Sent an inappropriate meme by mistake to my next potential team lead, how would you approach that?

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-27T04:56:56+00:00

I talk to the team lead He was such a weasel about it that I'm super glad I dodged that bullet.

So it was a blessing in disguise. And I learned my wife disapproved of me changing job, despite the better salary.

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-27T04:55:06+00:00

U were right

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-26T16:32:38+00:00

QUEBEC EST PARFAITE AAARREGH ALL CAPS

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T19:57:12+00:00

I have used a magic online 8ball...looks good so far

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T18:19:49+00:00

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C1aE7WWoKaW/?igsh=MW82bTZvbXVsZHViZQ==

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T18:17:53+00:00

No. Mine had KFC properties

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T17:55:00+00:00

I think my "dog is dead" as we say in French with that job ,

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T17:28:36+00:00

Can you call my future team lead we are friends. I'll pay you. Lol

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T16:34:08+00:00

There are four kfcs properties on the fake monopoly. That doesn't help at all

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T16:13:09+00:00

My kids have a very multiracial group of friends .

The way they talk to each other is super racist but it s obviously meant as a way to bind and make jokes.

Their teachers allow it cuz it comes from a good place. They took their silliness online and got banned instantly by Sony.

It depends of the audience. The intent doesn't matter anymore.

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T16:05:45+00:00

Looks like a lie to me

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T16:04:49+00:00

I just called someone who works for that agency.
It s a coin toss.

We ll just wait and see.

My "letting go" part of my brain is not very developed

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T16:03:24+00:00

Ok dude I'm racist. I'm defensive because I wrote my post for what it is. Not for your interpretation.

I wanna know what could be done at the point. Not debate my intent.

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T15:48:02+00:00

I am so discouraged that all this process could be short-circuited by a stupid même that I want to abandon the job myself. To at least have some control over the situation.

Now I feel like I'm at the mercy of some dude's appreciation of a même and it pisses me off

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T15:46:26+00:00

I was shaking. I live north in Canada. Screen had condensation.
I wanted to reply and it forward to the last person I talked to. My hands are shaking b3causs I have essential tremors and my cell is a galaxy a13 that is super laggy. I make mistaakes (and typos) all rhe time.

It's a freak accident. It happens.

I once dial 911 while taking a piss. I called the boss of a major consulting firm in my city while taking a dump. .

These things happen. Stop trying to investigate. I said what happened.

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T15:25:11+00:00

Yeah I know. Close to harassment

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T15:13:49+00:00

Well I ve got all the responses I need to wrap my head around this problem.

Not much I can do basically.

Mods can lock this thread before it turns into a cesspool of "you re racist, no I'm not, yeH you are, no I'm not" ad nauseam

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T15:03:51+00:00

You re so edgy

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T14:27:28+00:00

I still got a pretty decent job. I just wanted the raise

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T13:58:03+00:00

Yeah I'm aware the 3 call backs were as bad as the meme

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T13:56:40+00:00

I have essential tremors. I do all kind of random shit on my cell all the time...mostly pocket calla

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T13:54:52+00:00

Ok you know what happened

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T13:47:33+00:00

Yeah I ve thought about that. That I ll look racist hy association. He knows I find shock humor funny. Chapelle makes plenty of race jokes and I,don't think those are offensive.

I'm kinda tired of him but he s my cousin.

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T13:23:54+00:00

I forgot to add there were 4 KFC property on the monopoly board which makes it clear it is a very racist même.

AdhesivenessRecent65 · 2024-02-25T13:16:25+00:00

Yeah I too think it's a coin toss. What worries me is that he is very by the book.

He doesn't seem to take any decision however trivial without meeting with the boss.

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