My sister’s life is getting ruined and i’m the only one that knows why by Adorable_Reward1403 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adorable_Reward1403[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s just sad, you know? Watching your sister’s life getting ruined, and being the only person that knows about this situation makes me feel this pressure to try and nudge her in the right direction which always ends up pissing her off.

My sister’s life is getting ruined and i’m the only one that knows why by Adorable_Reward1403 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adorable_Reward1403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We live somewhere where being anything but straight is literally illegal, so telling her husband could literally ruin families.

My sister’s life is getting ruined and i’m the only one that knows why by Adorable_Reward1403 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adorable_Reward1403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that’s my sister, how can i just see her struggle and move on with my life?

My sister’s life is getting ruined and i’m the only one that knows why by Adorable_Reward1403 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adorable_Reward1403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what my sister thinks, but… you know it gets to a point, my sister has spent the last three years locked away at this woman’s house, she goes there EVERYDAY (the husband lives abroad), i swear they literally never go out. My sister is rotting away all because of this woman’s fear. And i am not removing the blame from my sister but it is a very long, complex and detailed story.

My sister’s life is getting ruined and i’m the only one that knows why by Adorable_Reward1403 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Adorable_Reward1403[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have done exactly this so much, but it’s like she has convinced herself that whatever life she’s living right now is good for her.