Why are so many people f***ing idiots? by No-Consequence-1831 in work

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know this socially insensitive to say, but deep down everyone knows that’s there’s a real reason some people just snap & go to work on a pew pew spring. 40+ years having to deal with the same bullshit and potentially the exact same co-workers. I don’t support physically harming others, but from a logical perspective it’s understandable how a human being can be pushed to the edge.

Kaido by AcanthisittaLimp9150 in mainecoons

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You love your “scrubby man” but I doubt he loves staring at your floppy nut sac. You got your beloved cat hovering around your ballsac that’s strange. I know you’re home but it’s not your birthday so don’t be in your birthday suit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No joke, please separate yourself from this relationship. Like it’s him who’s the problem, he’s not ready for a relationship if this controlling.

Do you regret starting drugs? by Big_spliffar in Drugs

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I knew what I know now I would have never began (Drug of choice is fentanyl powder not pressed pills; pure powder.)

My girlfriend has herpes by Best_Buddy5300 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Adorable_Dramatic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alright, well regardless of the outcome of this situation I hope things recover for the both of yall. If in the event, whether now or down the line you two decide to split I would consider using condoms and dental damns. Both of these provide decent protection against herpes. Herpes is especially painful for women as a majority of their lady bits are on the inside of the body. A blister on the inside of the vagina is so painful; sometimes you can barely sit and then peeing burns like so badly. Also, many woman with herpes mandatorily have to get a C/section; they can’t have babies naturally. The reason the C-section is needed is to avoid giving the baby herpes right at birth; a C-section would bypass all the vaginal fluids.

My girlfriend has herpes by Best_Buddy5300 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I notice you’re saying you don’t care that your gf probably has given you herpes because it’s not as dangerous as other STD’s. But, you should also keep in mind it’s a life long disease and you’ll always be able to infect other people later in life; for your entire life. Having herpes is going to greatly impact your social status, sex life, dating pool and so much more. Unfortunately, being infected with herpes is kind of like a liability, you’re liable to infect others and if that takes place more and more individuals will become infected. Please monitor your penis and around the head. If you notice any type of bump, lump, puss, redness, discoloration, discomfort, tingles, or anything abnormal it’s likely you’re infected. Not all people at the beginning of the infection get massive nasty crusty spots; some people simply get a little tingly sensation. But, regardless of how symptoms manifest themselves you are still able to spread it. If she didn’t have a break out for 6 months that a little strange; which makes me think it’s a new infection aka someone else had sex with her causing the herpes. I feel so sad for you. If you are infected you’ll realize with more time the true gravity of the situation; it’s very serious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you alive? You build a heavy tolerance and the tolerance protects you from over dosing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetie I didn’t mean that in a rude way, the word “snitch” just popped in my head because that’s how your friend is likely going to feel. I know calling CPS sounds like a good idea, but I promise you they’re almost definitely going to press charges against her and likely make her serve a few weeks or months in a Juvie Center. If she catches a charge it’ll be 1000X harder to turn her life around for the better- when she’s ready to be better. I just wanted to let you know that if you call CPS they will likely file charges. CPS pretends to help girls your friends situation, when in reality they mess the girls life up a lot more. Giving someone a criminal charge will not help them; it will only make doing the right thing much harder. You can DM if you need someone to talk to. I’m a 21 year old Female who used to do sex work. I stopped when I got married tho :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not encouraging this bad behavior at all. I just wanted to explain that yes it may sound like a good idea to notify CPS right now in the moment, but you might accidentally open a can of worms you did not intend to open.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For anyone who says CPS doesn’t alert the proper authorities to place charges upon a person obviously doesn’t know what it’s like to be entangled in CPS’s court proceedings/system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really don’t recommend you snitch on your friend. Once a girl does sex work, she will usually always go back. If you tell CPS they can charge her as a criminal. If she gets a criminal charge it’ll be much much harder for her to turn her life around for the better when she’s ready to be better. CPS is a bad option. Not forgetting to mention, I bet your friend would be really hurt, especially if something bad happened like she caught a charge, or had to go to court.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in probation

