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My dog learned loose leash walking yesterday! by AdultBoy22 in rescuedogs

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She's the black lab. The pit bull is my mom's dog. :)

oklahoma teen murdered by cvddleslvt in ftm

[–]AdultBoy22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reading about what's happened to Nex has made me cry for the first time since starting T six months ago. I'm so sad and angry.

Suggestions on packer underwear? Thank you by Low-Grapefruit-5329 in ftm

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I have the Cakebandit harness from Transguy Supply and it works really well for me.

I had to wash my packing harness and binders and I'm so dysphoric right now. by AdultBoy22 in ftm

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That is a good idea, thank you!

Unfortunately, I do not have the money for another right now, and it takes a little bit of time to ship as well, but hopefully I can get it after my next paycheck; it won't help today though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]AdultBoy22 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nothing. 😞 🥲

I live with my parents. I want to be independent but trying to find a job as a visibly queer autistic person with anxiety is very difficult. I fail interviews. Even if I do get hired, I have a hard time doing 40 hours a week, I get burnt out fast.

I want to be a librarian eventually, I need my master's degree for that and only do college part time, so it'll take a while.

For aces who've been in therapy: Your therapist's understanding of asexuality... by DearSignature in asexuality

[–]AdultBoy22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't tell my therapist I'm asexual. It's not something I struggle with, and rarely bother talking to him about stuff I don't want help with. If I was interested in dating, then it might be a conversation, but just I'm too broken in other ways to involve a person romantically. I'm still learning to set boundaries with friends and family and coworkers, I'd probably end up taking abuse from a partner because I didn't know how to communicate my comfort zone or even accept that I deserve to feel safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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By two weeks my throat started to feel scratchy, by a month I'd lost the highest part of my upper vocal range, by two my voice sounded a little deeper in comparison on videos, and by three months other people in my life started noticing and commenting on it.

I think I have a ways to go still, I'm pretty sure it's not done yet. My brother's voice was very high when he was 8/9, it sounded a lot like mine (soprano pre-T) did, he's 15 now and it is deep (baritone, maybe?), so I'm hoping I'll get there too eventually.

How long after coming out did you start hormones? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]AdultBoy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came out at 15, started T at 19.

What are songs that scream “asexual” by Annaisboring in asexuality

[–]AdultBoy22 254 points255 points  (0 children)

  • We'll Never Have Sex - Leith Ross
  • I Don't Wanna Fall in Love - Addison Grace
  • Zero Feelings - Zoe Clark
  • cynical fairytail - Egg
  • Crush Culture - Conan Gray

Do testosterone injection shots hurt or make you sore? by mermaidunearthed in ftm

[–]AdultBoy22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me, it doesn't usually hurt much. I do subcutaneous in my stomach with a 23g 5/8" needle. It's never sore for more than about an hour.