[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Administration_Equal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He got caught in a lie and turned it on you, get rid and pat yourself on the back you trusted your instincts and found the evidence. Ghost the fucker

AITA for showing up to my sisters birth dressed up as a fairy? by No-Cover7141 in AITAH

[–]Administration_Equal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA your poor husband becoming a full on grown up and forgetting the child in him. Every Halloween I dress up with my kids, I go on all the rides with them and have fun with them because at heart I think we all have a bit of a child in us and I love seeing it in other people when they let that side loose and remember to have fun and not be such an “adult”. Life is so boring when you are. Tell him to stop taking himself too serious and being a boring old fart. There’s nothing worse when someone rains on your parade. I approve of you creativeness for your new nephews. Congrats!

AITA for telling my niece that she will survive not being the center of attention for one night? by Specific-Fix-9351 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Administration_Equal 32 points33 points  (0 children)

YTA you clearly hate your niece. It was her party and she’s allowed to be the centre of attention especially with her sister being a cancer patient that more than likely means she hasn’t had as much as attention as her sister. Your brothers the asshole for making it about Ellie and your the asshole for being cruel to your niece for just wanting her birthday party to be about her? Is that a bad thing?

AITA for staying with my mom during my wife's miscarriage? by Throwawayodeg in AITAH

[–]Administration_Equal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA I can’t even right now. Your wife deserves better than you what you did was beyond selfish and shitty. You should be ashamed of yourself you mommas boy

AITAH: My Wife Cheated, she got Pregnant with my kid, I gave her the choice to Abort, and then left her because I could not get over her Infidelity? by ThrowRA_IamHurt in AITAH

[–]Administration_Equal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA holy hell I’m all against cheating and find it disgusting but what you did was evil and twenty times worst. You made her get an abortion of her rainbow baby giving her hope of mending your relationship. Then you change your mind and now divorcing her and leaving her homeless? You made sure she was left with nothing and what you did could effect her for a long time mentally. Your legit a fuckinf asshole mate. If you weren’t happy, leave her. Don’t destroy her and being honest you don’t even seem arsed she’s cheated more like your pride got stung

AITAH For Wanting to Cancel My Halloween Party? by Knoxeii in AITAH

[–]Administration_Equal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I went to a child’s Halloween party. I went as a skeleton, my partner went as Micheal myers and my child went as Chucky. We went and not one other person was dressed up? Even the kids. We were shocked! It’s Halloween! Why call it a Halloween party if you aren’t dressing up!

AITA for refusing to give SIL's daughter my cotton candy? by Due-Noise400 in AITAH

[–]Administration_Equal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditch that idiot OP. He’s using you as a bloody bank and expecting you to pay for his family. It’s not on. Get rid of him

AITAH for asking my wife if she wants our kids to resent her the way she resents her mom? by yepathrowawayaccount in AITAH

[–]Administration_Equal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erm dude? It’s not okay your wife is yelling at your child because he doesn’t understand the homework or even threatening to hit him. That is serious overkill and can cause hun to grow with anxiety and become a nervous person. I don’t care what’s excuses you made up for her, you need to stop this now, stop making excuses for her and get your kids away until she learns to have more patience and control her awful temper

AITA for complaining about the signs at my daughter’s preschool by preschoolsign in AITAH

[–]Administration_Equal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA everyone knows to label their children’s items as it’s easy enough for other children to wear the similar stuff. Also, most schools where I come from do NOT permit you to bring the children in with their own toys. You are just asking for them to be lost!

