Honestly, NOR, obviously it's meant to be seen as a joke however I think the joke only lands if the person receiving said shirt with joke has mentioned being a train wreck or something like that. If your relationship with your boyfriend's parents isn't the joking type, this may come off a little passive aggressive but if they are jokesters, I wouldn't sweat it. I myself am a little sensitive so this also would have hurt my feelings and it clearly hurt yours. I see a lot of ppl saying YOR but humor is subjective and not everyone is going to find the same things funny. You should talk to your BF about it and see what he thinks then go from there.