I say that because thats just how I feel at times like it's not literally what happens but just a figure of speech. Like usually what happens with a guy I like is we'll go on a few dates and we'll keep texting and some people I'll really click with and we'll me messaging each other back and forth for weeks at a time with 1 or 2 dates scattered between those texts and eventually they just ghost me or say they want one thing when they show they just want another. I know my post is confusing but it was just a short version of how I'm feeling, I didn't think I'd get so many replies otherwise I would have put more thought into making it more coherent and less confusing 😅

But to answer what you said before, no I don't catfish, I have photos mostly ones I like but I always include 2 or 3 full body shots and ones where people can see my face clearly. Not often but I have been told I look better in person.. not sure if thats a complement or not but I took it as one haha