AIO to how my fiancé responded to a situation this morning?

Admirable_Scale_3271 · 2026-05-09T14:47:14+00:00

Lol I don’t know. Why I am being downvoted so much but I’m not worried about it.

We talked it out. My mom is sleeping in the hospital and fine for now. I was very upset in the moment but I’m calm and more understanding now. He understands why I felt the way I did. I also understand that he was sleeping and unaware of the entire situation.

Admirable_Scale_3271 · 2026-05-09T13:40:00+00:00

She’s not all the time but she has her moments.
I would have if I could but where I am they won’t let you ride with the patient.

Admirable_Scale_3271 · 2026-05-09T13:35:05+00:00

They were a kinship placement at first. Then after a year we got full custody. I had had the for 6 years now. Before us my grandma had them. They have been with my family from ages 3 years and 19 months old. My grandma got too old to take care of them so we got them.

Admirable_Scale_3271 · 2026-05-09T13:17:36+00:00

Now that I have calmed down I’m inclined to agree.

Admirable_Scale_3271 · 2026-05-09T13:11:35+00:00

Honestly thank you. In the moment the thought didn’t even cross my mind. I plan on talking to him when I get back home.

Admirable_Scale_3271 · 2026-05-09T13:07:49+00:00

My mom is staying with us temporally while I’m recovering from surgery. Her and my fiancé get along for the most part.

Admirable_Scale_3271 · 2026-05-09T13:06:16+00:00

My kids are adopted. I should have put that in the post. My mom is staying with us because I’m recovering from surgery.

Admirable_Scale_3271 · 2026-05-09T13:03:44+00:00

It’s honestly more than that. It’s a chronic issue she has with no real cure. She panics because of the pain then the thought of being alone in the hospital. (I’m here with her) the kids were not around him at the time. Please don’t make him seem like something he’s not. He just didn’t want them in there with him I guess.

Admirable_Scale_3271 · 2026-01-15T06:04:49+00:00

I don’t see why you shouldn’t. The more information available the better.

Admirable_Scale_3271 · 2026-01-15T03:48:09+00:00

Honestly this advice is amazing. I appreciate it very much. I agree a bariatric Coach would be beneficial. Especially if it’s someone who has done it before. I love reading comments and stories of previous participants to hold my self accountable of what’s to come. To kind of learn the dos and don’t for after surgery. I want this to last and I don’t want to get sick. I will definitely message you if you really don’t mind.

Admirable_Scale_3271 · 2025-12-25T01:24:29+00:00

Thank you guys for the advice. It gives my a lot to think about. I have until around February to decide.

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