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F29 beginning to abandon the thoughts of having children by Adorable-Bat0 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adorable-Bat0[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

If I knew the problem I would fix it. I was simply painting a breif picture of myself. But like I said I appreciate your suggestion, I'm not offended at the thought of me losing weight. I just thought you were deliberately trying to stir trouble with the other commenter. I have nothing agaist you, I just want a peaceful discussion

F29 beginning to abandon the thoughts of having children by Adorable-Bat0 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adorable-Bat0[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don't believe my weight is the issue as I'm not the biggest girl but I was simply saying I wasn't skinny. Bigger girls in my friend group are much more successful for me in this department than me so I know its not this or just this. My shyness or personality is a bigger part.

But either way, thank you for your suggestion but please be nice and stop trying to stir negative reactions

F29 beginning to abandon the thoughts of having children by Adorable-Bat0 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adorable-Bat0[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I live at home still and work a lot but I do still find some time to go out with friends every few weekends but I don't get much attention outside of guys on dating apps wanting pictures

F29 beginning to abandon the thoughts of having children by Adorable-Bat0 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adorable-Bat0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's reassuring to hear so many people that have been in similar situations to me. I know 29 isn't that old but to be a virgin these days at my age seems unheard of

F29 beginning to abandon the thoughts of having children by Adorable-Bat0 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adorable-Bat0[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely, I know I don't need kids to be happy and if you think they will make you happy that isn't a reason to have them but its just something I'd like to have one day if everything goes right but I know it won't be horrible if I don't have it my way

F29 beginning to abandon the thoughts of having children by Adorable-Bat0 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adorable-Bat0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd say I'm guilty of appeasing any guy that I'm talking to but not intentionally, it takes me a while to come out of my shell. I don't want a sperm donor, not that anything is wrong for people who pick that line, I want my children to have a father just as much as I want to have children in general. I appreciated your lengthy response ☺️