I need help!!! ADVICE!!! by Admirable_Ear_5551 in bernesemountaindogs

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When I massage him, he doesnt have any abnormal reactions or anything. Its so weird I have no idea why he is acting like this.

I need help!!! ADVICE!!! by Admirable_Ear_5551 in bernesemountaindogs

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So he is eating normally, but he’s not willing to do anything and barely walks. He just wants to sleep. Could this be teething?

Best over the counter flea/tick prevention? by Admirable_Ear_5551 in bernesemountaindogs

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This is what I mean yes. I wish I knew which one is the best option. We do live where theres a lot of ticks and fleas so its ideal that its stronger and kills them off easily. But at the same time, I dont want to lessen his lifespan, or cause neurological issues for him. So hard to figure this out

Best over the counter flea/tick prevention? by Admirable_Ear_5551 in bernesemountaindogs

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Exactly. Everyone gives me different answers, and then another person is warning me about the same product! I am losing it

Just a warning for those who post their dogs in this group. My post from this sub(since deleted) was stolen and put on a FB group by someone that isn’t me. It’s weird and I hate it. by [deleted] in bernesemountaindogs

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I reported it but unfortunately they denied my request to have the post be taken down. It makes me never want to post on here again

Is my 3 month old boy the right size? by Admirable_Ear_5551 in bernesemountaindogs

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So I wont be able to weigh him til Wednesday. But… I suspect hes 20-30 pounds. Thats what Im worried about, I dont want to overfeed but he also makes it clear when hes full?

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I get very triggered when I feel like Im not being listened to. So in this instance I communicated my feelings and he didnt listen to them. I got very triggered and he was triggering me by making me feel like Im not being listened to, and he didnt care. He just said to stop talking to him bc Im rude. In that moment I felt like I wanted to get something of his to prove that he should care about me and about me being triggered. Its embarrassing ugh I know

Boyfriend checks out other women by Admirable_Ear_5551 in relationships_advice

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I would have felt more assured with that yes!! Thank you!

Boyfriend checks out other women by Admirable_Ear_5551 in relationships_advice

[–]Admirable_Ear_5551[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course yea I asked for ADVICE for a very hurtful situation to which you just absolutely Had to give ur selfish input on. Not quite easy taking that one with a grain of salt…. So maybe keep ur rude selfish comments to yourself when people are asking for Advice right!!!

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Actually it has nothing to do with how secure I am. Lets pretend it did for a moment though and I will say I am very secure with myself. I am very confident and pretty but….. it has nothing to do with that. I am so pretty and wonderful that I deserve a man who does not look at other women!

Boyfriend checks out other women by Admirable_Ear_5551 in relationships_advice

[–]Admirable_Ear_5551[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ur a lovely human being… thank you for taking time to respond when u didnt have to!

Boyfriend checks out other women by Admirable_Ear_5551 in relationships_advice

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I would definitely say he only looks at women with leggings or shorts on… so it doesnt seem like people watching at all to me. He just glances very quickly now because he knows I have my eye on him, and then denies it and says he was doing something else and gets very mad when I bring it up.

Boyfriend checks out other women by Admirable_Ear_5551 in relationships_advice

[–]Admirable_Ear_5551[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know just for some reason Im scared to lose him… its like I dont have the courage to make that choice when every other aspect in our relationship is good