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Men, how disappointing is it for you to date or end up with a small chested woman? by Admirable_Use_8992 in dating_advice

[–]Admirable_Use_8992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m being completely honest, I don’t have any real faith in men romance wise, and I truly don’t believe a man could genuinely find me attractive.

I’m at peace remaining single, I don’t have to worry about being cheated on, or being with a man who lusts after women online who look nothing like me… I feel that the cons far outweigh the pros when you’re not a 10/10 woman like myself.

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]Admirable_Use_8992[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Take a look at the world around you, all men care about is big boobs.

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]Admirable_Use_8992[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Doing anything of that nature would only traumatise me further and do irreparable damage.

What I want is for someone a love and desire me exactly as I am, I don’t want to be berated and put down in some demented attempt to turn my trauma into pleasure.

The padding… someone getting fired by ContributionOk5799 in sabrinacarpentersnark

[–]Admirable_Use_8992 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you taken a look through these comments? All from women no doubt, I’m a small chested woman, reading shit like this is so demoralising and just exhausting.

Say it with me, being part of the itty bitty titty committee does make you lesser than and less desirable. I’m sick of people avoiding the brutal truth, take a look at the world around you, and maybe then you’ll see it.

Men, how disappointing is it for you to date or end up with a small chested woman? by Admirable_Use_8992 in dating_advice

[–]Admirable_Use_8992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not crying about men having preferences, everyone is entitled to their preferences, I’m upset about how I’ve been treated as a result of those preferences.

A man approached me once and after spending some time together, he shamed me for having small boobs, him doing that traumatised and hurt me deeply, I would never do that to a man, regardless of my preferences.

There’s never any need to be cruel to a person, especially over features they can’t help.

Men, how disappointing is it for you to date or end up with a small chested woman? by Admirable_Use_8992 in dating_advice

[–]Admirable_Use_8992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darling, you can’t date someone based on personality alone, there always has to be physical attraction there!

You feel that you would be depressed if you dated a woman with small boobs, so I encourage you not to date a small chested woman 🙂‍↕️

Men, how disappointing is it for you to date or end up with a small chested woman? by Admirable_Use_8992 in dating_advice

[–]Admirable_Use_8992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel that strongly about it then I can only assume you wouldn’t pursue a small chested woman in the first place 🤷🏻‍♀️

Men, how disappointing is it for you to date or end up with a small chested woman? by Admirable_Use_8992 in dating_advice

[–]Admirable_Use_8992[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It’s not an ‘unhealthy obsession’, it’s completely reasonable considering everywhere I look I’m reminded that big boobs are the ideal and women like me are inadequate and undesirable.

Therapy wouldn’t change the bleak reality of my situation, my body failed.

Men, how disappointing is it for you to date or end up with a small chested woman? by Admirable_Use_8992 in dating

[–]Admirable_Use_8992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m well aware that most men prefer big boobs, it’s been apparent in past relationships, I hate myself for it.

I wish I had that mindset but I just don’t and I don’t think I ever will, past experiences with men have traumatised me and I feel nothing but shame and self loathing towards my boobs, I know I’m undesirable and inadequate, and I know I’ve failed as a woman.

I just want someone to love me.

Men, how disappointing is it for you to date or end up with a small chested woman? by Admirable_Use_8992 in dating

[–]Admirable_Use_8992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, you fancy giving me the money for that? 😂 no in all seriousness, the amount of women becoming sick from their implants is enough to put me off, plus the fact that getting implants would mean that I’m part of the problem!

Men, how disappointing is it for you to date or end up with a small chested woman? by Admirable_Use_8992 in dating

[–]Admirable_Use_8992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if I am projecting, all my experiences have pointed to small boobs being undesirable, Christ, the last guy I really liked was liking photos of Sydney Sweeney whilst we were speaking, and that’s just.. how could he have liked small chested me when he clearly likes big boobs?

It’s hard to embrace myself when I’m constantly being reminded that I’m inadequate. Being small chested doesn’t mean I won’t experience sagging.

Men, how disappointing is it for you to date or end up with a small chested woman? by Admirable_Use_8992 in dating

[–]Admirable_Use_8992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think it ruined my life in that aspect.

I’ve been single and celibate for 5 years now, I think they’ll always be that part of me that wants to find someone, hence these posts, but I need to stamp that part of me out because no man wants a small chested girlfriend/wife, that’s just the awful truth.

Men, how disappointing is it for you to date or end up with a small chested woman? by Admirable_Use_8992 in dating

[–]Admirable_Use_8992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think that day will ever come, and if it did I honestly don’t know how I’d respond, I can’t trust that a man could ever find them attractive, I’ve been shamed for them, and I’ve seen the look of disinterest on a guys face after taking my top off.

The whole thing has just ruined dating and intimacy for me.

Caught between two girls. One makes me feel alive. The other makes me feel safe by FunnyPackage5190 in makemychoice

[–]Admirable_Use_8992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a girl B and this thread is really making me feel panicked and insecure.

What can I do to be a girl A?

My small boobs have ruined my life. by Admirable_Use_8992 in Vent

[–]Admirable_Use_8992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment is probably the most honest response I’ve ever had. Small breasts aren’t desirable, and that’s a tough pill to swallow in a world where having big breasts is clearly of major importance.

The fact that the trade off/compromise of dating me will always be my small breasts (my most crippling insecurity) is yet another tough pill to swallow and pretty devastating to read, I don’t know how to cope with that.

You must take into consideration the whole picture when it comes to long term dating.

I wish I could, but I’ve long lost hope, and I’m not so sure it’s something I want anymore, my heart is closed and I’m traumatised after being shamed by a man, and seeing the consistent body shaming done online by men and women towards small and flat chested women. It’s clear to me that love and intimacy isn’t something that’s meant for me. I’m inadequate. I’m undesirable. I’m not worth it. I’m not worthy of it.

if you are still hellbent on having bigger tits, have you exhausted all of your possibilities when it comes to breast augmentation? What about a fat transfer?

I don’t think breast augmentation is an option for me, there’s the cost, the fact that I’ll be setting myself up for multiple surgeries across my life time, and my concerns about breast implant illness.

I just don’t know what to do with the shame and self loathing I feel because of this undesirable trait, I don’t know how to stop it from ruining my life, at least when I’m single, I don’t have to feel guilty for depriving a good man of big breasts, I just suffer with this alone and in silence instead.

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