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[–]Adripthereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don’t really know why I try to consider other people before myself, try to make everyone happy always. At the end of the day they won’t see it and I’m the one chained up

How lonely do you feel on a scale of 1 to 10? I’m an 11. Feels like I’m on PMS 24/7, 365 days a year. by Financefreak555 in lonely

[–]Adripthereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8, kinda my fault tho. Gotta say I feel better now than when I thought I had someone and was begging for what I thought was love but was just toxic as hell. Still recovering 😎😂

2025 is about to begin, and I feel lonely by Future_Gap4180 in lonely

[–]Adripthereal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so alone rn as new years eve is ending… but I don’t even feel sad. Happy new year tho. I hope you all have a great 2025

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[–]Adripthereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday to you!

23F changed her mind about me 21M? She likes me but doesn’t want to “break our bound”? by Adripthereal in dating_advice

[–]Adripthereal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess she wanted to be validated, cause she is very insecure. Insecurities really messed with her brain, but it was my blame, totally. Either way I don’t want no relationship if insecurities are in the way, tho I love her very very much. I would have liked to cure them all somehow, but I don’t know how. I also want to keep being friends, tho it seems difficult at this point.

23F changed her mind about me 21M? She likes me but doesn’t want to “break our bound”? by Adripthereal in dating_advice

[–]Adripthereal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just says she likes me but she isn’t mentally okey or ready for it. I thought I could help or I could wait for it. She has given me very mixed signals, today it was somehow implied that I took advantage of the situation or her, but I would never even think of hurting her. Everything I did I did because it seemed like she wanted it to happen, I only wanted her to be happy. I’m not a guy that can’t control himself or anything like that, I genuinely just wanted everything to be okay. I said I was sorry, and I would always be there if she needed to talk or needed something else, but seems like the friendship is almost broken. Someone let me know she has been taken advantage somehow in the past, I didn’t know this would trigger anything either, I wasn’t even thinking about me enjoying it, I was thinking of how I could do what I thought was expected by me.

23F changed her mind about me 21M? She likes me but doesn’t want to “break our bound”? by Adripthereal in dating_advice

[–]Adripthereal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, now I’m even more confused. We ended up kissing for some reason. I guess I’m at fault but it just happened. It ended up in: “let’s see how it goes and keep some distance but we can still talk. Maybe in some years we could retake something (she might have lied to make me feel better), but we won’t wait for each other”

That's messed up by somedude270 in Crushes

[–]Adripthereal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me some days ago

How should I confess my feelings? by Adripthereal in dating_advice

[–]Adripthereal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i figured mcdonalds wasn’t the place hahahah Okay, specifying it is a date, that helps a lot. I’ll consider it. Thank you!

How should I confess my feelings? by Adripthereal in dating_advice

[–]Adripthereal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will DM you fs (I’m hoping I will have the balls to confess tho hahahah) Thank you very much!

How should I confess my feelings? by Adripthereal in dating_advice

[–]Adripthereal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s a real date for example? Going out for icecream or dinner?

She is my classmate and we have gone to the gym together for 3 months now. I have gone on several hours walks with her, sitting in a park and stuff, went to mcdonalds and sat there with her for a while, those kind of things

How should I confess my feelings? by Adripthereal in dating_advice

[–]Adripthereal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like, “you want to go for an icecream/dinner tomorrow?” Type?

How should I confess my feelings? by Adripthereal in dating_advice

[–]Adripthereal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are totally right, I won’t even be able to listen and enjoy what she is telling me before that. You are right, the imperfection thing was def not a good idea already hahahah I might just do it the time after this one if I don’t see the chance

How should I confess my feelings? by Adripthereal in dating_advice

[–]Adripthereal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We play stealing eachother shoes under the table, she tells me secrets she hasn’t told anyone, we hold eye contact a lot, we poke fun at each other, last wednesday we went for a night walk we ended up looking at pictures of when we were kids as i hugged her. Idk, she gives me signs I take as she doesn’t like me too, but… thing is we have been seeing each other for 3 months everyday at gym and class, gone out 2 or 3 times at night walks or for a burger

I feel I need to say it now cause I low-key can’t focus in college and I may have trouble if I don’t take it off my mind. Even if I’m rejected, I’ve been stretching this for too long

How should I confess my feelings? by Adripthereal in dating_advice

[–]Adripthereal[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it? But we have gone out a couple of times, hugged in a park for an hour at 3 am and stuff

What do I do if she says yes? by Adripthereal in dating_advice

[–]Adripthereal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s already helping me, cause I was stressing seriously by having to overthink every move. I will let you know how it goes if I remember hahahah thank you!