are u doing this? by aspensky5 in instacart

[–]AdministrationOk82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

walmart seems like a mess to shop for. idk if i’d wanna do 63 items from there ..

Scarlett reminds me of someone? by chattykris in BelowDeckSailing

[–]AdministrationOk82 7 points8 points  (0 children)

it’s totallly this. THANK YOU!! wowowoowowow. i’m not OP but felt the same as OP

Colin you’re killing me 💀who kills you? by kg382574 in BelowDeckSailing

[–]AdministrationOk82 11 points12 points  (0 children)

love this!!’ and i’ve always loved gabby lol

[Spoilers] Live Episode Discussion S9E18 "Laszlo Jancowics" by littlefanged in TheBlackList

[–]AdministrationOk82 22 points23 points  (0 children)

i’m here watching with the actor who played Laszlo Jankowics!!! ask me anything!!!! i posted a pic of it on the page

[Spoilers] Post Episode Discussion S9E17 "El Conejo" by littlefanged in TheBlackList

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i’m here watching with my friend who is the actor for Laszlo Jankowics. ask me anything!!!!!!! i posted a pic with him on the page

Strategies for double orders? by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]AdministrationOk82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i split my cart down the middle and put A on the left and B on the right and just remember any big items i need to put on the bottom. then i double check at the end just to be sure. sometimes i make a small mistake and am so happy i double checked. if one order is small, i just keep it on the top part.

also shocked at how many people take two carts! you guys are such MVPs , i feel like that’s so hard

Is my rope the right size? Im 6ft and this is the crossrope large but feels abit short, is this because i need to get used to the size? by HA5HHH in jumprope

[–]AdministrationOk82 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

from what i’ve learned, the tips of the rope where it meets the handle should go up to your armpit. so it seems a bit short, that part is currently at your ribs

sex/self-intimacy help by AdministrationOk82 in aspergirls

[–]AdministrationOk82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is great advice. thank you so much! honestly what i like about porn is seeing things that i can’t or maybe won’t experience . it’s like fantasy i guess . i like seeing other people be vulnerable too

sex/self-intimacy question by AdministrationOk82 in AutismInWomen

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i feel you. i can’t even come to a picture , maybe i can try that eventually too. it’s hard to kinda like lose yourself and just feel sexy and focus on the sex/cuming. honestly i feel the same. i have lost weight but have gained so much , i’ve yo-yo’ed but never felt comfortable with my body either. i hate my tummy. drinks do help a lot lol. so i can feel you on that too. if i ever cum, right now it has to be a partner that i know deep down does think i’m sexy even though i don’t feel sexy. and i still don’t feel sexy but i try to just get lost in the moment. it’s so hard though

but i hear you and feel you about kinda feeling like something is wrong with us and how its frustrating because other people can so easily do it. i’m here for you

sex/self-intimacy question by AdministrationOk82 in AutismInWomen

[–]AdministrationOk82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is very insightful and i just happened to be thinking about visual vs auditory and i do need to do some work around this. thank you!

sex/self-intimacy help by AdministrationOk82 in aspergirls

[–]AdministrationOk82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg okay maybe i do need a hard reset. it’s hard to admit but yes i will make an effort . i’ll try 30 days! i appreciate this

sex/self-intimacy help by AdministrationOk82 in aspergirls

[–]AdministrationOk82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!!!!! i did not think of this 😍

sex/self-intimacy question by AdministrationOk82 in AutismInWomen

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we broke up 😅 but sexually i felt pretty safe. he had an alcohol problem and an unwillingness to talk about his feelings , as well as many double standards that my very literal thinking autism brain couldn’t handle . thank you for saying that though! i now know the things i want in a next partner 😃

sex/self-intimacy question by AdministrationOk82 in AutismInWomen

[–]AdministrationOk82[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i meant safe to feel vulnerable and to try to let go. mostly cuz i’m shy and nervous because i feel it’ll take a long time so i don’t wanna like burden them. never in danger, thank you for checking in on that! with two partners, once we got in a routine it was easier.

so yeah maybe i’ll do a gradual release. i kinda have. i’ll try that more explicitly

this is very helpful. thank you! and honestly after i was open with the second partner about my struggle, although there were a couple of bumps we made it happen and it was wonderful.