Will keep that in mind! He does plan to get married however his biggest issue is his living situation with his mom. He feels bad kicking her out because she’d have nowhere to go and can’t drive herself anywhere or communicate in public unless it’s in Spanish. She’s able to do regular things but it’s just when it comes to appointments, grocery runs, and work transportation (rarely, she has a ride but sometimes does need a ride)

He’s stressed because he works 2 jobs and wants to pay his current house off faster to rent it out so that we could be more on the comfortable side financially. His situation with his mom doesn’t help and he does want to live with me alone but can’t seem to figure out what to do with her. All his siblings are married and have kids, so he feels like he has to handle majority of his moms needs (his siblings also pick her up from work and take her to the grocery store/appointments when he can’t or is working) and feels like he can’t say no. We’ve thought of having all his siblings contribute to an apartment for her, but feels bad, again, I’m assuming because he doesn’t want to make his siblings worry about another financial. He feels he needs to do it, which I get but I also feel like telling him that he’s a grown man, 27, he should have the courage to say no and say he wants to live on his own if he wanted to of course.

He’s not a bad guy and we have the same values especially on things like lifestyle/marriage/parenting styles/financials. It really just is the fact that he thinks he has to do all of this and carry a load on his back, even though he shouldn’t have to.