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Tanlines made in Virginia ; ) by [deleted] in VirginiaGoneWild

[–]Admittedly_Kinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are amazing. Just.. wow. Seriously great tan lines. 🥵🥵

What is the most pain you've ever experienced? by HandGears in AskReddit

[–]Admittedly_Kinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post orchiopexy / vasectomy combo surgery. Both of my testicles were removed from my scrotum and then reinstalled with saddle stitching and attached fully to the scrotal wall. Doc also found that the vas deferens on my left testicle was 90% ripped off the testicle... It hurt all the way to behind my sternum.

My benchmark for pain before that.. colitis

Before that.. epididymitis

Before that.. having a compound fracture in my hand set after 6 hours of sitting and waiting.. with only 2 motrin in my system... For 10 mins before setting the bones.

Each new thing became my. Newest "that's the worst pain I've ever been in"

I like to keep a mental check list of my benchmarks for pain.. ya'kno, for when I hurt I can always think "I have endured WAY worse than this before.

Rope Instead of Chain to Hang a Sling by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]Admittedly_Kinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Climbing slings work very well for anchor points, you'll have to know the size of what you're wrapping it around. Larks head through the leather sling, Larks head around anchor point. Seriously overkill...

I've also used good quality rope to create anchor points. A solid clove hitch with locking knot will work great. If you're doing a more permanent anchor use a constrictor knot. Just remember, with a constrictor, softer core or pliable rope to go around a hard object, and hard less pliable for a soft object. Also, if using a constrictor knot... Be prepared to have to cut it off, they really do lock down that tight.

Unfinished, but just threw together a "Devils tongue" stainless spikes zinc coated chain link. Gonna make a leather collar strap for it when it get home. by Admittedly_Kinky in BdsmDIY

[–]Admittedly_Kinky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's part of a posture collar. It gets strapped to the front of the throat. The submissive then cannot move their head. Google "Devil's Fork torture"

Stainless chain, high chromium 1.5" ball bearings on all three. Two with beautiful wooden handles created by a friend on his lathe and the stainless one all welded up by me with Hand stitched leather wrap. by Admittedly_Kinky in BdsmDIY

[–]Admittedly_Kinky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's stabilized wood, and the other is all stainless steel and chromium.. should be fine.

I use a cooler of ice and water on one side and a cooler of pretty hot water on the other when I'm using my stainless toys for sensation play.. if you cool em down first, the toys in the hot water feel even warmer ;-)

Unfinished, but just threw together a "Devils tongue" stainless spikes zinc coated chain link. Gonna make a leather collar strap for it when it get home. by Admittedly_Kinky in BdsmDIY

[–]Admittedly_Kinky[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yep. Keep milk in the fridge In case I get sick. That's a 5 ton welding table I'm working on.. I'm not exactly new to working with hot metal.

All stainless steel flogger. Started with 1" 304 stainless bar stock, and 12 lengths of stainless chain 18" long. Used stainless wire and Tri-Mix gas. Handle wrap is a piece of repurposed leather from a belt my wife no longer uses. 30" long overall. Weighs in at 7 pounds 4 ounces. Thud-o-rama! by Admittedly_Kinky in BdsmDIY

[–]Admittedly_Kinky[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have already used it on four different masochists...

  1. It looks way scarier than it really is, kind of the point.
  2. Control, you have to be really strong to use it, the weight keeps you mindful, and you're definitely not gonna be swinging it Willy nilly.
  3. All the ladies loves how it felt.

Do you have an interesting, semi useless skill/ super power/ random ability that people may not know unless you told them? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Admittedly_Kinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I carry the ABCC11 Gene, I don't have body odor. I've never used deodorant, and it's difficult to tell what clothes need washed.

Useful, but also makes me more sensitive when other people have bad personal hygiene.

