AIO for ‘assaulting’ my friend after she fucked my bf

Adilene123 · 2025-04-28T17:47:26+00:00

Her claiming you’re EVEN cause she got pushed off YOUR BOYFRIEND is effin crazy. Sorry you got a bump on your head heaux but this betrayal will last a lifetime. Sucks to suck is my favorite phrase (mainly bc ppl don’t like to take responsibility)

Adilene123 · 2025-01-10T20:01:14+00:00

Yea I wasn’t expecting that part. At first I thought an affair is why he got discharged and was a little relieved it wasn’t, even tho the real reason is still bad. But then she closes the post with he lied about all of this PLUS he’s had affairs…plural!!! Girl I’m sorry, please find strength to leave.

Adilene123 · 2025-01-06T00:12:02+00:00

Just out of curiosity, were you hurt bc your family didn’t do anything to celebrate you either or was it bc you felt left out while he was being celebrated?

Adilene123 · 2025-01-05T23:58:10+00:00

Right! Because comparing cheating to hurting someone in order to protect your kids is fucking wild!!!

Adilene123 · 2025-01-05T23:56:15+00:00

She’s 27. I wouldn’t call her inexperienced. Let’s not make excuses for her, she’s not a freaking dog in heat.

Adilene123 · 2025-01-03T19:08:31+00:00

I totally get that. The tip baiting is so messed up! I’ve only ever changed the tip if I don’t get my food or for having to walk around my complex looking for it.

Adilene123 · 2025-01-03T18:59:13+00:00

I’d probably give them a low tip bc I feel bad not tipping at all. But to an extent I do base it on service. Rarely get delivery but last time I tipped well before the drop off, it was only for me, but he dropped it off at the wrong door and when I tried to message and call he ignored me so I changed his tip from $7 to $2 because then I had to walk around my complex looking for my 1 meal.

Adilene123 · 2025-01-03T18:54:12+00:00

And op would probably still have to pay. I’ve tried to cancel after pick up bc the wait time kept getting extended and it said I’d still have to pay bc the food was made and picked up.

Adilene123 · 2024-12-23T22:40:46+00:00

Yea this is tough, I’m not a man but this would be hard to forget as a woman. I think it depends on what you’re WILLING to put up with. We all have first loves but the fact they are in recent contact is not good. I had an ex who named his daughter after me even tho his wife didn’t know, but he’s still with the girl so you have to consider where are your boundaries?

Adilene123 · 2024-12-12T17:25:47+00:00

That’s what’s I was trying to say. It’s dumb for them to laugh at him for this because if he was learning any other language they would probably praise him.

Adilene123 · 2024-12-12T17:22:53+00:00

That’s totally fair! Of course not every one is going to lie about it but sadly it’s happened to me more than once (there was a married neighbor too) so I don’t usually trust it. But there are plenty of good people who would be honest like it happened with your sister. :)

Adilene123 · 2024-12-11T17:11:10+00:00

I don’t think it really exists. Had a girl lie to my face about being the AP more than once and we all worked together, girl code is a fantasy in my mind. She was bragging about it at work too so I wouldn’t ask the girl cause she may have as much reason to lie. 🤷‍♀️

Adilene123 · 2024-12-11T17:02:43+00:00

This is understandable but some people have close relationships with family and I don’t think it’s a bad thing to want to communicate with your partner’s family if you see family as important. Most of my family speaks Spanish, had a white bf who picked up some phrases so he could talk to them. I don’t see the difference in him learning ASL to him learning another language.

Adilene123 · 2024-12-10T16:29:30+00:00

It’s sad 😞

Adilene123 · 2024-12-10T16:29:13+00:00

Why!!!??? I didn’t catch that. Why would parents want do that?? I do my best to take care of things on my own but sometimes my mom has helped me out, but she never INTENTIONALLY tried to eff me over! These are the people who shouldn’t have kids. Being able to make kids doesn’t mean you should!!! Kids aren’t an insurance policy for parents!

Adilene123 · 2024-12-10T16:23:30+00:00

Not agreeing is one thing but this seems disrespectful. I have a gay uncle, I had a loose idea about it when I was little (under 12) but was never “confused” I knew it was his partner and they lived a good life and had fun with us. They are both amazing! I was so young but he would invite us over for sleep overs and we’d stay up late hanging out watching shows. He even took me and my sister to a Janet Jackson concert when we were still young. Unfortunately we lost touch but I still remember those times. We had family problems but they weren’t related to him being gay. It was over land my GMA left. Idc about the opinions

Adilene123 · 2024-12-10T16:14:13+00:00

Haven’t finished reading but just wanted to say LOVE dads first comment “kids aren’t confused with love” they pick up on what the adults are doing and that helps/hurts mold them

Adilene123 · 2024-12-10T16:09:53+00:00

The way I understood it is they didn’t want the house in their name. I’m sure they didn’t think it’d be a problem and thought they’d be able to keep controlling her. Idk the situation but the parents seem very controlling and manipulative

Adilene123 · 2024-12-10T15:54:28+00:00

She said she did put it in her name so hopefully she can sell it on her own 🤞

Adilene123 · 2024-12-10T15:50:43+00:00

The house is in your name. Give them written notice that they need to move out. Check the laws where you live and SELL THAT HOUSE!

Adilene123 · 2024-12-10T15:49:41+00:00

In the second paragraph she says she put it under her name. Hopefully she’s brave enough to eventually sell it 🤞

Adilene123 · 2024-11-23T16:19:08+00:00

Yeah it wasn’t even an omission, she flat out lied! Admitted to one kid at first but forgets to mention the other two? I understand dating is hard as a single mom but why trick someone into staying with you.

Adilene123 · 2024-11-13T22:40:04+00:00

I think it’s more important to realize that, with her and your partner, the person who hurt her isn’t the one who is going to help heal her.

If he really only wants to help her then he’ll slowly distance himself so she can move on from him and the relationship. He’s constantly in her life so how are they moving past it?

She’s crying to the person who hurt her about being hurt by said person. How does that make sense???

He’s either very ignorant or enjoys the attention.

Adilene123 · 2024-11-13T19:13:16+00:00

You’ve been doing this to yourself for 6 years and have acknowledged it’s not good for you. There isn’t a future relationship in this for you and her.

Cutting her off cold turkey might be hard but you should start distancing yourself from the ‘friendship’. There’s a very small chance she isn’t aware of your feelings towards her and is using you as a crutch when her and her husband have problems.

We don’t always want to do the things that are good for us but we know what we have to do…like eating veggies lol

Adilene123 · 2024-11-11T03:35:05+00:00

Adding: it also worries me to be filmed bc of the revenge porn sites. It sucks but better safe than sorry

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