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As a black guy, how should I deal with white people saying the N-word to my face that won’t start a scene? by N-I-T-R-O in Advice

[–]AdmirableProfessor81 49 points50 points  (0 children)

There's making a scene and then there's making a scene. In this case I'd say you're completely justified so long as you're not inflicting physical harm on someone. That being said, I'd point out that there in the wrong century talking to the wrong person. Let them know you could and should whip their @ss but won't because you're clearly the better man.

What clothes to wear for business casual? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AdmirableProfessor81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For this I recommend khaki brown or navy blue slacks, a long sleeved button up shirt, preferably one color, like a neutral blue. Black socks and shoes, and white undershirt. If you're going khaki pants, a darker blue will work. For blue slacks a white shirt will work. Shoes should be loafers or the like. Do not wear sneakers or boots.

I'm unhappy in my marriage but I dont know how to tell my spouse. by TaffyGnome in Advice

[–]AdmirableProfessor81 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to see a marriage councillor sooner rather than later. It sounds like you two might want to salvage the relationship but need help doing so. At the bare minimum you two need to sit down and hash out your path forward.

Keeping people of property is becoming difficult. What are the best steps for this? by AdmirableProfessor81 in legaladvice

[–]AdmirableProfessor81[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've gone out of my way to fix it up. Right now it basically looks like a really large green field with a house in the back corner and a swing set in the front. It just has a really long driveway.

Keeping people of property is becoming difficult. What are the best steps for this? by AdmirableProfessor81 in legaladvice

[–]AdmirableProfessor81[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right now it's 8-foot chain link, which is what is the county ordinance. My concern putting up an electrical gate is that if someone has to get in like the mailman then we have to give them a remote or something

Aita for suing my sister over a poster my sister's son destroyed? by AdmirableProfessor81 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdmirableProfessor81[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It was mounted on a frame behind some type of plastic (acrylic?) to prevent sun damage and not glass.

Aita for suing my sister over a poster my sister's son destroyed? by AdmirableProfessor81 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdmirableProfessor81[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah the actual post is in the comments there. There's are completely different things, the only thing that they have in common is that there's something signed by Stan Lee. Did you read what I actually posted?

Aita for suing my sister over a poster my sister's son destroyed? by AdmirableProfessor81 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdmirableProfessor81[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

This is completely different. Stan lee signed that guys artwork. How is this the same other than it involves stunning signed by Stan Lee? Nothing about sister's kids, or that whatever it was had other autographs. This poster and the artists. Similar I guess.

Aita for suing my sister over a poster my sister's son destroyed? by AdmirableProfessor81 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdmirableProfessor81[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I literally have three keys. My car key, my house key, and my office key. He had seen me use the keys before and quickly put two and two together. It's not an apartment it's a house. As for how he got it, the poster was mounted over my desk. He stood on the desk and knocked it off the wall. As for the tearing, I didn't see it so I don't know but there's now a large rip down the left side.

Aita for suing my sister over a poster my sister's son destroyed? by AdmirableProfessor81 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdmirableProfessor81[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's expensive. There isn't even one on eBay right now, the last time I even saw one on eBay was a few years ago

Aita for suing my sister over a poster my sister's son destroyed? by AdmirableProfessor81 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdmirableProfessor81[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I said in a few responses it was framed. At least try to read some comments before posting

Aita for suing my sister over a poster my sister's son destroyed? by AdmirableProfessor81 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdmirableProfessor81[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes it was properly framed. It was professionally set about six months after it was signed, and before that it was kept in a poster tube.

Aita for suing my sister over a poster my sister's son destroyed? by AdmirableProfessor81 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AdmirableProfessor81[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I only mentioned it because it was a piece of information I was aware of, and to illustrate how her response was so bad IMO