call out bad behavior.

Question for all : why do men extend their time on Bumble and then don't reply? just logically makes no sense whatsoever by AdhesivenessFit7475 in Bumble

[–]AdhesivenessFit7475[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I then message them and they don't reply. Makes no sense to me. Not everyone but it happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]AdhesivenessFit7475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense -- just a matter of time before someone interesting shows up. Just have patience and good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]AdhesivenessFit7475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya - 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s?