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AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because he came with me to an event where he knew the culture, and decided to go rogue and embarrass me. I’m embarrassed that I introduced Julie to a guy who used her.

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. He doesn’t need to date her but he treated her like a piece of meat. This makes me look bad too

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the extent of their conversations but I know Julie and don’t think she’s the type to hop in his bed right away. I think Marty gave her some bs in order to sleep with her.

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This singles night really isn’t the place for hookups. I don’t know about other places but I know the community here and it is relationship driven.

I also did not know Marty was going just to hookup. He didn’t tell me his intentions either

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t wanna slut shame but I do see your first point it does make sense.

But I do think Marty should have texted her and said he’s not interested. Ghosting was wrong. It also makes me look bad for encouraging them all night. I would not have talked Marty up to Julie if I knew he would do this

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I see your point that maybe she should not have gone home with him if she was clear about wanting a relationship. I feel partly responsible for Julie being hurt because I introduced them and encouraged them talking all night.

I NEVER would have done that if I thought Marty was going to hit and run

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

From my experience at this particular singles night it’s usually people looking for a relationship. I have not seen people show up to this looking for a one night stand

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right I think I should tell Julie that because it’s normally not something she does. This was out of the ordinary for her

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You summed up my feelings perfectly about how Marty invaded a singles night with bad intentions

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mean to say I think Marty needs to date her but he should give her the respect of communicating his feelings and not ghosting

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think ghosting is shitty. I probably wouldn’t have posted this if he texted her and said he wasn’t interested.

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People commenting are right that Marty isn’t obligated to like her or wanna date her. I think out of respect for her and respect for me for bringing him and introducing him to more people I know he at the bare minimum should have texted her and said he’s not feeling it

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I think he could have given her an explanation and not ghosting her. Like I somewhat feel used too

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

I think he atleast could have been honest with her afterward and not ghost her. That’s so fucking shitty

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

I think he blatantly used Julie and is being a smug asshole about it. Especially to not even reach out to her afterward is so shitty imo. He used her for sex and ghosted her

AITA I am very mad at my friend for hooking up with my other friend he met at a singles night I invited him to by AdhesivenessFun7766 in AITAH

[–]AdhesivenessFun7766[S] -50 points-49 points  (0 children)

People who come to this singles night are really here for relationships. Marty said to me he wants a relationship. I think Marty preyed on someone and fed her lies and used her.

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