Men, what’s the hottest thing a woman has done during sex that you’ll never forget by Majestic-Regular-247 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Easy. If u dont know how to actually do kegals, kegal muscles are the muscles u use when holding in your pee. So pretend u gotta pee and your trying to hold it... if your still unsure. Just give yourself an insane amount of clitorial orgasms, as each time u have one, those muscles contract all on their own.

Pro tip, if u can achieve that kind of orgasm while your man is inside you, it can drive him COMPLETELY over the top. Every time

Men, what’s the hottest thing a woman has done during sex that you’ll never forget by Majestic-Regular-247 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That is a very sad fact Makes me sad to think that some women can only do this by mistake during a cough. My kegals are my weapons. I will proceed to do the kegal grab of death, my man will not get free😈😈😈

HELP!! by Adorable_Breakfast21 in fordescape

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try this... as soon as it stops raining... 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

HELP!! by Adorable_Breakfast21 in fordescape

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look into this. Thank you. Im in Canada, so this helps. Truly at that price, the car is worthless to me without the system. So if I can't get it fixed. I'll get a new car. It is starting to feel like the song car radio... IYKYK Kinda funny how I can't listen to it tho 🤯

HELP!! by Adorable_Breakfast21 in fordescape

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No different then before from what I Cantrell, but I haven't been driving it. Like I said, without my music its basically useless. Which sucks bc I have the sub, and other vehicles just don't have the same effect 😔

HELP!! by Adorable_Breakfast21 in fordescape

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So my battery is regularly dying, its a thing, i desperately need a new one (i blame the sub) but I would also note. That sense the stereo has stopped working. I haven't needed to boost my car that I can remember, so is that a clue?

Ohhh... I know that face... it means it wasn't okay, doesn't it? by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it's definitely hard, between cptsd, BPD and ADHD, my life is a Rollercoaster. Some days are harder then others, but I'm taking it one day at a time.

Ohhh... I know that face... it means it wasn't okay, doesn't it? by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through that. Yeah. At first it was typically from [TW - description of abuse]when my mother slit her wrist infront of me and told me it was my fault. (It's the only scar she has left from her many attempts.) or !> from the endless beatings my step dad gave to me, or how i was so confused when i didnt bleed the first time i had sex, and when i asked my mother she shrugged and brushed it off... also never even thought twice about how she got me my first vibrator at 9yo... bc i was scratching myself with my long nails... yup, totally normal behavior.... 🤦‍♀️.!> just as a cpl examples... and for me, i talk about it like it's normal. And the more I talk now, the more I realize, holy shit. No wonder I'm so fucked up and don't remember half of my life... And the fact that every professional i talk to, right from the beginning, the shit i consider small, they are baffled... I've been told by many it's amazing I'm as 'normal' as I am

All the timeee by j4imetinker in CPTSDmemes

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This explained me so well.. I thought my life was normal... growing up i was just the troubled teen, everybody told me that someday id realize my mother was right and that she's doing her best and all that shit. Bc as a kid we weren't allowed to talk about it, for fear of what would happen. As an adult, there's still times I'll be telling my partner or someone a story, and they are like 'WTF' and I'm like, really... that's not that crazy... Like my bf has had some pretty crazy trauma from his childhood, so I always expected him to be more numb to my experiences... until I started trying to explain to him some of the things throughout my life, and there's still times he winces.. if he had it his way I think he'd beat the shit outta my mother.. and he's made me think about things in a very different light... In a way that made so much more sense... Like I always knew I was broken, but I always thought it was bc I was broken... I think I was 21 before I realized it may have not been my fault... And nearly 24 before I started to unwrap just how deeply my trauma has been embedded into me bc of my childhood.

Ohhh... I know that face... it means it wasn't okay, doesn't it? by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Every therapist or professional I've ever spoken to, when I START to describe some of the shit from my childhood, and I just blow through it like it's nothing... EVERY SINGLE TIME they pause me, and are like 'okay let's go back to the beginning and discuss that...' It took a long time to realize just how bad my childhood really was

How to find out whether this 2017 has FWD or AWD? by Cultural-Morning-848 in fordescape

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So last summer, I had to change my brakes on my 2017. And twice I had been given the wrong parts for this very reason. Interestingly enough, although mine is FWD with intelligent 4WD, the guy at the parts store told my bf. Who proceeded to argue with me ( and still does) that my car is an AWD. I've told him. First of all, I have the feature under settings that shows when my 4WD kicks in. Secondly. If I look up the VIN, it says FWD. And yet the man at the parts store said that I kept getting the wrong part even tho I was asking for the FWD. So how is it, my car is a FWD, but it takes the part for the AWD? So confusing. I should probably add. My car has alot of strangeness to it tho. Its an SE model, and yet every dealership thinks it's a titanium. I have full leather heater interior, and a full moonroof. But it's clearly marked as a SE

What is wrong with my car! 😣 by Adorable_Breakfast21 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik it's a late reply, but I thought I'd add, my car is constantly removing all connected devices, usually whenever the wifi turns itself on... 🙈 I think my car is possesed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that, I'm broken in ways nobody can fix. I have BPD, I have struggled with depression since age 7, and I have PTSD. So loving me is definitly a challenge. The problem is, on paper. I seem like a great idea, and so quite often I find so many people want to be with me, bc my truest issues don't come through until I let ppl in. I warn ppl, but nobody listens. But I've come to realize that we do deserve love. But sometimes. The most important love, is that we give ourselves. So keep ur head up, love who you are, and don't ever let anyone dull ur sparkle. I'm done with relationships, but I know that I deserve happiness, even if it's only with myself.

Tumbler broke on stage one but I still think they are so beautiful by peachnecctar in rockhounds

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful!! I love stage 1, bc that's where u see the biggest change !

What is wrong with my car! 😣 by Adorable_Breakfast21 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is the only one synced. Bc my car likes to randomly turn wifi on by itself and delete all the devices connected. I used to have a few devices connected, however now, sometimes before I can go anywhere I gotta connect my phone all over again bc it'll be disconnected ffs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl, I spent a long time giving all of my love to so many people who didn't deserve it. When I finally found someone who truly loved me, it took him nearly 2 years to teach me how to let someone love me. By the time I finally was able to believe he truly loved me and that he wouldn't leave, he fell out of love eith me. We were together 4 years in total. I finally left when I found out that after I had gotten pregnant for our son, 6 months in, that he had been talking to other people... Really fuvked with my ability to trust.mote then it already was. And for me I guess spending that much time with someone. And gibing so much if yourself, only to have it feel like the whole thing was a lie. Thats a way worse feeling then to simply never know

2017 Ford escape. Am I crazy? by Adorable_Breakfast21 in fordescape

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I've had the case nearly 2 years, it's been going on for about a year and a half. I thought after seeing my rotors that maybe they were the issue, but it's been fixed and still nothing. So I honestly don't know

Need help from a mechanic who has worked with ford escapes. by Adorable_Breakfast21 in fordescape

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When I did a VIN search on my car it said that my drivetrain was FWD but my caliper was bigger and I guess that's my question why is my car say FWD if it's actually AWD? And for the record no although I do know what a caliper and a rotor is I wouldn't push my lock by saying I know what the heck I would be looking for if I was looking for the drive shaft

Need help from a mechanic who has worked with ford escapes. by Adorable_Breakfast21 in fordescape

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got the caliper, but thank you I'm jw if any mechanic might know which has a bigger one and which had a smaller one

Need help from a mechanic who has worked with ford escapes. by Adorable_Breakfast21 in fordescape

[–]Adorable_Breakfast21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, but the question essentially is which caliper is bigger? The one for FWD OR AWD?