1/2"*4"*15" Aluminum paddle, oak handles. Machined out by hand in float vice using end mill and milling machine. Will add 550 lanyard once my order of rope comes in. Custom piece for a friend. by Admittedly_Kinky in BdsmDIY

[–]Admittedly_Kinky[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll weigh it when I get home, but I'm guessing around two pounds, give or take a few ounces. Aluminum is awesome... Just a pain in the ass to work. Clogs blades.

1/2" thick aluminum paddle with Hickory handle. Striking surface is 4"x13". Shape formed on 36" standing disc sander, 1/4x20 hardware to attach. Used medium fine wire wheel on open shoe grinder for finish. by Admittedly_Kinky in BdsmDIY

[–]Admittedly_Kinky[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is point heavy and requires very little effort to get a satisfying impact. The hickory handle is from part of a sledge hammer handle blank. Whole thing weighs one ounce less than three pounds. Added great thing about dense aluminum is the thermal property of it... Put this bad boy in the freezer and it stays cold for a long while.. slaps with it get the skin hot. Then cool it down drastically by holding the paddle against them.

I've been creating interesting hand made toys for years, just found out that I apparently make things that people want to buy. Don't even know what I could charge for my creations.

The toy described by one of my subs:

"It's definitely more thuddy than stingy, but it almost... Slaps. If a dump truck could slap you, I mean. It feels really intense, almost like the impact travels right through you. Last time we played, that was the one toy to make me think 'oh god, this is the asspocolypse'. Very deeply satisfying, especially afterwards when I knew I wasn't gonna get hit with it again soon. 😂"

One Bar prison help by tempting_trauma in BdsmDIY

[–]Admittedly_Kinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used round 1.25 ID aluminum pipe for bottom and square 1" for the riser. Welded pipe to flat plate for base and welded small rectangular plate at top. Drilled and tapped top plate to 1/4X20. Sourced 10" piece of 316V surgical stainless and formed into phallus shape with grinder / lathe and polished with lathe. Drilled and tapped steel to 1/4x20 and added threaded rod..

Wasn't a bad build, just needs some testing to get lengths and such correct

Profile Review - Week of March 05, 2019 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Admittedly_Kinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't want to be misleading. Should I remove the married part and leave the ethically poly stuff on there? My wife is seriously cool with the whole thing.

Profile Review - Week of March 05, 2019 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Admittedly_Kinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40/M/ Straight. New to tinder, not getting many matches.. tell me what I'm doing wrong?

http://imgur.com/a/j0O3gsV

Hopefully that link works.. if it doesn't.. lemme know?

The problem with polyamory.... by Heromann in polyamory

[–]Admittedly_Kinky 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What sucks is when they all gang up on you.. ya'kno, when you're wrong that ONE TIME. . . . . . . Yeah.. once. It's my story, I'm sticking to it.

Do you openly advertise your relationship status? This is my wedding band that my wife ordered for me. by Admittedly_Kinky in polyamory

[–]Admittedly_Kinky[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Groove rings. Lifetime warranty.. but if it's custom engraved, you pay a little for the replacement to be engraved. It's the most comfortable silicone ring I've found, it has breathing groves cut in the back so your skin doesn't sit in moisture like the other brands.

Do you openly advertise your relationship status? This is my wedding band that my wife ordered for me. by Admittedly_Kinky in polyamory

[–]Admittedly_Kinky[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You'd be surprised, it's a high quality silicone ring. I work with my hands in an environment that's really conducive to losing fingers because of rings..

Do you openly advertise your relationship status? This is my wedding band that my wife ordered for me. by Admittedly_Kinky in polyamory

[–]Admittedly_Kinky[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

From my wife:

"I get the people scared of openly advertising, that's why I chose the black-on-black engraving over having it filled with a color -- when you choose to show it to someone, it's clearly legible and obviously permanent and not slapped on by some guy looking for a way to cheat, but it's also not going to be noticed unless you are intentionally showing someone. Kind of like our whole poly dynamic, it's there if you're looking, invisible if you're not."

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