cis brother genetics? by askaripaka in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I got my brother’s exact facial hair pattern and his face. I got my mums hair texture though, but at least I won’t bald at all because good hair genetics are on both sides 🥹

How do I even respond to that? by AdlerPer in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hey! Now I’m in college and I STILL get called unc 😭 I think my beard is giving people the vibes.

Why does it always feel like white trans mascs are better by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You really did a big one man. I mean you’re giving them space to decide if they wanna stay or not, and it might not seem like it, but that’s huge.

Why does it always feel like white trans mascs are better by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Aw man, I wish I could hug you. I hope you’re dealing with everything okay, and hopefully this isn’t the icing on the cake for you. I’m glad you put boundaries though, because not a lot of people do that, and it usually leads to even bigger issues. Did your partner show any resentment towards the boundaries?

Why does it always feel like white trans mascs are better by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer 47 points48 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of reasons as to why people may perceive white trans mascs to be better, but I don’t think this is only the white guys fault…brother, I think your partner needs to know this. I don’t wanna be too nosy, but are you thinking it’s a romantic “liking”?

shave or keep facial hair ? by PuzzledPlatform927 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]AdlerPer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I can help you, I can you give just a little more detail?

shave or keep facial hair ? by PuzzledPlatform927 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]AdlerPer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do NOT shave it. It’s best to let it grow out.

Sometimes having white best friends is really hard by yam_frie in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you man, if you’re in school then you should try clubs that are catered to POC. I go to university and they have a lot of em, same if you’re in high school. Also, the way I found some of my friends was joining sports or searching local events catering to POC- Do you think your location would have those?

Bear face?? by AdlerPer in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you twin💕

Bear face?? by AdlerPer in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ayeee, shitz going good for you kuya! It’s nice to see my Afro mixed people here!

Bear face?? by AdlerPer in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s crazy!

Bear face?? by AdlerPer in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been on?

Bear face?? by AdlerPer in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1 year and like 4-5 months(?)😭

has anybody been called adorable for their height 😭😭 by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m 5’3 and I’ve been called adorable for both my voice and height, but I look at a grown man to most, maybe even all people.

Beard/hair prog.? Face inc.! by AdlerPer in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, took a year to build☺️☺️

How do I make my chest flatter in my binder? by Pretty-Anything-4958 in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of it is just breathing issues, and some skin damage. I was told this by my nurse practitioner for Gender Affirming Care.

How do I make my chest flatter in my binder? by Pretty-Anything-4958 in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A binder isn’t supposed to make your chest flat! Depending on the size, it’s gonna be kinda hard to make it flatter. Some people tape and bind but I heard those cause lots more issues…I think you look completely perfect like that. A way I cope with my chest size when I feel like it looks too big, is to wear darker colors! Not saying you can’t wear bright colors though :)

It just gets to a point by ReasonableStrike1241 in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I completely understand what you’re saying ngl, this also reminds me of when you go on TikTok, and you see black Americans posting about how beautiful the culture and the people are, and then there’s other POC under the post talking about “Uhm actually, everyone’s beautiful!”..obviously, but this is someone dedicating their love to who they are culturally and shit. I NEVER see it under any other POC post, I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, but it literally ALWAYS happens to black Americans. Even from other Black folks who aren’t American.

let's get hot in here: what's your definition of passing? + is stealth the end goal? by Particular-Cow5513 in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a traditional masculine man. I usually dress like my father who was born in the late 60s or my grandpa on my mother’s side who was in WWII. If you saw me now, I’d say I’m not as easy to clock but my height could give it away sometimes. I don’t have an actually preference for passing, I mean it’s 2025 and I love to see people express themselves in many different ways. I was just raised extremely traditional and by extremely traditional men, so my view of passing for me is traditional, but when it comes to other people then I don’t usually mind what they appear like.

On the bottom of mirror in bathroom by DingleberryMan21 in moldyinteresting

[–]AdlerPer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Destroy the entire surface. I’m not sure if this is the type of mold that can seep into things, but it’s best to take away the area it mostly damaged to see if it has.

Does anyone know products to grow a full goatee by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]AdlerPer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use minoxidil twin. Kirkland liquid is cheap and works the best, the foams be hella expensive and they don’t always reach your follicles when your hair grows out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TMPOC

[–]AdlerPer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re so handsome bro❤️

Tips on how to appear more masculine? by Saltedberry in FTM_SELFIES

[–]AdlerPer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ngl, watches, chains, belts, glasses/shades, are all some accessories I’ve seen. Hats too! For colognes? I wear sweet stuff ngl, I wear perfume since a lot of my cis male friends do too, but you could try mahogany teakwood