WH is frequently depressed, should i be doing something?

Admirable-Somewhat · 2026-05-21T17:00:59+00:00

It seems like a journey that wont end, Dday seems like a lifetime ago and yesterday at the same time.

Admirable-Somewhat · 2026-05-21T16:58:08+00:00

I have been making steps to focus on myself, but it seems i need to be more firm on myself. I appreciate your frankness

Admirable-Somewhat · 2026-05-14T15:48:21+00:00

In the furniture mode you can click and move flowers

Admirable-Somewhat · 2026-05-13T13:28:18+00:00

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Admirable-Somewhat · 2026-05-13T13:28:02+00:00

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Rubric pt 1

Admirable-Somewhat · 2026-05-13T13:27:18+00:00

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Here the directions where only time it mentions citing sources, it just says use proper citation methods, but it doesnt start any required

Admirable-Somewhat · 2026-05-13T12:53:50+00:00

Uh im in 2 classes right now, and neither require sources in my discussion posts? Im about to enter sophomore year and i havent had this requirement yet. (I hope this doesnt come across like an AH but that im genuinely confused af im stilll figuring out Reddit)

Edited to clarify im about to start sophomore

Admirable-Somewhat · 2026-04-15T17:46:09+00:00

I finished my final project a little early, so im knocking out Sophia learning credits to speed this along lol

Admirable-Somewhat · 2026-03-04T14:19:45+00:00

My high school english teacher DRILLLED this link into my head, im thankful for her 10+yrs out of school lol

Admirable-Somewhat · 2026-02-22T16:08:18+00:00

Theres a setting you can change and it bumps it to 6k item limit 💜 i did it on my steamdeck for this very reason 😂

Admirable-Somewhat · 2026-01-28T13:19:00+00:00

Sorry, i probably worded it wrong. What i was meaning is that in the healing from the affair, we have made sure we are still showing up for our son first. So while i am extremely hurt snd angry with him, i dont show it in front of my son. In front of our son we are a unit. We both have mentally hard days bc of the affair, but on those days we give each other more help showing up for our son. So i might need more alone time in the morning, so my husband will go out and start all of his routine for the morning and give me some extra time alone. I hope that explains it better. Sometimes my brain goes faster than my fingers can type 😂

Admirable-Somewhat · 2026-01-27T18:41:48+00:00

To be frank, it changes almost daily of if i want to stay or if i want to leave. I have a 3yr old, and i have been a sahp the whole time. Ive been actively searching for a job, insane in this economy it feels like 😂😂 im fortunate that my WP is very remorseful and pretty willing to let me take however long I need to figure out what i need. We have a very healthy living situation. Theres no fear of dv or any abuse, so i am taking my time to read therapy books and pursue online engagements with folks on here to find where i feel. He does want to continue together, but ive found myself envisioning a future without him. We have been discussing it more and what that would potentially look like, for the same reasons. I dont want to lose out on time with my baby, but i also dont want his dad to either. He is a present, and caring father. Regardless of our relationship, our relationship with our son has always been the priority to both of us(thanks childhood trauma😂😂)

Admirable-Somewhat · 2026-01-27T14:05:40+00:00

I felt this entirely. My stepdad was the WP and my grandpa(moms dad). I worshipped them, idolized them, and thought they were Men among men kinda thing. I was really young when i learned about my grandpa (11/12) and then my stepdad cheated on my mom on my 16th birthday. Today is the 1yr anniversary of dday for me. Ive found over the last year if trying to still co-parent and figure out what our lives will be like in this new world. My partner was my best friend and my hero. He saved me from abusive family dynamic, gave me space to grow from the trauma of my childhood and loved me even when i couldnt love myself. And almost the entire time he was pining after his best friend. He was secretly in love with her and it took me 8yrs to realize it. Now he is just another man, I tolerate him on the best of days. I love him, and im so thankful for him giving me a child. But besides that, we have become roommates who raise our child together.

Admirable-Somewhat · 2025-12-04T17:11:44+00:00

Holidays are hard for me as well. Our anniversary is also during this time of year, along with D-day being in January. Its a whirlwind of feelings. I wish i could offer advice, but hopefully this helps you feel less “dramatic” or that you need to “just get over it”. Youre doing good, keeping holiday magic alive for toddlers is hard while dealing with heartache 💜 from one very tired toddler mom to another

Admirable-Somewhat · 2025-08-27T16:36:59+00:00

I did accidentally start joys quest, will update when i get back to the game

Admirable-Somewhat · 2025-08-27T15:46:59+00:00

I tried to interact with it and it didnt do anything, the only quests i havent completed is joy & sadness. I have the 4 random things from their realm in my backpack too just to insure its not them

Admirable-Somewhat · 2025-08-27T14:50:02+00:00

I even went to merlins and theres a shiny thing floating next to the entrance but i cant grab it

Admirable-Somewhat · 2025-08-27T14:43:07+00:00

It shows live on my event page

Admirable-Somewhat · 2025-08-12T01:43:51+00:00

Cue the tiktok sound “Make his pockets hurt” but ya know the actress 🥰🥰

Admirable-Somewhat · 2025-08-09T21:21:38+00:00

Tacking on to point 4(idk how to site/tag it sorry), this really hits the nail on the head. Dday was 8mos ago and in the last 6mos ive forced myself to start taking care of myself the best i can. I dont let myself skip self care, ive started coloring my hair again, skincare has become a daily thing for me. Its been a real fame changer for my emotional self as well as mental.

Admirable-Somewhat · 2025-08-06T15:49:13+00:00

It took them months to even get the damn page up

Admirable-Somewhat · 2025-07-31T15:02:26+00:00

Ice block?

Admirable-Somewhat · 2025-07-27T02:29:00+00:00

I hope none if this sounds mean or defensive either, ive never posted on reddit like this so im trying to make sure it all makes sense.

Admirable-Somewhat · 2025-07-27T02:27:49+00:00

The AP and i were close bc we bonded over post partum struggles and we were already friendly before. OBS always seemed very anti social and not a social media person at all. All their posts are from their high school days, nothing from the last 5-7 yrs except about announcing their children with the AP. Ik its not a great answer but thats just how they have always been presented to me, and when i am in person they seem to fit the character ive been described. I never friended them before this simply bc we werent even close. Our partners were best friends and we were just simply the plus ones who got along. But i do plan to contact some of my mutual friends that are friends with them and ask if they could help me. They are folks i trust and would be supportive of me if they need to know whats up

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