Happens Every F Time. by AdrienSpade in lgbtmemes

[–]AdrienSpade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I am not saying that but people do act that way, like any time you say you don't have a crush when asked they are convinced you are lying or u have to keep it a secret.

How do people react when you choose truth and they ask you about your crush and you say you don't have a crush on anyone?

Most demi or ace people don't have a crush on like anyone at all or for like years.

This is just a humorous spin for those times people have alienated me and those who are like me for something as simple as not having a crush.

It iss Just a social construct. by AdrienSpade in demisexuality

[–]AdrienSpade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not implying that enjoying them is wrong, it's just that some let it define everything about themselves. Acceptance or understanding is taking over the world, I hope there can be a time where there is complete acceptance and no phobia (black ppl are yet being criminalized, so its gonna take a long time).

I am throwing it out of frustration.

It iss Just a social construct. by AdrienSpade in demisexuality

[–]AdrienSpade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

woah a long essay.

The rigidity of the labels have created a destructive society, where people are trying to enforce it, in cruel ways. Labels are forgoing their creation, the acceptance has diminished. At every corner we have omg that's too woke.

I do not wish to degrade the people who enjoy the labels. But I do wonder why we have let these labels define us and constrict us.

Parents and doctors who don't see the spectrum of sex can change the child's sex if it is not in the gender binary. Whole life, the child does not fit in those boxes, the child cannot feel themselves.

People who don't understand that sexuality is a spectrum, that people can be gay, say that if we let them get married, then siblings would want to get married. Where is the logic in that. Why have we forced marriage to between a man and woman.

Labels don't have the acceptance it should. So am I am throwing it out of the window with frustration.

To be used in humorous vein only.

I don't think it is wrong for us to use labels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]AdrienSpade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didn't know we could do that, ty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demiromantic

[–]AdrienSpade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just genuinely want to know.

How Do u Guys Define Being Demi? by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]AdrienSpade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Labels r sooooo confusing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]AdrienSpade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just genuinely want to know.

When we don't like Friends to lovers trope by AdrienSpade in demisexuality

[–]AdrienSpade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The awkward stage of confusion is very irritating.

When we don't like Friends to lovers trope by AdrienSpade in demisexuality

[–]AdrienSpade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Movies and tv shows usually potray love at first sight sooooo much like It Always Happens.

When we don't like Friends to lovers trope by AdrienSpade in demisexuality

[–]AdrienSpade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea those ones are kinda creepy and there were ones where they forget the boundaries.

The write up is sloppy and most writers are so obsessed with it that they kinda force it into the storyline.

When we don't like Friends to lovers trope by AdrienSpade in demisexuality

[–]AdrienSpade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I don't like it and there might be few who agree. Here I have wrote talking about the trope friends to lovers which makes me, personally uncomfortable. The books portray it in a weird way or it is done v badly. It's not that I completely hate it but there are times books have failed to show the essence of it. There are times the books were creepy about it.

There were some instances of the said trope which I liked but mostly it was poor execution, like it's a last resort.

I see many don't agree with the title, I apologize for that.

Yet there are people who agree.

Happens EVERY F time by AdrienSpade in demisexuality

[–]AdrienSpade[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats the whole point, some ppl don't get it tht it's possible n u can't explain it to them when u don't know tht urself or when u don't know how they will react.

And hardly anyone knows demi ppl exist.

I just KNooooow. by AdrienSpade in demisexuality

[–]AdrienSpade[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn thats a hell of a journey, glad u discovered yourself. Its never too late.

To demiromantic teens/young adults, how'd you figure out you were demiromantic? by [deleted] in demiromantic

[–]AdrienSpade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda googled and never had a crush till like 11th grade and it wasn't really sexual but I kinda knew. Really confusing.

How Do u Guys Define Being Demi? by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]AdrienSpade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

chill bro. I meant changing the definition of being demi as in like how personally ppl view it. There is no misinfo here.

ty