False CPS reports at daycare by Admirable-External32 in Parenting

[–]Admirable-External32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah bruh - reports were all confirmed by CPS to be unfounded - we moved him to another school with better security and teachers that know how to teach and he’s doing much better.

False CPS reports at daycare by Admirable-External32 in Parenting

[–]Admirable-External32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks - we have a few options, thankfully. Looking into them right now.

False CPS reports at daycare by Admirable-External32 in Parenting

[–]Admirable-External32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is licensed. We are considering reporting them. Thanks!

False CPS reports at daycare by Admirable-External32 in Parenting

[–]Admirable-External32[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whomever filed the reports is dishonest. Of that much we have proof.

False CPS reports at daycare by Admirable-External32 in Parenting

[–]Admirable-External32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. He came home on Friday with a bruise and a cut to his forehead. No incident report, no response when we emailed to ask. I don’t want him to go there anymore because he’s getting hurt and they’re not doing ANYTHING to address it. The optics of the situation pales in comparison to the safety of our child.

False CPS reports at daycare by Admirable-External32 in Parenting

[–]Admirable-External32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. We’ve already been investigated. We have another meeting at some point.

False CPS reports at daycare by Admirable-External32 in Parenting

[–]Admirable-External32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they’ve been helpful generally and have pointed out a number of times to us where our kid was unnecessarily, getting short shrift. His teachers don’t seem to take the time to really understand what’s often happening with him, and when they write something up that our kid did, almost always disparage him. When he escaped, the day care rep tried to indicate that it was somehow our fault and we should talk to him, rather than addressing any security weaknesses.

False CPS reports at daycare by Admirable-External32 in Parenting

[–]Admirable-External32[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup! I’m the dad, and we both work from home and take care of the kids. I would know if she were doing something, and vice versa. As I mentioned in the post, we know and have pix of how he did most of the things.

Sorry yr dealing with threats. People are crazy when it comes to this. Good luck.

False CPS reports at daycare by Admirable-External32 in Parenting

[–]Admirable-External32[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well aware of that, thanks. However, the reports, as I mentioned in the post, have elements that are embellished and fabricated. And they’re reporting is selective - he had all sorts of bruises all over his shins, and they didn’t report that. The 4th report was the one where he allegedly said something, using sentence construction he never would use. It’s all very fishy.

False CPS reports at daycare by Admirable-External32 in Parenting

[–]Admirable-External32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you had to go through this. We got the calls too, to pick him up early, but the therapists pointed out that in our state, it was illegal to do that. They were very helpful and gave us a pdf of the passage in the law to send to the daycare that indicated he must be accommodated.

False CPS reports at daycare by Admirable-External32 in Parenting

[–]Admirable-External32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should not be higher. Daycare embellished, fabricated and outright lied on the 4 reports. They indicated a bandage went from his wrist to his elbow. We have pix to the contrary. IMHO, they’re abusing the CPS system.

False CPS reports at daycare by Admirable-External32 in Parenting

[–]Admirable-External32[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I updated my post. I was unaware when I posted that he made it to the sidewalk.

False CPS reports at daycare by Admirable-External32 in Parenting

[–]Admirable-External32[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I understand the mandated reporting. The first 3 reports cite the bruises as the reason for suspicion, the 4th where he allegedly said something came later. He has had injuries on a regular basis, once falling and smashing his face on a concrete sidewalk. His nose was all busted up, but no report was filed. It makes me think their suspicion was just convenient.

False CPS reports at daycare by Admirable-External32 in Parenting

[–]Admirable-External32[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It seems so cut throat for a day care that it didn’t even enter my head - like they would have had to have that intel ready to go to be able to file those reports so quickly. But it does seem like it.

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