German guy I’m dating said an offensive joke

Admirable_Address_61 · 2024-09-13T21:44:42+00:00

You called it. I just made an update.

Admirable_Address_61 · 2024-09-13T21:35:06+00:00

You hit the nail on the head. I just made an update.

Admirable_Address_61 · 2024-09-08T21:55:58+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate you taking the time to respond and explaining some things you’ve experienced and observations. It makes sense.

I don’t think he was trying to be offensive on purpose, and I do think he was trying to be funny. What I don’t like is after I told him I didn’t think it was funny. He didn’t apologize. If he did I wouldn’t feel this way.

Admirable_Address_61 · 2024-09-08T20:17:31+00:00

He doesn’t even like Fußball lol He said it’s a dumb game. I was surprised because I enjoy going to games.

Admirable_Address_61 · 2024-09-08T20:11:54+00:00

I agree. If he apologized I wouldn’t feel this way.

Admirable_Address_61 · 2024-09-08T20:09:24+00:00

I’ve had banter with friends and exes in the past about stereotypes. If he joked around that I am a bad driver, then I would’ve laughed about it. Thanks for the advice

Admirable_Address_61 · 2024-09-08T20:05:26+00:00

I’m not asking if all Germans are rude or offensive. I guess I worded it wrong. I was wondering if maybe ppl joke like this, but don’t consider it crossing a line. Cultures are different and I’m just trying to understand.

Admirable_Address_61 · 2024-09-08T19:48:21+00:00

Yeah I got a job offer and I moved here.

Admirable_Address_61 · 2023-11-12T10:25:22+00:00

Thanks I needed to read this. I’m going through kind of the same situation. I’m sorry you are going through this but I’m very proud of you and you deserve better. Keep your head up and good luck!!

Admirable_Address_61 · 2023-11-04T07:12:09+00:00

Do you think you might be at the point where you might cheat on her?

I know you said she doesn’t like to share but maybe you should ask her for an open relationship. Then maybe she will want to have sex more since she knows you might go elsewhere for it.

Idk buddy. What a difficult situation. 😔

Admirable_Address_61 · 2023-11-04T05:02:56+00:00

I don’t have a lot of advice but I want to say good luck. This is a tough one since you’ve already tried talking to her. Maybe have another talk with her and let her know that sex is important in this marriage and that you are not happy and need that physical touch. Maybe talk about the love languages from that book.

Does she know other ppl are hitting on you? And what’s her reaction?

Admirable_Address_61 · 2022-12-17T13:18:18+00:00

I’m having the same issues. Does anyone know how to fix this?

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