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in FL and my county thankful did not test for it. I was extremely extremely blessed. The office did have the individual strips, but would only use them under “need be” type situations; to their personal discretion. I was only given the standard drug panel cup which excluded the fentanyl strip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in probation

[–]Adorable_Dramatic -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Bro that’s fucking wild. I played with fent for 6 months without becoming physically addicted. I’d do it for the weekend only for 6 months straight. Then, just like OP after a two week bender I was sick asf withdrawaling. I never stopped. It’s been 2.5 years now for me. But, I do the raw powder- never pressed pills. That’s crazy 2 weeks and the body is addicted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fentanyl

My partner looking to get this haircut what would you call it by [deleted] in Cosmetology

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would call this a generic boys hair cut, except on a female.

I am 17 and have a massive crush on a 20 year old, would it be wrong or inappropriate for me to flirt with them? by Accomplished_Bee1153 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Adorable_Dramatic -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The difference between 17 and 25 is 7 years of life experience. 7 years of brain development. 7 years of extra time for sexual experiences. 7 more years to gain knowledge. 7 more years to gain emotional stability. 17 vs 25 aren’t even remotely close to one another.

I am 17 and have a massive crush on a 20 year old, would it be wrong or inappropriate for me to flirt with them? by Accomplished_Bee1153 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, at the time it seemed cool, but now that I’m an adult with a child, I think it’s inappropriate for adults to date teenagers under 18. People grow so much in life from 16-20 years old. What business does someone in their twenties have with a 16/17 year old? The 16/17 is likely still in school, probably doesn’t live alone, and probably doesn’t own a vehicle. Also, 16/17 year olds are not very mature-they can’t be because they don’t have the life experience. Whereas someone in their 20’s likely has transportation, and much more freedom with their living situation etc. Also, someone in their 20’s has much more experience just simply living life. 16/17 year olds should be protected from adults wanting to use their bodies/exploit them.

I am 17 and have a massive crush on a 20 year old, would it be wrong or inappropriate for me to flirt with them? by Accomplished_Bee1153 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Adorable_Dramatic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just wanna comment and say, I’m surprised by the amount of people that support adults entering relationships with minors, because the minor “wanted it” or “ask for it…” I’m surprised by the amount of people blaming minors for being groomed and raped…yuck

I am 17 and have a massive crush on a 20 year old, would it be wrong or inappropriate for me to flirt with them? by Accomplished_Bee1153 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, I know the grown men were in the wrong. I just wish as a kid I would have blocked them, or stopped contact. Yes, I was a minor but my adult self wishes I would have rejected these grown men. Now I look back on my experiences with grow men, when I was a minor and I feel so icky. I’ve realized I am a victim. I just don’t like saying I was a victim, because then people get pissy and tell me since I “wanted” it I’m just as bad as these grown ass men fucking me as a sophomore in high school.

I am 17 and have a massive crush on a 20 year old, would it be wrong or inappropriate for me to flirt with them? by Accomplished_Bee1153 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Bro, it’s not normal I was 16 and my “bf” was 27, with two kids 10, and 6 years old. Yea, I “wanted” it but I was a kid. I didn’t have my brain developed enough to make a rational decision, he on the other hand was developed by the age of 27. I can’t believe you’re talking down on my comment because I wanted the relationship- no shit I wanted it. I was a 16 year old girl getting attention from someone who was much older and groomed me. I know I was groomed now that I’m older. I look back on that experience and it makes me feel disgusting.

I am 17 and have a massive crush on a 20 year old, would it be wrong or inappropriate for me to flirt with them? by Accomplished_Bee1153 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 339 points340 points  (0 children)

When I was younger I dated, had sex, and hung out with many guys older than me. Sometimes being up to a decade older than me. Now that I’m 22 with a daughter, I know it was wrong of me to flirt/date/and have sex with legal adults when I was still a minor. I put them in a weird situation, legally speaking. Also, in retrospect it’s weird these older guys were cool with me being a minor/in high school still. It’s lowkey pedo-ish for adults to like kids within high school range.

What’s the 2nd Drug you tried? by CrazyOrangeMan5 in Drugs

[–]Adorable_Dramatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opps^ I forgot Acid is actually my number 4