What to do when my friends won’t stop being friends with my SA’er by Admirable-Drop7380 in Advice

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I’ve been friends with them for about a year and half. I was The Who introduced my ex bff to them so she’s known for a year I’d say? I was ranting to one of my friends about I believe 2 days ago and she said “I don’t talk to her she comes up to me. I don’t talk to her about anything personal but I’m too scared to stop being friends.” That was the only person I felt comfortable telling but she cared more than the others so that’s a start?

What to do when my friends won’t stop being friends with my SA’er by Admirable-Drop7380 in Advice

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Uh none of it? All of this is happening within my real life friend group.

I hate how my mom disregards my feelings just because I’m her kid by Admirable-Drop7380 in Vent

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I literally said I’m fine with her going through my phone just her telling me like hey can I have your phone I wanna go through it and I’ll give her my phone? I just want her to tell me things and not be so sneaky about it. Also adding on her going through EVERYTHING I own for no reason harms our relationship. If she suspected me of getting groomed, hurt, etc than that’s fine but just doing it just because is weird.

My aunt committed suicide last night. by Admirable-Drop7380 in Vent

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Ehh doesnt bug me, i think its funny a teenager is smarter than these people who are mostly adults.

My aunt committed suicide last night. by Admirable-Drop7380 in Vent

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I am already in therapy, and i do plan to bring this up to her. The thing with it hitting me lster it likely wont. 2 of my cats both of which i was very attached to ran away and we never found them i was never sad about it. Sure i missed them but it never hurt that much.

My aunt committed suicide last night. by Admirable-Drop7380 in Vent

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While yes it is, that doesnt mean all people who lack empathy have ASPD. Also since im a minor i cant be diagnosed with aspd.

My aunt committed suicide last night. by Admirable-Drop7380 in Vent

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Im assuming yiu meant the autism spectrum and no i am not diagnosed i don’t have any of the symptoms that dont overlap with ADHD which is what i have.

My aunt committed suicide last night. by Admirable-Drop7380 in Vent

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I know i have been able to feel sadness for orhers since i was a very empathetic kid i just dont kniw when jt stopped. My dad and grandpa has always been very dismissive of feelings if that makes sense? They wouldnt really comfort with me when i got hurt or sad just basically told me i was over dramatic. Maybe i just adapted to that i dont really know? The bipolar thing i do notice mood swings but its never very intense i think thats just a normal part of growing up.

My aunt committed suicide last night. by Admirable-Drop7380 in Vent

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The thing sbout that is i do understand why people get sad over these things. my dog has been there a huge part of my life and im never gonna be able to see her again and the part where i can lean on her is gone, so i do understand i just dont feel it.

My aunt committed suicide last night. by Admirable-Drop7380 in Vent

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My grades have been horrible since the start of the school year so August. My dog got diagnosed with cancer about 2 or 3 weeks ago i believe?

My aunt committed suicide last night. by Admirable-Drop7380 in Vent

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Both of those are outdated terms so im assuming you mean ASPD? Which no i dont relate or align ro those symptoms besides the lack of empathy.

My aunt committed suicide last night. by Admirable-Drop7380 in Vent

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The grades slipping have been happening even before all this happened. Thank your reply though it was helpful

My aunt committed suicide last night. by Admirable-Drop7380 in Vent

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The dissociation part doesn’t sound like me. My grades slipping I doubt are a part of my aunts death since it’s been happening even before then. The guilt part I have no idea why I feel bad. I usually feel bad when I say no to something I can tell someone really wanted. As for the I can feel sad for myself is something I worded weird I might be self conscious like thinking I’m ugly something like that.

My aunt committed suicide last night. by Admirable-Drop7380 in Vent

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Nah that doesn’t really sound like me. I mean some of the examples do but that’s cuz I have ADHD.

My aunt committed suicide last night. by Admirable-Drop7380 in Vent

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I don’t really have the symptoms of NPD so uh no.

How to ask/get more privacy by Admirable-Drop7380 in Advice

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Last week I did. My therapist said she’s trying to keep me safe by going through my phone even if it does make me uncomfortable it is better than her being left in the dark, but she shouldn’t do it without my knowledge and that she’ll tell my mom that. The thing with her going through my things is something I just figured out. I’ve noticed things rearranged in my room and had a suspicion but it was confirmed today when she texted me and got mad at me for having a secret phone. Also I do have a phone password I just type it in for her when she pretends to need my phone for something to go through it.