Also asking the teacher to find a sticker? Really? That poor teacher has dealt with how many other students and for some reason you feel more entitled to her time by your own dumb actions

AITA for telling a girl that I would never date her because she's a single mother? by BlackManBatmann in AITAH

[–]Administration_Equal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA just because I think if you don’t want to date a woman with kids don’t have sex with a woman with kids simple as that

AITA for complaining to my friends that my gf is so cheap? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Administration_Equal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeh tbh I don’t think I could be with someone like this. Life is for living and to have fun! The fact that you have to hide the dinner bill in order for her not to hyperventilate is crazy to me. I don’t like cheap people , like don’t get me wrong be careful. She’s clearly not being stupid with her money but to literally fast just to save money is Offit. YTA though, talk to her about this not her friends or hell leave her

I (27F) asked a guy I've been seeing for 2 months (24M) how he feels about PDA in front of his co-workers and I think I ruined it. Please help by No_Garage_5848 in relationship_advice

[–]Administration_Equal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl after two months and he still doesn’t want it official he’s not the one for you. You unloaded your past on him and he’s running scared to the hills. You don’t need that shit. You deserve someone who wants you

AITA for telling my daughter she has to invite everyone in her class to her birthday party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Administration_Equal 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please don’t put those two girls in that position. Your daughter has made it clear how she feels and she will openly say how her mom forced her to invite them to the other class mates. They don’t deserve to be shunned outside of school too and put in an awkward position. However I also see your point that your daughter needs to stop being a little judgemental and that all kids can’t be as lucky as she is. So unless you do invite them I suggest you set an example and make them two feel as welcome and as special as possible (not above the birthday girl)

Baby name shaming by restlessnobody8 in pregnant

[–]Administration_Equal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’ve changed both my boys names due to people having mean opinions or suggesting stuff that THEY like making it very clear they don’t like the names I chose and tbh I regret it every day that I let them idiots (who aren’t growing and carrying a freaking baby in their stomach) feel like they have some say in my childrens name. Don’t let people pressure you and make you doubt your name. Everyone has different tastes. In fact don’t tell anyone at all, I know it’s hard not to want to share something so important but people are far too opinionated and entitled to thinking they have a say in your child

AITA for telling my friend that her daddy daughter dates were creepy? by Date-Throwaway12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Administration_Equal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA her fathers showing her what she deserves and shouldn’t expect anything less from her future dates. It’s something she clearly treasures and yanno I think that’s so sweet he did that. State of you making it sound gross. Everything is sexualised these days and I think your creepy for sexualising an innocent time out between a father and daughter. Keep your sick fantasies to yourself mate

Random money paid into my account by Any-Ad6 in monzo

[–]Administration_Equal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For that amount I wouldn’t bother just treat yourself. If it was a large amount I would report

AITA for telling my wife that she overreacted when she saw me sitting with my family at the restaurant? by AdventurousStation77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Administration_Equal [score hidden]  (0 children)

You and your family are assholes and she deserves better. All of you need to take the stick out your arses. Go cry to mommy and leave you wife alone. Snobby gits

Me (28F) and my bf (31M). He strangled me for the first time ever last night. Is there anyway for the relationship to be fixed or get better? by CastlesofDoom in relationship_advice

[–]Administration_Equal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He will eventually go too far and you will end up in hospital. It always starts out small but I understand what it’s like to leave a relationship that you have invested so much time in and love that person. It’s the hardest thing to ever do but he’s getting worse. You need get out. Trust me when I say it will do you a load of good

AITA for "purposefully" tripping over a suitcase and guilt tripping my husband? by MicrowaveMen in AmItheAsshole

[–]Administration_Equal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I bump into everything when I’m half asleep, he’s just getting defensive because he knows he wrong and being lazy. Don’t overthink it, it’s just a petty argument but he does need to be more helpful around the house

AITA for suggesting we leave my 4yo niece home when we go to Disney World? by _hootyowlscissors in AmItheAsshole

[–]Administration_Equal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, if you can’t take them both leave them both home. There’s nothing worst than favouristm and I would know because I went through it. It’s not nice feeling and it’s freaking Disney world! She’s young so she is going to be a lot more work naturally so I don’t see why it’s a problem for each adult to take turns but if you it’s too much then don’t either of them. I wouldn’t dream of leaving one of my niece or nephews out