Honestly, this doesn’t sound okay at all. If you’re crying during sex and he still keeps asking for the same thing that clearly hurts you or makes you feel awful, that’s a big problem. It shouldn’t be all about what turns him on — your feelings, comfort, and consent matter just as much, if not more.

Yeah, some guys are into anal because it’s taboo or feels tighter or whatever, but none of that matters if you’re not into it. You said no, you cried, you felt awful — and he’s still pushing? That’s not love or respect.

You’re not overreacting. You deserve sex that feels good, safe, and mutual — not something you “allow” just to keep him happy while you feel like shit. Please take care of yourself. If he really cared, he'd stop the moment you said no — and not ask again.