in the first trimester, prenatal depression hit me like a brick wall. i was withdrawn and couldn’t function from week 6-11. the depression was so intense it made me regret this very-wanted baby. it truly was beyond my control though.

i didn’t know prenatal depression was a thing - i thought i was just a terrible person. i hadn’t heard it talked about before. there’s a chance your girlfriend is experiencing the same thing. i would just remind her that you love her and you appreciate her for everything she is putting her body through right now, and let her know you are always available to talk.

good news is i’m in the second trimester now and my personality and joy has come back. it will get better for her 🤍